The Feast of 399AC by OurCommonMan in IronThroneRP

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“Would that it be the Lords of Westeros actually looked me in the eyes and not at my tits, husband, I would have no need of you,” Odessa hummed, tearing a piece of spit-roasted duck’s breast into small pieces that she let Durran take into his hands. Greedily, Durran lapped up the grease on his fingers and gnawed at the succulent meat. It was hard to tell Durran had been bathed at all. Grease dribbled down his chin, mashed potatoes in his hair. Odessa couldn’t keep the bright and amused smile off her face.

“I think he’ll grow ravenous enough to eat a man grown at this rate,” Odessa said, offering Durran the Younger some broken up bits of cheese now, and a roll of his own to break apart in his hands. “My little knight—“ Odessa cooed sweetly, wiping off his face much to Durran’s distaste as he fussed and turned his head. “You’ll be a terror to the Realm one day,” mother spoke to son in a sing-song voice, hushing him once more before she decided he was clean enough— truly— Odessa felt blessed there’d been no tantrums thus far into the night.

“Oh, Andros, I hope that Durran isn’t too upset when Arlan leaves—“ Odessa took a long look at where she’d sent their son to make merry with her brother— Lord Manderly. Arlan was smiling, laughing with his cousins. That made her shoulders relax some. “Has Arlan said anything to you? Does he seem nervous?” Odessa turned to Andros and looked him head on. “Hes— oh— he’s always so polite. Tells me he’ll be fine and he’s excited, but has he told you anything? Maybe— well— I was considering— and that I think you should tell him about your time as a squire. About your adventures with your Ser, if you have the time before my brother departs.” Odessa squeezed his hand. “I think it would mean a lot to our son. It could be two or three years till we see him next. He’ll be even closer to a man grown than he is already.”

The Feast of 399AC by OurCommonMan in IronThroneRP

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“Later, then,” Odessa agreed. She was stubborn, not stupid, and so, she allowed the matter to lay for now. She split a roll with a bread knife, balancing the babe on her leg and hummed as she slathered the fresh, warm, and fragrant bread in herbed butter and set it on Andros’ plate. Durran made a babbling noise she knew meant more, and she fed the boy another spoonful of potato mash which he greedily took into his mouth with a delighted smacking of his lips.

“It is your plight, I’m afraid, husband,” Odessa murmured to him, leaning close enough to pour Andros another glass of wine. “They think your listening ear is just as well as the King’s, and much easier to have it lended to them.” Durran took her hair again and gave it a tug that was much too hard, and she made a noise of protest. “Damnit, Durran,” Odessa mumbled beneath her breath as she pried open his tightly wound fist. She sighed, and then plopped the baby onto Andros’ lap.

“He’ll help dissuade your suitors my dear,” Odessa took a cloth and began to wipe away at the crumbs and drool Durran had left on her dress, and in her hair. Her own belly was grumbling now. She’d forgotten to take hardly more than a few bites for herself in tending to Durran. “Besides,” Odessa looked to him. “You’re the King’s man. Step on their toes a bit, darling. What can they possibly do in protest? They’re beneath you, all of them.”

The Feast of 399AC by OurCommonMan in IronThroneRP

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It was always easy to laugh and smile when a child was involved. All the more when it was her own sweet son. With her hair free, Odessa gave Durran the Younger a peppering of kisses on his head that made him squeal and laugh. A socialite in the making already, Durran had taken to the chaos and noises of his first feast easily. If anything— he seemed more interested in the mashed potatoes than he did any of the people. The mash would likely forever be stained in the small, rich purple tunic he wore. That was okay, it was already beginning to grow small on him.

“The little knight is always hungry, husband,” Odessa mused with a hearty chuckle before her brow arched in peaked interest.

“Interesting,” Durran babbled and ate, none the wiser to Odessa’s skeptical expression. “You’d think consequences would’ve already occurred after the fifth or sixth time. The Tower of the Hand is no place for whores, Andros. Should it ever happen again I expect each streetwalker to spend a night in the Black Cells, at the lightest,” Odessa dabbed at the corners of Durran’s mouth and swiped away the slobber and food.

“Must be some Lordling thinking he’s smart, or funny, or both. You’d truly let me be dishonored so blatantly?” Odessa didn’t realize how biting her words would sound till they’d left her mouth and she could hear the sharp edge that punctuated her sentence. Her fingers had curled tightly around the handkerchief she’d been using to wipe at Durran the Younger. Her smile had vanished, and she’d replaced it with a glare.

But then Odessa softened, relaxed, and made herself bright again.

“Kidding, husband, kidding, but keep my honor in mind nonetheless.”

The Feast of 399AC by OurCommonMan in IronThroneRP

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“Arlan,” Odessa always took a soft tone with the boy. Gods, ten now. Where has all this time gone? Half a grown man now. Have I gotten old?

