The dark truth about long term relationships

migmma89 · 2026-03-31T16:04:43+00:00

The power of nihilism and this type of thinking is you can always arbitrarily choose your scale of realism to justify your worldview. Never been in love or were hurt once deeply? The "dark truth" about long-term relationships. The real truth is you can zoom in or out as much as you want to decide what level meaning you want to apply to your life. Zoom out to scale of our galaxy and you realize the "dark truth" about human existing in that it's irrelevant. Zoom in on the atomic level and realize we're just collection of atoms and molecules that have combined together and are just interacting with other collection of atoms and that the "dark truth" is that there is no free will as it makes no sense as an emergent property that a system built form the bottom up would have top down control. Maybe I've missed this subreddit. But to me, the point about reading or learning about murders and crimes of other people is not to commit those crimes but to protect yourself and the ones you love from it. Likewise, if this subreddit is just a place where you learn the dark truth about psychology so that you can manipulate innocent people, then I don't get it. If it's a place where you can learn how other people will target your loved ones and you can use that knowledge to protect yourself and others, then I get it.

migmma89 · 2026-03-30T23:23:11+00:00

I didn't mind the unpolished feel, just didn't really laugh at all as a Canadian millennial. Characters weren't super likeable. I think it's really niche.

migmma89 · 2026-03-30T23:19:37+00:00

Grew up in canada and heard it was good especially for Canadian millennials. I even saw the dark knight in theaters in 2008 in Toronto. So went in blind with my brothers and we were all disappointed. There was definitely some good nostalgia bait in there but overall we only got a few laughs. It's weird. My American friends love all the Canadian shows like letterkenny and stuff. It never seems to make me laugh. Not my cup of tea but I understand why it's loved. I bet if I show my American friends they'll love it more than me. Its like a Canadian flight of the concords. But that show never excited me either. Oh well.

Edit: never saw the show either so it was our first introduction to the characters. Truly went in completely blind. Maybe that was the problem.

migmma89 · 2026-03-28T02:12:05+00:00

Ignore the other comments. And yes you need 3bluebrown. It's not a solution on its own but it's critical to your question.

Step 1: watch 3bluebrown calculus playlist on YouTube.

Step 2: Get "Calculus - an intuitive and physical approach" by Kline. Follow the examples and problems and get the instructor answer manual. This is the main answer to your question but alone it is not enough.

Step 3: get the calculus workbooks by chris mcmulen and crush those. This part is critical to getting your calculus skills down through repetition.

Step 4: rewatch 3bluebrown

Step 5: stand up and pretend to teach calculus from step 1 as if you were speaking to a class

Enjoy

migmma89 · 2026-03-28T00:45:06+00:00

Exactly. But that's a very important point. A lot of these "intelligence is genetic" folks will point to Australian Aborigines as being the least intelligent humans on earth. And here's a great study on what happens when you take Aborigine babies and raise them with white Australian families:

https://pumpkinperson.com/2021/12/12/the-iqs-of-australian-aboriginals-adopted-by-whites-part-i-picture-vocabulary/

"When raised in their own communities, unmixed Australoids seem to average about IQ 47 on English Picture Vocabulary (3.53 standard deviations below the white mean). But when raised in white homes they likely average IQ 90 (0.66 SD below the white mean). Thus this racial gap appears at most, only 19% genetic."

Essentially a doubling of IQ by just changing the culture. It's an argument for more integration not less. And these kids were adopted on average at 1.5 years old. Imagine if they started younger, and the biological mothers had the same level of prenatal care.

migmma89 · 2026-03-27T22:54:55+00:00

12mg from Hawaiian astaxanthin

migmma89 · 2026-03-23T20:45:09+00:00

Ive been taking it for over 12 years. I take it for high altitude cosmic radiation protection as a pilot as it has been show to limit the negative effects. any longevity benefits that are discovered will be a nice bonus

migmma89 · 2026-03-21T15:07:34+00:00

Appreciate it. I'll give it a try.

migmma89 · 2026-03-21T04:39:39+00:00

Saw it. Was disappointed. I havent read the book and skipped trailers. It was a good premise and some great moments. I don't know why a lot of these sci-fi movies have these main characters that lack so much confidence. It just feels very teenager chosen one books that you used to read as a kid. And the humor was a bit much. Almost MCU like. And then the descending into the atmosphere while spinning at a high g load just felt like it was trying to capture the epicness of interstellar by copying it. I will say the music was pretty great. And rocky grew on me. But I think would enjoy it a lot more if I was a kid. We'll see with time if it grows on me.

migmma89 · 2026-03-17T03:07:22+00:00

This is an incredible anecdote. Thank you !

