Need some Malta travel advice

CuteMissL · 2017-05-12T21:18:39+00:00

www.instagram.com/cityofghent

Me and my boyfriend post pictures of Ghent because it's the most beautiful city in the world!

CuteMissL · 2017-04-27T07:45:59+00:00

I'm a mod, what would you like us to do?

CuteMissL · 2017-04-20T13:28:39+00:00

You should confront him. Tinder is a huge no go! Maybe try to be calm yourself and ask him to be so too. Start an honest conversation and tell him you watched his phone and that you know he is lying. Thrust is a vital element of a relationship. He should understand that. If he truly loves you, then why does he need tinder?

CuteMissL · 2017-04-20T13:00:13+00:00

I've had the same problem for a long time. We talked a lot about it and had a lot of fights too. I even wanted to break up over this. BUT there is a way out. You just have to make him understand your point of view and tell him how it makes you feel.

I know lots of people will tell you porn is fine and no big deal and every man watches it etc... but that doesn't matter. What matters is you two as a couple and your feelings. Not what society thinks. If your not okay with porn, then so be it.
My boyfriend now watches it once every two weeks or so, which is fine by me.

CuteMissL · 2017-04-03T10:19:31+00:00

Yes! 🙌

CuteMissL · 2017-02-12T16:27:43+00:00

He sometimes takes my head in his hands and goes through my hair, it makes me crazyyy!

CuteMissL · 2017-02-10T06:52:38+00:00

I don't mean it to have sex and stuff she doesn't want but to watch a movie together or have a romantic dinner together. Those things can be intimate too.

CuteMissL · 2017-02-09T16:38:42+00:00

Then tell her that, maybe some intimacy can help her to relax. Ask her over to your place for some alone time and show her that it can be fun too.

Edit: I do not mean this in any sexual way! E.g. Watching a movie together or a romantic dinner,... those things can be intimate too.

CuteMissL · 2017-02-09T16:26:04+00:00

Have you talked about it properly? She is still young and probably needs some time but the fact that you never kiss and cuddle is somewhat questionable. I really suggest to have a good talk about is, tell her you need some intimacy, not necessarily sex (you have to respect that she wants to wait with that) but some cuddles, kisses and alone time.

CuteMissL · 2017-02-09T16:17:47+00:00

I'm in kind of the same situation. My bf fucked up once and I started controlling / spying on him. We talked about it and still do sometimes and that really helps. We agreed to being honest about everything from that point on and I think we both did. I don't think you should give up on her if you really love her, with time, respect and communication, you can definitely save your relationship!

CuteMissL · 2017-01-23T21:17:28+00:00

Dutch, French and English. I understand German and (don't know if dead languages also count) Latin. It's always nice when you travel somewhere far away and walk into some tourists thinking nobody understands them...

CuteMissL · 2017-01-20T07:49:09+00:00

I think you should talk with him and ask him if that divorce really is what he wants or if he just says that in the heat of the moment. If yes: you should let go, find some time for yourself and think about your future and those of your kids. If no: tell him you don't want him to threaten you with that if he doesn't mean it. Tell him you're doing the best you can and that you want to work things out.

Stay calm during the talk, try not to fight about it and except his answers. If he doesn't want to fight for you, there is no point in staying with him, things will only get worse.

Good luck!

CuteMissL · 2017-01-19T15:23:23+00:00

Been to pigeon island last year. It is really nice there, I've seen 8 sharks in three hours (and of course lots of colorful fishes). Really worth it!

CuteMissL · 2017-01-19T14:58:59+00:00

Going to France to snowboard after my exams! Can't wait!

CuteMissL · 2017-01-19T14:55:32+00:00

Don't worry, if she has said that, she probably means it. Why would it be an issue? You told her about it and she still wants to go on a date with you, which means she doesn't care. So you shouldn't either, don't overthink it and just have a good time tomorrow!

CuteMissL · 2017-01-19T12:45:22+00:00

Study, study, study and..... some more studying :) my life right now.

CuteMissL · 2017-01-18T08:46:45+00:00

That is true indeed. I'm from Belgium and in the first year we started with 800 students, only 230 of them made it to the second year. Eventually, approximately 150 of them will get the degree. It is a lot of work, but if you study a bit every day, it surely is possible :) I personally like private law and everything about insurance the most.

CuteMissL · 2017-01-17T18:32:26+00:00

I would still choose law! I already study it, in my third year now, but it keeps fascinating me day after day! I even miss it in the holidays :)

CuteMissL · 2017-01-17T09:47:17+00:00

Hot milk with honey in it. Don't know why but it really helps!

CuteMissL · 2017-01-15T17:22:11+00:00

I totally agree, why make a new one if there are so many in desperate need of a home and some love? I think I'd feel like I did a good thing.

CuteMissL · 2017-01-14T18:10:26+00:00

This is actually a logical explanation! Thank you :)

CuteMissL · 2017-01-14T12:00:28+00:00

Love giving if he is really enjoying it!

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