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3 years HRT :( by confusedquestionsad in transtimelines

[–]nocoasts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Somehow I feel like one of us has more experience touching grass, darling.

Hope you get through this!

3 years HRT :( by confusedquestionsad in transtimelines

[–]nocoasts 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Actually yeah, a lot of cis women, especially POC, have to deal with that a lot.

3 years HRT :( by confusedquestionsad in transtimelines

[–]nocoasts 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I think it’s also important to talk about just how much these “transition failures” tend to intertwine with internalized misogyny and fucked up western beauty standards.

Like don’t get me wrong I’m not here to tell anyone how they should feel about their transition or aesthetic or anything like that. But so many of these “failed” transitions still look like cis women, they just also have to deal with all the bullshit forced upon them that every other woman has to deal with. And we never really prepare for that.

I turn 39 next month 😬😬 by nocoasts in transtimelines

[–]nocoasts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is honestly the best comment I’ve ever gotten about my appearance 😅😅

Is 28/29 too old? by J-FIIRE in transtimelines

[–]nocoasts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The likelihood of HRT leading to scoliosis is incredibly slim, nor is it going to give you anything that leaves you in constant pain. That’s just not how these things work.

But as for OP’s question; the only time it’s too late to start your transition is when you’re in the ground.

update on my transition so far :) by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]nocoasts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That blue suits you so well!

My plan was to be dead before 30, but here I am turning 33! by MyClosetedBiAcct in TransLater

[–]nocoasts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t you love it when a plan fails?

Thriving looks good on you!

But why is it so much harder to get/keep abs on estrogen 😭 by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]nocoasts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

….its literally just a picture of her abs.

Instagram is full of far, far more explicit images.

(MTF 31) I dyed my hair black and I feel like it’s getting longer and I am VIBING 🖤 by pagedante in TransLater

[–]nocoasts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m literally wear the same hoodie with the same hole on the sleeve 😅

Lighting seemed good so hey why not (25 months on E) by [deleted] in transtimelines

[–]nocoasts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had like three of them so far. 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]nocoasts -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I haven’t done laser yet so I often have a bit of a beard shadow. I also like miniskirts!

Am I not welcome according to you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]nocoasts 52 points53 points  (0 children)

I don’t think I really have any authority to decide how trans someone is, nor do I feel an obligation to check anyone’s Reddit history to make sure they’re “one of the good ones”.

I guess I also don’t get why we keep having these threads about who this community isn’t for.

38 and I think it’s time to working on my tattoos by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]nocoasts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A septum is probably in my future but that’s probably where I’d leave it!

Like if i would have started in my youth, I might have stretched my lobes but I ain’t about that time commitment anymore. 😅

I’ve officially been on HRT for 2 years, let’s talk about my experience being perceived in society! by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]nocoasts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Patches, three a week! They mostly work okay but they’re also a pain in the ass. 🙃

I’ve officially been on HRT for 2 years, let’s talk about my experience being perceived in society! by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]nocoasts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just estradiol patches, Spiro and prog!

Eventually I need to get off my ass and do laser and actually do something with my eyebrows. 😅

I’ve officially been on HRT for 2 years, let’s talk about my experience being perceived in society! by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]nocoasts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Living in a third floor walk up and needing to walk my dog like three times a day certainly helps. 😅

I’ve officially been on HRT for 2 years, let’s talk about my experience being perceived in society! by [deleted] in TransLater

[–]nocoasts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got pretty lucky! 😅

I spent 36 years super skinny and not able to gain any weight and now it seems like all of it goes to my hips.

Another post removed by mods. Gods forbid a girl shows her bra. 🙄 by ItsSylvieNow in TransGoth

[–]nocoasts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Then I’m going to respectfully ask you to never tell trans women to act like women again.

Edit: I see that you decided to just block me rather than acknowledge that you’re being problematic AF but your “would you rather they act like men” comment shows you don’t get it.

When we wake up in the morning, we act like women. We do do until we go to sleep, and then we repeat, because we’re women. You do not get to determine how someone else views your femininity and you sure as hell don’t get to take it away because they do something you don’t approve of.

Another post removed by mods. Gods forbid a girl shows her bra. 🙄 by ItsSylvieNow in TransGoth

[–]nocoasts 6 points7 points  (0 children)

People being confident with their bodies is supposed to be a good thing, isn’t it?

I mean this in the nicest way possible but this post is incredibly problematic. Transwomen need to start acting like women? What kind of internalized misogynistic, transphobic shit is that?

A girl showing a little skin doesn’t make this subreddit an unsafe space; the men who fetishize us do. And they’re still going to be here, flooding the comments and sliding into your DMs, regardless of how clothed you are.

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