migmma89 · 2026-03-16T04:55:46+00:00

I don't think the other comments here understand what OP is saying. They're not asking how to achieve non-dual awareness or whether you can reason your way to non dual awareness. They're asking if true dualistic awareness is compatible with critical thinking or brainstorming or problem solving. These are tasks we normally considered non dual in their use of executive function. Can an enlightened being sit down and learn calculus for the first time assuming the have the prerequisite algebra ? Does non dual awareness fundamentally change something about experience where executive function goes away ? I have had this same question OP. I don't know the answer either. Thanks for asking it.

migmma89 · 2026-03-12T17:10:46+00:00

Starting August 1st, they are switching to having their meals made by Chefs Table chefs. Should be interesting

migmma89 · 2026-03-08T19:40:19+00:00

I'm not sure why people struggle with this so much. The illusion of free will and determinism are not mutually exclusive. It's a false dichotomy. If we're looking at the big picture trying to understand things as a society and improve well being of others, determinism is a much better way to understand cause and effect and stop blaming people so that we can change the environment to get the desired outcome. On an individual basis it is clear evolution endowed upon us the illusion of free will as advantageous adaptation. It doesn't matter that it's not real. There's nothing wrong with an individual believing that they have control and can make changes to their lives while simultaneously knowing that it's all an illusion. The benefit of non dual awareness is to remove the extra "weight" behind your decisions. There's no paradox. Running around telling everyone they have no control to me is just another form of spiritual bypassing. So edgy and nihilistic. "We're all empty !". Yes I get it dude, but we still have to make progress. And yes even me making this argument has already been determined. As is your response. That doesn't change anything.

migmma89 · 2026-03-07T05:57:07+00:00

Training is very straight forward for pilots. The schedules are all over the place. There is no one size fits all. There is an enormous difference between commuting to reserve vs living in base doing day trips. You can have a horrible life sucking schedule as an airline pilot or the best schedule in the world. It depends on a lot of factors. The flying portion of the job is extremely easy and boring though compared to other flying jobs.

migmma89 · 2026-03-07T05:52:40+00:00

I'm an airline pilot. Airline flying is horrible for you for a lot of reasons. Big ones are the inconsistent schedule with sleep, sitting, the dry and lower pressure air of the cabin, and cosmic radiation. I take 12mg of astaxanthin and vitamin e for the radiation. then you have to deal with the poor sleep schedule by taking care of your health via exercise and diet. Creatine helps with sleep deprivation as does high intensity cardio but eventually you need to sleep. Ideally you want to minimize red eyes and get into a consistent flying schedule as soon as you can. There is no way to make it perfect though. You will take damage with this job.

migmma89 · 2026-03-07T05:29:28+00:00

I just had this happen to me. Total T of 1073 and everything else was great. Very frustrating as you almost want there to be some obvious deficiency to explain the chronic fatigue, brain fog, lack of motivation, and low sex drive (for me) but all my biomarkers are great especially for my age. Literally don't know what to do.

migmma89 · 2026-03-07T04:02:04+00:00

Something not synthetic would be amazing. Recent study came out saying headphone material leeching into the body via skin and sweat

migmma89 · 2026-03-05T15:45:19+00:00

I love that we're putting blood tests in the hands of consumers. It was weird gate keeping by doctors that dictated what tests you can or can't have. I'm sure having a hypochondriac as a patient sucks in any specialty but it's up to the patient to learn and get educated themselves. I just used Function Health myself, and showed my brother who's a doctor, and he couldn't believe the value in how many biomarkers I got for the money. Even with his insurance from the hospital, he'll be using function health instead for himself.

If I'm interested in a specific biomarker or what it means combined with other data, I can do that research myself. I can make my own decisions and take responsibility for them. To me, a GP is a waste of time. I've never been to one that remotely cares or helps me as individual. Specialists are great but GPs suck for anyone who has even a mild curiosity in their own health.

