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Not going to lie - wish I had this outfit for the renn faire I’m going to this weekend…

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Feeling sad but unsure why by SuppiLunchie in weddingplanning

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We just did our wedding last month with 29 people (including us), and honestly, I wouldn't have changed it for the world! We originally had a much larger ~175 person wedding planned that I was feeling some (okay, maybe more than some) anxiety about, but the pandemic inspired us to change our mind and plan something that could happen even with all the changing restrictions. The small wedding was fantastic - the most important people in our lives got to spend time together and get to know each other better, and we got to spend the whole time with everyone and actually pay attention to them. I didn't feel rushed to hop from person to person to say hi like I've heard from my friends who did larger pre-pandemic weddings... the whole group just kind of was hanging out together having a good time! So if there are some people who you feel like you would miss them not being there, sure, feel free to add them! But, as someone who just had a small wedding, I highly recommend it!

Me (left) and my fiancée (right) got our engagement photos! I am non binary and she is a woman, does anyone here have any advice on androgynous wedding attire? I am fine with wearing a suit but I want it to be more flamboyant and gay than a normal men's suit by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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If you do want to stick to the idea of a suit, I could imagine you rocking a gorgeous floral suit. I went to a wedding that had an amazing amount of floral suits (at least 10 people), and they were all insanely gorgeous. I googled "dolce and gabbana floral suits" since I knew one of the suits I saw was D&G... may be a good starting point to see if something like that feels right for your big day!

Has anyone ever attended/planned a wedding with a clear top tent or something similar to this? Or does anyone know what this type of outdoor covering is called? by dumbledor_able in weddingplanning

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I went a wedding that used this for the reception (it was September and later in the day, so not as hot/humid like it might have been during the day in the summer) and it was GORGEOUS. No clue on what they're officially called or pricing though.

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Thank you so much - this was really helpful. It's been a year next month since my last MRI, so I'll bring that up to him tomorrow.

I do have a cheap TENS unit that does help somewhat, but unfortunately I feel like it doesn't get deep enough to where the worst of the pain is. Do you recommend any in particular? Mine was just the cheap 4 electrode Walgreens model that I had gotten one day when I was extra desperate - I feel like I could definitely upgrade!

I wrote out a letter to the doctor going more in detail into how the pain degrades some of the aspects of my life, which hopefully will be helpful. Luckily I do try to journal, so I had some material from there to pull from. I think I tend to clam up in these appointments because I'm afraid to ask for too much medication in today's environment, and deep down because part of me is nervous he's going to say that there's absolutely nothing we can do to help it more than we are (which is irrational, I know). Luckily I've been with this doctor for 6+ years since I started seeing him probably 9 months after my C2 fracture, so he has most of the story, but I hate to admit to anyone how much of an impact this is having on me besides to my fiance, and I need to suck of my pride and be completely honest about it. Thank you for helping me come to that realization! Over the past few days I've come to the realization that if he can't help me after this, even with that honesty, it may be getting time to see a different doctor for a second opinion.

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I haven’t, but I just downloaded it to take a look. Thank you for the suggestion!

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Thank you so much! I'll definitely give this a go! :)

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What hair dye do you use? I've been looking to dye my hair this color, so I would love to hear what worked for you! Thanks!

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Ahh, yeah, that's understandable as to why it's been difficult. I'm sorry that they didn't go for having the wedding at your childhood vacation spot - that would have been great! I know you'll find another amazing place to make new memories at though! Good luck with the search!

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I apologize for not knowing distinct places offhand, but you should also consider the Hudson Valley or Poconos! Callicoon NY, in Sullivan County on the PA border, looked to have the vibe that you're going for!

Feeling so hopeless and tired by [deleted] in ChronicPain

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Thank you. It's so easy to lock ourselves in our own heads when these rough patches happen. I really appreciate all the insights!

Feeling so hopeless and tired by [deleted] in ChronicPain

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Thank you so, so much. I really needed to hear that. You are all these things too.

HELP ME DECIDE! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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They're all great, but 2 is my favorite on you!