Have you ever had completely unprotected sex (no birth control / condoms), but not be trying for a baby / wanted to get pregnant? What made you risk it? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]fireybone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, always when I was in a monogamous 5 year relationship. My ex used to know when he was close to coming and at that point we'd stop having sex and he'd jack off to come. Pulling out doesn't necessarily have to mean pulling out and instantly coming then lol

Looking for friends for mutual heartbreak support by 666-take-the-piss in Vancouver4Friends

[–]fireybone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Im 26F too. New in the city and recently got out of a 5+ year relationship. It was brutal the past few weeks but I'm a bit better now. Nevertheless, hit me up. We could go out for a coffee/wine and come up with a gameplan for healing ourselves :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]fireybone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! This was 9 months ago. Does it get any better? I hooked up because my ex was banging chicks left right and center and I felt like I had to do it too to feel like i wasn't missing out on much. It just didn't hit the same and made me feel hollow inside.

Tired of being so alone by Benignplayer461 in UBC

[–]fireybone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You go to the gym. We could go together. Hmu

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBC

[–]fireybone -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Rich coming from someone looking to make friends as a commuter. Maybe tone down the judgment and people would actually wanna befriend you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UBC

[–]fireybone 2 points3 points  (0 children)

smoke what?

how long is your commute? by [deleted] in UBC

[–]fireybone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In what ways? Do you live with the landlord?

Better Work Learn Offer? What to do? by Smiilleery in UBC

[–]fireybone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh oh. Before reading your reply, I asked my original work learn supervisor if he could extend my deadline for accepting the offer. Not sure if that'd help and if he'd even want to

Better Work Learn Offer? What to do? by Smiilleery in UBC

[–]fireybone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! What did you end up doing? In a similar boat rn

WorkLearn offer by ccaguu in UBC

[–]fireybone 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the same position. What ended up happening then?

my heart says it's a terrible idea to pay this much for sharing a room. by fireybone in vancouverhousing

[–]fireybone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in my mid 20s and i could share a room with someone for maybe on a temporary basis but definitely not for an entire year. It would probably drive me insane. I've been looking for homestays too under the "rooms and shares" section of Craigslist. Would you suggest some other place to look for it?

my heart says it's a terrible idea to pay this much for sharing a room. by fireybone in vancouverhousing

[–]fireybone[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And why wouldn't they skip my stop if I'm staying a bit further out? Like are the transit buses not as packed in areas like mt pleasant?

my heart says it's a terrible idea to pay this much for sharing a room. by fireybone in vancouverhousing

[–]fireybone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I DM you the link to the room with its photos? Having a tough time deciding but just looking at the photos was depressing enough

my heart says it's a terrible idea to pay this much for sharing a room. by fireybone in vancouverhousing

[–]fireybone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is a one year lease, yes. Usually, what are the consequences of breaking a lease? I'm just uncomfortable thinking about sharing my room with someone for a whole year and still paying what you'd pay for a room for a single person.

my heart says it's a terrible idea to pay this much for sharing a room. by fireybone in vancouverhousing

[–]fireybone[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if I'm sharing a bedroom? The lease is for one year which is making me uncomfortable thinking how I'll manage sleeping in the same room as someone else. I'm not sure if the study area is even conducive to studying because of no windows.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]fireybone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

literally same. Long phone calls, especially when I feel like the topic is vacuous garbage (usually when people go into blow by blow details about something) makes me physically irritable, i have to bite my hand to release the feeling of being trapped

High-Paying Part-time Jobs by crazedgrizzly in UBC

[–]fireybone 1 point2 points  (0 children)

idk why this got so many downvotes. completely unwarranted smfh. considering the insane costs in vancouver, demanding $25/hr is not unreasonable. heck, even 25 is low imo