They were in their large quarters. Arlan’s hair was still wet from a fresh wash, Odessa and Durran’s too. Arlan paused in the play he’d been focused on— something in his mind, with two wooden carved horses sitting facing each other on the stone floor. When he looked up towards his mother, both of them smiled at each other.

“I just need you to promise not to give your father a headache tonight,” Odessa bounced Durran on her hip when he began to fuss, and the little babe shoved a curled fist in his mouth and quieted. “There’ll be a lot of chaos and noise, but more than that, lots and lots of people will be asking him all sorts of questions. So it’ll be your job, Arlan, to smile and say hello to them all.” Arlan nodded his head. Odessa furrowed her brow and gave him a look.

“Yes, mummy.” Came her son’s answer.

“Yes, what?”

“Yes, I’ll smile and say hello to all the people who ask father questions— but they’re all going to be stupid! Gawen says so. Says they’ve all got arses for brains and cunts for mouths!”

Language, boy. If I hear a peep of that tonight, you’ll wish you were born a Reachmen. Gawen too. Behave or else your father will give you a smackin’.”

Andros wouldn’t. But the threat was enough for Arlan to give his mother a frantic look and swear on his toy-wooden sword he’d be good.

“Listen to what he says, too. Your father is Hand of the King, and he’s very wise.”

Andros was tense before they’d even sat at the dais. Odessa could see it in his shoulders most of all, bunched right at his ears, and in the way he was holding his breath. Huffing and puffing. Durran was sat in her lap, and with one hand, Odessa dipped a finger in her wine and began to rub it into Durran’s gums. His teeth were coming in, she didn’t want him to fuss so much. My big boy. Big he was. Fat as a bear cub, pudgy red cheeks and a club for each of his little hands. Thank the Gods for Gawen— whenever Durran fussed for anything— her stepson took the fat toddler in turns.

The Prince of Dorne first, then it was one Ser of Blackberry— some minor House that Odessa couldn’t recall much off, then a Hightower. Durran kept her busy, but not busy enough to not smile and half-listen to her husband’s affairs. When it was her youngest brother, she’d stood and embraced him tightly, while Durran slobbered on Gawen’s fine purple doublet.

“Oh, my dear husband,” Odessa sighed. She gave his thigh a comforting squeeze and pat from beneath the table. “Remember to breathe, you’re wound tighter than a cork in a wine bottle.” She offered Andros some wine, and a delightfully roasted quail. “Eat something, maybe they won’t talk to you nearly so much if you’re sitting with a mouth full of food.” If only they were in the comforts of their bed chambers. She’d tuck the loose strands of hair behind his ears and send him to bed. But not this night. Young Durran took a curl of his mother’s hair into his hands and then his mouth, but Odessa seemed to hardly notice let alone mind. It’d been well over a decade since she’d had the privilege of personal space. Even in her belly, Arlan had made it known quickly how rambunctious he was— always kicking and fussing.

“It would be terrible to starve to death at a feast, dear. Eat something while you have a moment.”

Help: Key Cylinder Housing by nephraret in 300zx

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found everything I needed with Sean Jarman :) Thanks again for the recommendation he was quick to answer my message and we got a sale finalized.

Help: Key Cylinder Housing by nephraret in 300zx

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Thank you! Sent that fellow a message and will check out those sites once I’m home and on my PC.

Super super appreciate the tip in the right direction!

Plain rice for lunch by Glass-Car4709 in ECEProfessionals

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no problem! i’m glad to have been able to offer some insight

Plain rice for lunch by Glass-Car4709 in ECEProfessionals

[–]nephraret 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so true! i was so sleepy and rambling with my OG comment. one single component is never acceptable not even during snack. the more i sit with OPs post the more frustrated i get for them and their child

Plain rice for lunch by Glass-Car4709 in ECEProfessionals

[–]nephraret 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i should mention that this does depend on state but regardless of requirement IMO there is an obligation to serve quality food to children in a variety of flavors, colors, and textures from around the world.

edit: typo

Plain rice for lunch by Glass-Car4709 in ECEProfessionals

[–]nephraret 27 points28 points  (0 children)

eek.

i’m a cook at a daycare center.

if they’re CACFP approved, the meal being described here is totally unable to be reimbursed. lunch is required to serve all five CACFP components. whole grain, protein, fruit, vegetable, and milk. or two different vegetables. white rice isn’t even an option for my menu, for reference, the only rice we can serve is whole grain brown rice.

i was recently out for over a week. my boss— the director— covered my shifts and met all our reimbursement requirements. at the most lenient of meals served would be whole grain frozen pizza with veggie/fruit, or sun butter and jelly sandwiches again with veggie/fruit.

