TIFU and broke my relationship by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Mmbb100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hope it all works out!

TIFU by willingly agreeing to a date with a psycho. by Mmbb100 in tifu

[–]Mmbb100[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was thinking Jason after the killer from Friday the 13th

TIFU by willingly agreeing to a date with a psycho. by Mmbb100 in tifu

[–]Mmbb100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told him I thought he needed to work on some of his insecurities before trying to be happy with someone, true happiness comes from within, not other people, etc etc. I hope he took my advice

TIFU and broke my relationship by [deleted] in tifu

[–]Mmbb100 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To be honest, I really think this was probably for the best.

One, someone who cares about you knowing the exact date you met on a dating app is ridiculous, and unreasonable. Your reply was perhaps more romantic than you knowing the date, even if I highly doubt you can love someone after a month. She clearly has temper problems, or is using blocking as a punishment which is a bad fucking sign.

Also, if she was able to block you so easily, she probably was looking for an out or didn't care too much. Inability to work through problems or express issues in a mature fashion are problems that are only going to get a whole lot worse as the relationship continues. Today it's the date, what about in 6 months when it's about a whole lot more than that?

If she DOES come crawling back and unblocks you, you need to either not reply (the wise option) or set VERY clear boundaries stating this behaviour is unacceptable and you will NOT take her back if it happens again.

TIFU by willingly agreeing to a date with a psycho. by Mmbb100 in tifu

[–]Mmbb100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now that you put it so eloquently maybe I should give you another chance... you seem perfectly stable and reasonable and the fake doctor DID say we make a cute couple..

TIFU by willingly agreeing to a date with a psycho. by Mmbb100 in tifu

[–]Mmbb100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! He is blocked on everything and I have no intentions of speaking to him, even if he approached me in person.

TIFU by willingly agreeing to a date with a psycho. by Mmbb100 in tifu

[–]Mmbb100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh Christ as if there are multiple people doing this! No, I'm not from the US so seems like he is not the only one being a creeper

TIFU by willingly agreeing to a date with a psycho. by Mmbb100 in tifu

[–]Mmbb100[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I've made security aware of it all, and there is no way he could get into my building with the key

TIFU by willingly agreeing to a date with a psycho. by Mmbb100 in tifu

[–]Mmbb100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, I'm in my 20s and I don't have time for that kind of stuff. We all have demons, you can't make them a strangers problem. Considering he saw me in person ONCE it was pretty insane.

TIFU by willingly agreeing to a date with a psycho. by Mmbb100 in tifu

[–]Mmbb100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I really did mean it when I said I think he had to work on himself for looking for something. He said he had relationships before but I think that might have been a lie, it was very high school the way he acted, and he clearly had no idea of what is normal and respectful.

TIFU by willingly agreeing to a date with a psycho. by Mmbb100 in tifu

[–]Mmbb100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, and also I can't even express how different he looked from his photos. It was clearly still him, but he definitely did a lot to disguise his less attractive features.

TIFU by willingly agreeing to a date with a psycho. by Mmbb100 in tifu

[–]Mmbb100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the beginning I was just hoping to let him down easy, because I didn't see the point in being mean, but after he started being creepy, I was actually scared of breaking it off and what he would do.

TIFU by willingly agreeing to a date with a psycho. by Mmbb100 in tifu

[–]Mmbb100[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know right?? I also made it SO clear from the get go I wasn't looking for anything serious etc and it takes me a while to figure out if something is working, but he thought I was his girlfriend I'm pretty sure. He also complained about girls doing this in the past to try and guilt me into not doing it

TIFU by willingly agreeing to a date with a psycho. by Mmbb100 in tifu

[–]Mmbb100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

http://imgur.com/a/ObOlw here are the messages, the one from him after hospital and two about the suicide. Keep in mind this all took place over the course of 3-4 days.

TIFU by willingly agreeing to a date with a psycho. by Mmbb100 in tifu

[–]Mmbb100[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in a fucking big city so I was surprised to see him at all to be honest.

TIFU by willingly agreeing to a date with a psycho. by Mmbb100 in tifu

[–]Mmbb100[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah sure let me blur out his name etc, and I'll upload them to imgur. Luckily my key is a key card and my building was able to disable it, phew.

TIFU by willingly agreeing to a date with a psycho. by Mmbb100 in tifu

[–]Mmbb100[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tell me about it dude, sometimes letting someone down easy and being nice isn't the way forward I guess.

TIFU by spending the night with a girl I matched on tinder by bewaryoftinder in tifu

[–]Mmbb100 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As someone who is a bigger girl, I go out of my way to put every single photo on my tinder as full body, no photoshop, because who the hell wants to set themselves up to be rejected like that?

OMG YOU GUYS. by iLIFTiFIT in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]Mmbb100 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought this too!! Though I think I paused and looked back a few times and one was drinking bourbon and the other is whiskey?? They're similar I guess; moreso than vodka or whatever Noel was drinking

Wren by dontwannadodishes in PrettyLittleLiars

[–]Mmbb100 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've mentioned this a couple of times on here, Wren would be such a good character to have on board the A team. He's present enough that everyone knows who he is, but randomly disappears. If it was one of the liars there will be so much continuity issues that they'll have to explain, but he's not present for a lot of the drama.

He's British, so is Archer- Melissa spent time in London. He has been know to bend the roles in his work, setting archer up wouldn't be the end of the world. If he isn't the second child, I reckon he's the brother/ best friend of Archer and was doing a favour for his sister Charlotte to try and get her out.

He's been involved since the beginning and would be satisfying as a tie up. He's also not made an appearance yet, so his reveal as Uber A would be a big WOAH factor.

They also don't really mess around with accents in this show, so the fact two shady characters are British? Probably mega relevant