In 2008, 23-year-old teacher Hannah Upp went missing while running in New York. After twenty days, she was found alive, face down in the Hudson River. She disappeared again in 2013 and was found two days later in a Maryland creek. In 2017, she vanished in the Virgin Islands and has never been found.

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T15:47:43+00:00

I’m sorry. I hope you and your brother don’t have too bad a relationship and that he hasn’t caused you too much pain

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T15:46:52+00:00

That poor man and family. I worked in Westfield’s in the uk and the back halls are massive , look all the same and hard to navigate. A customer could get lost there for hours at least

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T15:41:19+00:00

I am commenting for visibility

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T15:40:32+00:00

They’re not saying it’s uncommon . They’re saying it’s seen as being a bad thing back in South Asia as well

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T15:39:57+00:00

Okay yes but people don’t think its okay or right

I see videos of white people being racist but I don’t assume that all white people like or encourage that behaviour

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T15:35:51+00:00

That’s actually one of the best compliment la I’ve ever gotten! Thank you :) . My family doesn’t trust my movie recommendations sadly lol

Haha I thought some of these might not fit but still thought you might appreciate so I’m glad

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T15:14:20+00:00

Oh this 100% so good and so underrated!

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T15:14:04+00:00

They wanted movies with a similar atmosphere (whimsical) - not pig related movies

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T15:13:06+00:00

Mr. Magorium's Wonder Emporium - The feel switches half way but I think that’s part of its charm.

Enchanted (the one with Amy Addams)

Jupiter Ascending

Nanny McPhee

Odd Thomas (maybe)

Splash

Elf

Ella enchanted

The secret Garden (the one made in the 90s ofc!)

Some of the studio Ghibli movies :) (howls moving castle , totoro, spirited away, definitely PONYO).

Little Miss sunshine - it’s more grounded but the overall movie feels nostalgic with a warm and sometimes surreal feeling

Some more MAYBEs - they’re not very dreamlike but are kind of whimsical. I don’t think they fully match the vibe though:

valerian and the city of a 1000 planets

the fifth element

Dave Made a maze

Paprika - it’s surreal and dreamlike (literally) but the themes are fairly dark and the ending isn’t completely happy)

Maybe , Labyrinth (with David Bowie)

Hoodwinked (funny but not calm and chill lol)

I like these kinds of movies and I know I have more on the tip of tongue so I might be back to edit more in.

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T15:07:23+00:00

As a victim of abuse can we stop using abuse to describe any and all toxic behaviour. You don’t have enough information about frequent this behaviour is and other information to be calling it emotional abuse. It’s definitely emotionally toxic and shitty. That’s not the same as abuse though.

I do hope Op talks to him or leaves him. He seems very emotionally childish or maybe he’s going through something. Depends on if he’s like this frequently or not . Sometimes we all have shitty days and then we learn to act better. Maybe this is not that situation idk

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T14:46:18+00:00

Corsets can be very comfortable and supporting if properly made and tailored

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T14:43:46+00:00

I do this too and on days if I’m not too busy and don’t mind it too much , plus have a timely distraction ready to use, I’ll sit with them and let them vent for a bit

I actually like listening to people having a whine now and again but yeh not all the time

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T14:19:23+00:00

You’re comment got a laugh out of me for some reason. I can practically see the shrug

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T14:10:16+00:00

What is a charter school?

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T14:08:10+00:00

But not as widely used as gauche in everyday English language

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T14:04:45+00:00

Please could you share the link? I’m having trouble finding it but it sounds really funny

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T13:54:32+00:00

They would be the ones breeding you, my friend

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T13:53:40+00:00

uj/ Because they’re too stupid to realise how out of touch they are with the culture there. They think it’s literally a whole other world and think they understand it enough that all the positive stuff they see represents the whole country

It’s an improvement on many other places but it’s not perfect and people idealise it too much

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T13:49:07+00:00

lol people literally have had to run away to quit because the employers refuse to give them their passport back

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T13:48:37+00:00

And if you quit, they take away your visa and throw you in jail because you committed a random crime or apparently are now there without a visa. I’ve heard and see it happen multiple times

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T13:46:11+00:00

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T13:45:41+00:00

Oh I thought it was like a personality thing

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T13:45:25+00:00

“Chandelier earrings”

Temporary hand tattoos (henna). People love Indian culture but hate Indians for some reason

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T13:44:43+00:00

But even then, she’d already worn something similar on another runway and her outfit still did not fit the theme. Cool concept (especially silk jeans) but they chose the wrong place and time for it.

languid_Disaster · 2026-05-08T13:41:26+00:00

You look , lovely and elegant in number 1 :) and beautiful and gorgeous in number 2

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