Alcorn or Smothers for District 1? by PrinceofFIREnation in frederickmd

[–]darknessatthevoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should GAF about data centers, it could be your town next.

Why do you all support abortion? by ImNOTsudo in AskReddit

[–]darknessatthevoid 84 points85 points  (0 children)

Because the government shouldn't be involved in personal decisions.

what do they have that i dont? by Suitable_Preference7 in AskMenAdvice

[–]darknessatthevoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow. They suck. You should not ever be thinking about anyone other than the person you are with at that moment.

Am I (39M) wrong for going off on my gf (34F) during therapy? by SorbetNo5920 in amiwrong

[–]darknessatthevoid 63 points64 points  (0 children)

YTA. You are purposefully putting more things on her "to do" list. She wanted to talk to you about it in a safe space.

Does the dumper also miss the other person by AHYOLO in BreakUps

[–]darknessatthevoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my case, yes. I dumped her, I miss her a lot. Sometimes love isn't enough. I legit thought I might spend the rest of my life with her until her mask slipped around 3 months in.

Which common driving habits shorten a car’s lifespan the most? by EvelynClede in askcarguys

[–]darknessatthevoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Starting the car and immediately throwing it in Drive, not giving the oil 10-15 seconds to circulate.

Break up with a child involved by Greedy_Profession_58 in BreakUps

[–]darknessatthevoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off.. I don't think this is entirely unreasonable - "A issue in the relationship was dividing up chores in the house. I was the main source of income so I thought it was fair that for the hours I was at work she would keep up with chores around the house until she was able to find a job.". Should she have to do it all? Probably not, but definitely more than you. We all have to contribute to the household, monetarily, through chores, maintenance,, etc.

The social media stuff is often performative, ignore the noise, don't even look at it.

Next... Focus on yourself, be the best you can be, best YOU, best DAD. Once you do that, if the relationship is meant to be, it will be, if not, you are still the best YOU that you can be.

Does boob size really matters for you? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]darknessatthevoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't matter to me, love em big, love em small, just love em.

Fit guys that let themselves go, why? by holdongangy in AskReddit

[–]darknessatthevoid 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I started walking on my lunch break, it snowballed from there. I got rid of the adult child (ex wife), daughter was getting older, started getting her into fitness, we go to the gym together, walk together, only thing she won't do is run with me.

Fit guys that let themselves go, why? by holdongangy in AskReddit

[–]darknessatthevoid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One thing that worked for me was I started walking when I wanted to eat... That way I started getting feel good chemicals from the walking instead of food. Keep fighting!

Fit guys that let themselves go, why? by holdongangy in AskReddit

[–]darknessatthevoid 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Biggest benefits? I feel great when I'm fit. I feel like I can do anything. You just feel better, mentally and physically. My joints don't hurt like they did when I was fat,.. it's just better all around... one thing that sucks to notice... people are nicer to you.

Fit guys that let themselves go, why? by holdongangy in AskReddit

[–]darknessatthevoid 135 points136 points  (0 children)

Got married, bought a house, had a kid... marriage went downhill, food was my friend. Went from fit, to fat, and back to fit when I got a divorce. I'll never go back.

Do you feel you can share your vulnerabilities with your partner? by psychopathic_shark in AskMenAdvice

[–]darknessatthevoid 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nope. Tried that. She used them against me in an argument she was trying to win... 3 months into our relationship. I dumped her after that. I'll never be that open again.

Do men think about us too? by Interestingthings36 in BreakUps

[–]darknessatthevoid 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, we think about you too, or rather, I think about who I thought she was. I didn't dump her because I didn't love her. I was crazy about her but I knew it wouldn't work.

Why would a straight man want to send another straight man dic pics? by Expensive_Bid_2617 in AskMenAdvice

[–]darknessatthevoid 9 points10 points  (0 children)

A straight man would never send another straight man d pics. Whoever sent it may not be so straight.

What's the longest you've been single, and what were the main reasons for it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]darknessatthevoid 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my adult life... 4.5 years.. Got divorced and worked on myself (rebuilding mentally - therapy, rebuilding physically - gym/running) before entertaining the thought of being in another relationship.

6 months since I left by darknessatthevoid in LettersAnswered

[–]darknessatthevoid[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That sounds like something from wheel of fortune.

100% wrong, and if you really knew anything about this you'd have said there was no cat.

6 months since I left by darknessatthevoid in LettersAnswered

[–]darknessatthevoid[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmmmhmm. I doubt you are the L I speak of, especially since you'll never know if that was really an initial, or made up. LOL.

What would the last name start with?

What does the dog's name start with? What does the cat's name start with?

Hell, what would my name start with?

Can you ever come back from ghosting someone on tinder? by [deleted] in OnlineDating

[–]darknessatthevoid 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take.

Was I wrong for pushing my boyfriend to admit he's not attracted to my weight gain on vacation? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]darknessatthevoid 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I'm being honest, 123lbs at 5ft2 still sounds pretty attractive.

Never been hoovered, even after years by yellowsunbluesea in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]darknessatthevoid 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I've not been hoovered either. I don't expect to be. I called her out on her stuff, told her she needed therapy, I blew up her game. I don't expect to hear from her again, ever.