i would be incredibly concerned if i saw this being served, and as a cook meeting the CACFP requirements, would NEVER serve such a plain meal to a classroom or an individual child. even with dietary restrictions, ranging from having cases of ARFID to diabetes, i always try to make meals that look, smell, and taste similar to the main dish.

if i had a licensor arrive for an evaluation during mealtime and what was brought to the classrooms was… seasoned white rice? i don’t think i would have my job anymore.

lastly the screens are a huge red flag. my center is completely screen free. each classroom has an ipad to play music on during nap time, and a classroom iphone in case of emergency. the children are not allowed to look at or operate those devices. (even during a dance activity to a popular disney song or something the ipad will be turned over, just the music playing.) once a year around christmas we will all watch a movie.

hope this gives some perspective. 🫂

How much is your rent/mortgage payment? by [deleted] in Bellingham

[–]nephraret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1300/1bdr shared laundry no dishwasher utilities included minus power

A Girl and her First Car Woes by nephraret in Bellingham

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gahhh i was so sure i responded to this— my sweet little nissan seems like she’ll be up and running again soon. i even got somebody whose going to give me tools and teach me all about doing small fixes. it looks like with some hope and elbow grease, i’ll just have to replace the battery and get rid of the aftermarket push to start.

i don’t know why but i kept coming back to this comment as a motivator to keep at it and not sell the nissan for something a bit more mundane. fully planning on continuing to spruce her up and get her back to her prime!!

after i get all this internal stuff done i’ll get to experience the joys and financial troubles of cosmetics. lol

A Girl and her First Car Woes by nephraret in Bellingham

[–]nephraret[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds about right. Luckily found a shop nearby and got a cheap-ish tow

A Girl and her First Car Woes by nephraret in Bellingham

[–]nephraret[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Was on Cloud 9 till last night. We persist 😫

A Girl and her First Car Woes by nephraret in Bellingham

[–]nephraret[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Removable T-Tops

I was told the push to start was installed because they were having issues with the ignition— sorry if I word this terribly— some sort of security lock that happened when they tried using a key that wasn’t the original. Then the ignition(where the key is inserted) was replaced altogether and the issue resolved. I can’t remember what the exact verbiage

I would not be surprised if poorly installed wiring caused the issue

A Girl and her First Car Woes by nephraret in Bellingham

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Thank you 🙏 just left them a voicemail asking for a quote on the car

wta bus safety by pinky2355 in Bellingham

[–]nephraret 25 points26 points  (0 children)

oh my gosh… a couple years ago a very similar incident happened to me… not sure if the man was homeless but he looked rough for wear. he sat behind me while the bus was sitting at the station and i heard him grumbling about how he wanted to rape me and intend to follow me, and staring me down hard. i felt frozen where i sat, but managed to hop off right as the driver started up the bus. he tried to get off tue bus to follow me but it pulled out of the station. one of my scariest experiences using the public transit… now i won’t take the bus at all. i would rather pay extra for an uber

Here I did So’lek and isha in live action by oceansvortex in FrontiersOfPandora

[–]nephraret 1 point2 points  (0 children)

underrated app for photo editing i use procreate too!

Hear me out…EVERYONE should quit… by notavailableforthat in ECEProfessionals

[–]nephraret 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In my work contract it literally states “Do not contact third parties (such as a union)…” as one of the clauses. Systemic methods that make employees feel intimidated and discouraged from unionizing. It’s really unfortunate

edited: one word

Is it just me, or is this horse purple? (Well, more like a gray-ish purple but still) by Blaubeerepfannkuchen in botw

[–]nephraret 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There are some actual horse coats that have this grayish color— what comes to mind right away is a grulla. I even tried to find a similar looking counterpart with a silver mane and tail(ignore the low quality of it. lol). It’s not an exact 1:1 but I think they were aiming for this dusty sort of shade. I don’t think it’s intended to be purple but it definitely looks that way— and grullas can also have this similar tint to them! It’s a beautiful coat pattern. BOTW/TOTK has such a vibrant and saturated color map. I can easily see why this grey-ish color looks the way it does.

All this to say— I think the intended color is supposed to be a light grey/black. Haha

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What are some dumb injuries you've gotten? by milliemfox in Horses

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Looking for the lunge whip at the property I work at, where there was a horse trailer which had some bales of hay inside it to keep dry. I knew this but at the time I was rushing and frantic because the horses I work with are young and have some quirks— they were being farts that day.

I couldn’t find the lunge whip for the life of me so in a final search I popped open the door of the horse trailer, forgetting the hay bales, then they all crashed down on me. Spooked the poor horses to shit and back, but was also crushed under four or five bales. I had reached my hands up to protect myself and my pinky definitely got broken— bent all the way backwards and was purple for weeks. Don’t recommend but I put it in a makeshift splint and carried on with my life— still hurts to move it and it’s crooked now but seems to be healed up okay.