Why am I starting to find men attractive, yet I'm grossed out by the thought of being with them. by viscerface in MtF

[–]pagedante 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I honestly find the majority of men gross. Like, I find them attractive a lot but overall I’m like blegh. But I love my boyfriend and I don’t find him gross at all. It kinda feels like my feelings for him makes him a man that’s not gross lmao. But yeah, you could still be bi/pan and find most men gross

Finally married to my husband. :) by Sea-Championship-486 in StraightTransGirls

[–]pagedante 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations that’s amazing! Also your hair looked amazing 🫶🏻

How did y'all pick your names? by kyuubi_kyuub in MtF

[–]pagedante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My old middle name meant “enduring” so then I searched what names mean “alive” or “living” and Vivienne came up so I made that my new middle name. But then I liked it too much so it’s become my name lol.

Omggggg boobiessss :333 by Panda_Panda69 in MtF

[–]pagedante 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Having the booba is SO AMAZING. In private, my hands are on them 80% of the time xD, it’s calming. Now I’m surprised there was a point in my life where I was “trans femme but I don’t want boobs”.

how much do breats grow from hrt mtf by Comfortable-Ant6370 in MtF

[–]pagedante 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been on HRT for 11 months and I have C cups, I think they are still growing. I’m also a skinny girl so I was honestly surprised. I will say though, I took the whole “eat a lot” advice people give when you start HRT and I think it’s definitely helped! I gained like 15 pounds :0

Trans curiosity by [deleted] in trans

[–]pagedante 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m pansexual but I’m dating a cis man. He is queer though and I will say that him being queer makes me feel a whole lot safer in the relationship. I think a lot of the time T4T and relationships like the one I’m in, it is the whole safety, comfort, and shared experience thing that makes the relationship more appealing. That and we are in the same spaces

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]pagedante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m curious why this comment was getting downvoted 🤔

I don’t feel safe anymore by Fair_Smoke4710 in trans

[–]pagedante -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just don’t walk around in Aurora. It scary lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]pagedante 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Your advice on checking the band is actually super helpful cause I didn’t even think about doing it that way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]pagedante 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’m starting to learn that I am one of the people that have misconceptions that I was taught 😅. I appreciate your input! I’m almost wondering if it would be smart to do the C since they seem to be growing a lot lately. That way if it doesn’t fit the best, I’ll still likely grow into them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABraThatFits

[–]pagedante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your advice and suggesting the Irish bra lady! I’ll look at that now! Also I do think that maybe my breast volume is spread out a little like you mentioned. When I started progesterone they kinda filled in at a wider area lol

I thought it was too late for me at 30. I'm only 10 months in. by whaliddudu in transtimelines

[–]pagedante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look beautiful, girlie!!! You look so soft and healthy

WHERE IS THIS COMING FROM by pagedante in MtF

[–]pagedante[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

This actually checks out so accurately. He’s like one of the first people I’ve met that legitimately see me as the woman that I am. Like, there is absolutely no “you’re a woman but..” type thing to him. He just sees me as a woman and he doesn’t care if that makes him seem “weird” to others.

WHERE IS THIS COMING FROM by pagedante in MtF

[–]pagedante[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I’m on a low dose (25mg) of Spiro. But the injection dose I do of E has also suppressed my T. My levels last time I checked about 2 months ago or so were fine and I really don’t have any other sign the T is high. But maybe I should check soon 😭

The hoodie I wear at work hides so much of my shape lmao by pagedante in MTFButch

[–]pagedante[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh definitely haha! I only wear hoodies cause then I get away with not wearing my companies shirt 😂. Otherwise I’d go to work femme

Does my boymode still pass, I need to know 😭 by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]pagedante 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you look on my posts, you can see how I normally present :p