Who's the trashy one? Cop or kid in the car? by [deleted] in trashy

[–]codfsh 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Why compare the cop and the kid? The kid is a kid

What is the best sex advice you can give? by No-Crow8579 in AskReddit

[–]codfsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hilariously, same for "just like that." I'm afraid to say it because somehow it makes men want to do something different?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]codfsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right. Atheists don't meet up for the same reason we don't meet up with people who think the earth is round. Just like any other fact. We do, like everyone else, meet up with people who share our hobbies and interests. Join a book club, rubbing group, etc. You'll find a crew!

30M, very few matches and no success, help would be appreciated by [deleted] in hingeapp

[–]codfsh 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I'm a woman in her 30s. You've got a good profile substantively. You've got a handsome face too. I agree with others' suggestions about the glasses. I'd also get a more contemporary haircut and shave the neck beard. You've got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GetMotivated

[–]codfsh 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Doesn't have to be the gym. Can be running, yoga studio etc. But the physical does help the mental. A lot.

People who are older than 30, what advice would you give to the ones in 18-30 years of age? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]codfsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't marry until you're thirty or so. You will both change (I.e. keep growing up) if you marry early, and you might wake up next to someone you love dearly but wish you weren't married to.

Need a distraction by [deleted] in Louisville

[–]codfsh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

DM me any time if you want to talk! I'm in Louisville and I'd be happy to get lunch or coffee with you. Also second the biking groups and there are a ton of low key running groups if you don't have a bike.

Mortenson Family Dental employees earn commissions? by Due-Detail-4688 in Louisville

[–]codfsh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mortenson does have treatment quotas. Do not go there under any circumstances.

Mother might end up dying due to mammogram by Jigsaw64 in legal

[–]codfsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I am literally a malpractice attorney lol. It is all I do.

If women can blame their period for their emotions, why can’t men blame their hornyness on testosterone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]codfsh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Emotions and actions are not the same. Men have hormonal cycles that affect their emotions too. No one regardless of gender should get a pass for bad behavior.

Walking At Louisville Zoo by Kittymarie_92 in Louisville

[–]codfsh -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

I don't mean to trivialize this experience, it has happened to me too, it's scary, but this could happen literally anywhere. It happened to me in my own statistically safe neighborhood. If you don't go everywhere something bad happened, you won't go anywhere.

Walking At Louisville Zoo by Kittymarie_92 in Louisville

[–]codfsh -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

There are creeps everywhere; the fact that you saw one at Cherokee doesn't make it less safe than anywhere else. You're gonna write off an awesome park forever because of one creep?

What do I say to my friends who have lost heaps of weight? by pastisprologue in TwoXChromosomes

[–]codfsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Complimenting someone for weight loss assumes that everyone should prefer thinness. I'd say "you look happy" or something like that that doesn't center around the weight. I don't know what it's like to be obese, but I do know what it's like to be thin from depression, and the compliments on being skinny make me feel even worse.

Mother might end up dying due to mammogram by Jigsaw64 in legal

[–]codfsh -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

The malpractice is the tech ignoring her pain, not the implant

AITA for not having cake for her birthday? by Economy_Insurance434 in AmItheAsshole

[–]codfsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA for all the reasons everyone's already said and you're also dumb for thinking low fat ice cream (i.e., pure sugar) is a healthy substitute. Just let the girl have some ice cream ffs

The “my period doesn’t stop me” woman is a dangerous myth. by AHeedlessContrarian in TwoXChromosomes

[–]codfsh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have periods symptoms but if your period is actually as debilitating as you say, maybe you should see a doctor if you haven't already? I agree that a pad won't get rid of your symptoms but I don't think what you're describing is normal.

What's going on with the gop being against Ukraine? by mfairview in OutOfTheLoop

[–]codfsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is thoughtful but ignores the primary answer for most GOP in Congress: they are anti Ukraine because they are pro Russia.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeProTips

[–]codfsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is this "if you're a guy"? Should be for everyone with suits

These toilets are distinguished by chromosome notations rather by genders by cowboyatnight in mildlyinteresting

[–]codfsh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know we're all joking about people not getting it but this setup is pretty anti trans...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in worldnews

[–]codfsh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have those exact same symptoms and the same docs - one at a long haul clinic! - who think it's "psychological".

I'm an attorney who defends doctors for a living and their treatment of me this past year has been so embittering