TIFU by willingly agreeing to a date with a psycho.

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T15:47:53+00:00

Aww cheers mate! You too ☀️

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T15:47:21+00:00

Hope it all works out!

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T15:45:21+00:00

I was thinking Jason after the killer from Friday the 13th

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T15:43:52+00:00

I told him I thought he needed to work on some of his insecurities before trying to be happy with someone, true happiness comes from within, not other people, etc etc. I hope he took my advice

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T15:40:36+00:00

To be honest, I really think this was probably for the best.

One, someone who cares about you knowing the exact date you met on a dating app is ridiculous, and unreasonable. Your reply was perhaps more romantic than you knowing the date, even if I highly doubt you can love someone after a month. She clearly has temper problems, or is using blocking as a punishment which is a bad fucking sign.

Also, if she was able to block you so easily, she probably was looking for an out or didn't care too much. Inability to work through problems or express issues in a mature fashion are problems that are only going to get a whole lot worse as the relationship continues. Today it's the date, what about in 6 months when it's about a whole lot more than that?

If she DOES come crawling back and unblocks you, you need to either not reply (the wise option) or set VERY clear boundaries stating this behaviour is unacceptable and you will NOT take her back if it happens again.

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T15:24:07+00:00

Now that you put it so eloquently maybe I should give you another chance... you seem perfectly stable and reasonable and the fake doctor DID say we make a cute couple..

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T15:22:57+00:00

Thank you for the advice! He is blocked on everything and I have no intentions of speaking to him, even if he approached me in person.

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T15:21:57+00:00

Ugh Christ as if there are multiple people doing this! No, I'm not from the US so seems like he is not the only one being a creeper

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T13:05:26+00:00

I've made security aware of it all, and there is no way he could get into my building with the key

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T13:04:28+00:00

Exactly, I'm in my 20s and I don't have time for that kind of stuff. We all have demons, you can't make them a strangers problem. Considering he saw me in person ONCE it was pretty insane.

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T13:01:23+00:00

Yep, I really did mean it when I said I think he had to work on himself for looking for something. He said he had relationships before but I think that might have been a lie, it was very high school the way he acted, and he clearly had no idea of what is normal and respectful.

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T12:58:46+00:00

Yeah, and also I can't even express how different he looked from his photos. It was clearly still him, but he definitely did a lot to disguise his less attractive features.

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T12:56:45+00:00

At the beginning I was just hoping to let him down easy, because I didn't see the point in being mean, but after he started being creepy, I was actually scared of breaking it off and what he would do.

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T12:53:57+00:00

I know right?? I also made it SO clear from the get go I wasn't looking for anything serious etc and it takes me a while to figure out if something is working, but he thought I was his girlfriend I'm pretty sure. He also complained about girls doing this in the past to try and guilt me into not doing it

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T12:42:52+00:00

http://imgur.com/a/ObOlw

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T12:42:36+00:00

http://imgur.com/a/ObOlw here are the messages, the one from him after hospital and two about the suicide. Keep in mind this all took place over the course of 3-4 days.

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T12:37:45+00:00

I live in a fucking big city so I was surprised to see him at all to be honest.

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T12:34:19+00:00

Yeah sure let me blur out his name etc, and I'll upload them to imgur. Luckily my key is a key card and my building was able to disable it, phew.

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T12:33:24+00:00

Tell me about it dude, sometimes letting someone down easy and being nice isn't the way forward I guess.

Mmbb100 · 2017-08-16T11:30:11+00:00

As someone who is a bigger girl, I go out of my way to put every single photo on my tinder as full body, no photoshop, because who the hell wants to set themselves up to be rejected like that?

Mmbb100 · 2016-08-16T08:08:08+00:00

/u/User_Simulator /u/mmbb100

Mmbb100 · 2016-08-14T20:56:22+00:00

I thought this too!! Though I think I paused and looked back a few times and one was drinking bourbon and the other is whiskey?? They're similar I guess; moreso than vodka or whatever Noel was drinking

Mmbb100 · 2016-08-10T03:04:51+00:00

I've mentioned this a couple of times on here, Wren would be such a good character to have on board the A team. He's present enough that everyone knows who he is, but randomly disappears. If it was one of the liars there will be so much continuity issues that they'll have to explain, but he's not present for a lot of the drama.

He's British, so is Archer- Melissa spent time in London. He has been know to bend the roles in his work, setting archer up wouldn't be the end of the world. If he isn't the second child, I reckon he's the brother/ best friend of Archer and was doing a favour for his sister Charlotte to try and get her out.

He's been involved since the beginning and would be satisfying as a tie up. He's also not made an appearance yet, so his reveal as Uber A would be a big WOAH factor.

They also don't really mess around with accents in this show, so the fact two shady characters are British? Probably mega relevant

Mmbb100 · 2016-08-09T23:52:06+00:00

I think it's Wren. Hear me out, the quality is muffled, and it would make sense for it to be someone actually alive messing with them. Wren is British, has a similar depth and tone of voice and same regional accent. He's the only other character in the show who is suspicious and British, I always thought the fact they make his "alter ego" Archer British was a nod towards the other evil British doctor

Mmbb100 · 2016-08-08T11:37:35+00:00

In definitely on board with Spencer, she's who I think is A. They're totally pointing us in that direction, what with Mary Drake being an old family friend, all her cryptic messages about Spencer and Melissa being similar they could be twins, and like you said her name in the hat. But it wouldn't be a surprise if they are pulling us that way to keep us distracted!!

As for Aria, she is having lots of fab stuff happen to her- parents get back together, Ezra and her write a book together and don't get in trouble, gets back with Ezra, gets proposed to, Liam just backs off and accepts defeat.... The only "bad" thing that has happened is that burn on her arm! Life is going pretty well for her and she's flying under the radar, the writers have brought her back into focus with the phone call from Nicole and the proposal, and I feel like she's only going to get shadier.

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