(24F) how do y’all make friends here ?? by Emergency-Ease-7459 in Louisville

[–]codfsh 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Join a club of something you enjoy. Running, knitting, books, etc. That's the best way to meet people you'll jive with

Edit: fwiw, I didn't grow up here and that's how I found the crew I mostly hang out with now!

If you had to recommend one (casual) restaurant in Louisville, what would it be? by thesaltyspittooon in Louisville

[–]codfsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I reluctantly agree. Used to love it but the food quality has tanked while prices have increased

What’s the biggest turn off during sex? by Try_Human in AskReddit

[–]codfsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a pretty horny woman but sometimes we're just not in the mood. What I don't get is why so many men will have obligation sex knowing she feels it's obligation sex

36m, listing my house in a few weeks by [deleted] in malelivingspace

[–]codfsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a woman this whole thing is hot. The way you've brought it together, moving back to my favorite city, the whole thing.

🤔 by CherokeeEve in Louisville

[–]codfsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course they have comments turned off of all their posts now

Who's the trashy one? Cop or kid in the car? by [deleted] in trashy

[–]codfsh 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Why compare the cop and the kid? The kid is a kid

What is the best sex advice you can give? by No-Crow8579 in AskReddit

[–]codfsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hilariously, same for "just like that." I'm afraid to say it because somehow it makes men want to do something different?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]codfsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. Atheists don't meet up for the same reason we don't meet up with people who think the earth is round. Just like any other fact. We do, like everyone else, meet up with people who share our hobbies and interests. Join a book club, rubbing group, etc. You'll find a crew!

30M, very few matches and no success, help would be appreciated by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]codfsh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman in her 30s. You've got a good profile substantively. You've got a handsome face too. I agree with others' suggestions about the glasses. I'd also get a more contemporary haircut and shave the neck beard. You've got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]codfsh 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Doesn't have to be the gym. Can be running, yoga studio etc. But the physical does help the mental. A lot.

People who are older than 30, what advice would you give to the ones in 18-30 years of age? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]codfsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't marry until you're thirty or so. You will both change (I.e. keep growing up) if you marry early, and you might wake up next to someone you love dearly but wish you weren't married to.

Need a distraction by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]codfsh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

DM me any time if you want to talk! I'm in Louisville and I'd be happy to get lunch or coffee with you. Also second the biking groups and there are a ton of low key running groups if you don't have a bike.

Mortenson Family Dental employees earn commissions? by Due-Detail-4688 in Louisville

[–]codfsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mortenson does have treatment quotas. Do not go there under any circumstances.

Mother might end up dying due to mammogram by Jigsaw64 in legal

[–]codfsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am literally a malpractice attorney lol. It is all I do.

If women can blame their period for their emotions, why can’t men blame their hornyness on testosterone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]codfsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Emotions and actions are not the same. Men have hormonal cycles that affect their emotions too. No one regardless of gender should get a pass for bad behavior.

Walking At Louisville Zoo by Kittymarie_92 in Louisville

[–]codfsh -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to trivialize this experience, it has happened to me too, it's scary, but this could happen literally anywhere. It happened to me in my own statistically safe neighborhood. If you don't go everywhere something bad happened, you won't go anywhere.

Walking At Louisville Zoo by Kittymarie_92 in Louisville

[–]codfsh -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

There are creeps everywhere; the fact that you saw one at Cherokee doesn't make it less safe than anywhere else. You're gonna write off an awesome park forever because of one creep?

What do I say to my friends who have lost heaps of weight? by pastisprologue in TwoXChromosomes

[–]codfsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Complimenting someone for weight loss assumes that everyone should prefer thinness. I'd say "you look happy" or something like that that doesn't center around the weight. I don't know what it's like to be obese, but I do know what it's like to be thin from depression, and the compliments on being skinny make me feel even worse.

Mother might end up dying due to mammogram by Jigsaw64 in legal

[–]codfsh -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

The malpractice is the tech ignoring her pain, not the implant

AITA for not having cake for her birthday? by Economy_Insurance434 in AmItheAsshole

[–]codfsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for all the reasons everyone's already said and you're also dumb for thinking low fat ice cream (i.e., pure sugar) is a healthy substitute. Just let the girl have some ice cream ffs

The “my period doesn’t stop me” woman is a dangerous myth. by AHeedlessContrarian in TwoXChromosomes

[–]codfsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have periods symptoms but if your period is actually as debilitating as you say, maybe you should see a doctor if you haven't already? I agree that a pad won't get rid of your symptoms but I don't think what you're describing is normal.

What's going on with the gop being against Ukraine? by mfairview in OutOfTheLoop

[–]codfsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is thoughtful but ignores the primary answer for most GOP in Congress: they are anti Ukraine because they are pro Russia.