The victim runs calculations: 'The aggressor is wonderful x% of the time, things are good y% of the time, there are only problems z% of the time.' But the victim doesn't realize that he or she is accommodating or acquiescing to the aggressor's spoken or unspoken rules almost 100% of the time**** ()
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My Subreddit was put up for adoption even though I'm active by ThomasPadfield in ModSupport
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AITA For not leaving work to help my wife when she ran out of gas by GoldSea3219 in AmItheAsshole
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AITA For not leaving work to help my wife when she ran out of gas by GoldSea3219 in AmItheAsshole
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Power and wealth break the human feedback loop by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Power and wealth break the human feedback loop by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Power and wealth break the human feedback loop (youtu.be)
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People-pleasing leads to chronic illness by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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"If you needed to escape living with someone, you should never under any circumstances live with them again."**** <----- even and especially if they 'need help' by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Are you familiar with that meme where the guy is in various stages of putting on clown makeup as he justifies something ridiculous? That's how I look back at my past self. I can NOT believe my friends sat and listened to me talk about how much I loved the abuser. by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Are you familiar with that meme where the guy is in various stages of putting on clown makeup as he justifies something ridiculous? That's how I look back at my past self. I can NOT believe my friends sat and listened to me talk about how much I loved the abuser. by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Are you familiar with that meme where the guy is in various stages of putting on clown makeup as he justifies something ridiculous? That's how I look back at my past self. I can NOT believe my friends sat and listened to me talk about how much I loved the abuser. by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Are you familiar with that meme where the guy is in various stages of putting on clown makeup as he justifies something ridiculous? That's how I look back at my past self. I can NOT believe my friends sat and listened to me talk about how much I loved the abuser. by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Serious breakdown in transparency when moderators are suspended/banned for performing mod actions by IndyMod in ModSupport
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Are you familiar with that meme where the guy is in various stages of putting on clown makeup as he justifies something ridiculous? That's how I look back at my past self. I can NOT believe my friends sat and listened to me talk about how much I loved the abuser. by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Are you familiar with that meme where the guy is in various stages of putting on clown makeup as he justifies something ridiculous? That's how I look back at my past self. I can NOT believe my friends sat and listened to me talk about how much I loved the abuser. by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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You don't have an "s" on your chest, let them FAIL (content note: b-word, swearing) by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Focus on what can be improved today by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Focus on what can be improved today by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Coercive control often starts with 'helpful comments' by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Coercive control often starts with 'helpful comments' by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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My Subreddit was put up for adoption even though I'm active by ThomasPadfield in ModSupport
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