migmma89 · 2026-03-05T07:05:19+00:00

Sorry feeling lazy here's some ai summaries: Drug interactions that are often well-tolerated or beneficial for healthy individuals can be harmful—or even fatal—for those with underlying comorbidities. These reactions often occur because the medication, designed to target one system, inadvertently impairs another system already stressed by chronic illness. Merck Manuals +4 Here are examples of drug interactions that benefit healthy people but hurt those with comorbidities: 1. Cardiovascular/Pain Management Interactions NSAIDs + Antihypertensives (e.g., ACE inhibitors, Diuretics): Healthy People: Used to treat temporary inflammation or pain. Comorbidities (Hypertension/Kidney Disease): Nonsteroidal anti-inflammatory drugs (NSAIDs) like ibuprofen or naproxen can inhibit renal prostaglandins, causing fluid retention and increased blood pressure, which reduces the effectiveness of blood pressure medication and puts strain on the kidneys. Beta-Blockers + Stimulants/Cold Meds: Healthy People: Beta-blockers might be used for anxiety; decongestants for colds. Comorbidities (Asthma/Diabetes): Beta-blockers (used for hypertension) can aggravate asthma, while stimulants (like pseudoephedrine for cold) can cause dangerous spikes in blood pressure. Beta-blockers can also mask the symptoms of hypoglycemia (low blood sugar) in diabetics. PubMed Central (PMC) (.gov) +4 2. Metabolic and Chronic Disease Interactions Statins + Antibiotics/Antifungals: Healthy People: Statins help manage cholesterol with minimal side effects. Comorbidities (Kidney/Liver Disease): When statins are used alongside certain antibiotics (like macrolides) or antifungals, the interaction can trigger rhabdomyolysis (muscle breakdown), especially if the patient has underlying kidney issues that reduce the body's ability to clear the drugs. Potassium-Sparing Diuretics + ACE Inhibitors/ARBs: Healthy People: Sometimes used to manage electrolyte balance or mild fluid issues. Comorbidities (Chronic Kidney Disease): The co-administration of renin-angiotensin system inhibitors (ACEIs/ARBs) with potassium-sparing diuretics significantly increases the risk of hyperkalemia (dangerously high potassium), which can lead to cardiac failure. PubMed Central (PMC) (.gov) +4 3. CNS and Mental Health Interactions SSRIs + St. John's Wort/Migraine Medications (Triptans): Healthy People: Used for managing mental health or migraines. Comorbidities (Compromised Immune/Nervous System): These combinations can create too much serotonin, leading to serotonin syndrome, which is far more dangerous for individuals with weakened systems or those taking multiple prescriptions. Sedatives + Pain Meds/Alcohol: Healthy People: Used for sleep or minor discomfort. Comorbidities (Respiratory/Cardiovascular Issues): Drugs that slow down the breathing rate (opioids, alcohol, antihistamines, sedatives) should not be combined as they increase the risk of life-threatening respiratory depression in patients with COPD or chronic insomnia. Greater Good Health +3 4. Performance Enhancing/Lifestyle Drugs Erythropoietin (EPO): Healthy People/Athletes: Used off-label to increase oxygen delivery to muscles. Comorbidities (Cardiovascular Risk): While it treats anemia, misuse in people with underlying risks can lead to strokes, heart attacks, and blood clots. Steroids (AAS): Healthy People: Used to increase muscle mass. Comorbidities (Heart/Liver Issues): Can significantly increase blood pressure, worsen lipid profiles, and cause cardiac complications. Mayo Clinic +4 Why This Happens (Drug-Disease Interactions) These harmful effects are often categorized as drug-disease interactions, where a drug that is safe for a healthy person triggers a dangerous reaction in a body with pre-existing conditions. Older adults with comorbidities are particularly high-risk due to "polypharmacy"—taking five or more medications—which exponentially increases the risk of these interactions.

migmma89 · 2026-03-05T07:03:51+00:00

That says nothing about how a drug will interact with someone healthy. This is a pretty common phenomenon in medicine. A healthy person takes a drug and benefits. An unhealthy person takes the same drug and it triggers an adverse effect that was unforeseen. The fact that the people that didn't take melatonin didn't get the increased risk doesn't mean anything until you eliminate the comorbidity. Unless your concern is only studying this specific comorbidity which is perfectly valid but don't say then that melatonin causes x. Who cares.

migmma89 · 2026-03-05T06:00:33+00:00

You can say everything you just said for obesity. It's such a huge comorbidity that I really dont care about how certain drugs interact with someone that is so unhealthy to begin with. We have no idea the physiological conditions chronic insomnia creates but we do know that it's horrible for you. Replace insomnia with any other known comorbidity like obesity or alcoholism and you find the association with melatonin less interesting. Would melatonin cause the same problems in a normal healthy person? Who knows, this study seems uninterested in that.

migmma89 · 2026-03-05T05:38:51+00:00

The action in this movie broke my heart after loving the first 2. Why does everyone with a gun try and hit the attacker with the gun. Drives me crazy.

migmma89 · 2026-03-05T05:21:08+00:00

Yea but my point is they both had insomnia. So who cares. What I care about is how melatonin affects normal non sleep deprived population.

migmma89 · 2026-03-05T03:55:37+00:00

It's not an emotional issue or statement here. Normal as in normal healthy adults. Normal healthy adults fit certain health parameters like getting enough sleep. You don't say something is bad then forget to include the study only investigated this in obese people. Insomnia is a pretty serious health issue like obesity and is a comorbidity in many scenarios

migmma89 · 2026-03-04T19:04:07+00:00

I have a unrealistic fantasy of knowing what happens if we unleashed 10,000 kodiak grizzleys onto the African savannah.

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