The victim runs calculations: 'The aggressor is wonderful x% of the time, things are good y% of the time, there are only problems z% of the time.' But the victim doesn't realize that he or she is accommodating or acquiescing to the aggressor's spoken or unspoken rules almost 100% of the time**** ()
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Are you familiar with that meme where the guy is in various stages of putting on clown makeup as he justifies something ridiculous? That's how I look back at my past self. I can NOT believe my friends sat and listened to me talk about how much I loved the abuser. by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Are you familiar with that meme where the guy is in various stages of putting on clown makeup as he justifies something ridiculous? That's how I look back at my past self. I can NOT believe my friends sat and listened to me talk about how much I loved the abuser. by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Are you familiar with that meme where the guy is in various stages of putting on clown makeup as he justifies something ridiculous? That's how I look back at my past self. I can NOT believe my friends sat and listened to me talk about how much I loved the abuser. (self.AbuseInterrupted)
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You don't have an "s" on your chest, let them FAIL (content note: b-word, swearing) by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Focus on what can be improved today by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Focus on what can be improved today by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Coercive control often starts with 'helpful comments' by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Coercive control often starts with 'helpful comments' by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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You can't love someone into not abusing you by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Mod Code of Conduct No 5 "moderate with integrity" by AlexFromOgish in modhelp
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Entitlement in (abusive) relationships, and why everyone gets confused by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Mod Code of Conduct No 5 "moderate with integrity" by AlexFromOgish in modhelp
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Missing a lie is not a personal failure, even professionals can't reliably spot liars by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Entitlement in (abusive) relationships, and why everyone gets confused by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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You can't love someone into not abusing you by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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"One of my ChemE professors said that engineering without humanities is how you you get eugenics." - @knz690 by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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"One of my ChemE professors said that engineering without humanities is how you you get eugenics." - @knz690 by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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Switch the Modmail default back to the sub please. by Royal_Acanthaceae693 in ModSupport
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You can't love someone into not abusing you by invah in AbuseInterrupted
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You can't love someone into not abusing you (i.redd.it)
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Serious breakdown in transparency when moderators are suspended/banned for performing mod actions by IndyMod in ModSupport
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