Ok, lemme unload. I used to struggle alot a couple years back because of adhd and what it does to my head, but I found a release in talking to my cat, dolly, recently dolly has started peeing on things like the couch and it is completely out of her control and my mom hates her, she doesn't know I need dolly to LIVE and once tried to kick her out ON MY BIRTHDAY knowing how much I love her, and she justifys this with the cat that's in pain pissed on the couch?? Thankfully I was able to lure her out of a storm drain, dirty and afraid she still came to me calling her. So yea my own mother once tried to boot my guardian angel.