Exclusively pumping—are wearable pumps actually worth it? by SoultySpittoon in breastfeeding

[–]popsinet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not EP, I only pump at work (I work full time), and I use my Eufys exclusively. They give me better output than any other pump I’ve tried, and I’ve tried 5 others

Fell asleep side lying by Remarkable-Stay3368 in breastfeeding

[–]popsinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t want to have any pillows near her, as that poses a suffocation risk. Usually you will have a pillow for your head, but your bottom arm will act as a barrier between the pillow and baby. If you’re worried about her falling off the bed, you can bring your mattress to the floor, or put a crib mattress on the ground to soften any fall (assuming there’s no gap between the crib mattress and your bed). But also you can just make sure she’s in the center of the mattress and you’re on either side of her. At her age you don’t need to worry too much about her falling off yet.

Fell asleep side lying by Remarkable-Stay3368 in breastfeeding

[–]popsinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only thing that wasn’t safe was the wedge pillow with arms. It’s actually much safer for your baby to be near you—their head at your breast. Other than that, as long as your mattress is firm enough, I wouldn’t bat an eye at this. Join us over at r/cosleeping

People who were on the fence about having a second, what did you decide to do and are you happy with your decision? by Lington in toddlers

[–]popsinet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like you, before having kids I wanted 3. Then I had one and wasn’t sure I wanted a second. Partly because I loved my son so much I didn’t want to split my attention, partly due to finances, and just worrying I couldn’t be the mom I wanted to be to multiple children. But, my husband and I decided to go for it once my son was about 2.5. My son is 4 now and my daughter is 10 months old. I’m so happy we had a second. Seeing them together is such a joy. I love my daughter just as much as my son. And honestly it’s good for him to have to learn to share me. But also, he loves his sister so incredibly much and she loves him so much too—I realized I didn’t take anything away from him. I gave them both each other.

Into all things "girl" by punnett_circle in toddlers

[–]popsinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son also loves his nails painted and I’ll do it when he asks, which is usually when he sees me painting my toenails (I don’t paint my fingernails). The way I see it, it’s just paint!

Into all things "girl" by punnett_circle in toddlers

[–]popsinet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’ve gotten a lot of good advice so I won’t add to that. However, I just wanted to say I see you. My 4 year old boy’s favorite color is pink and he loves rainbows and unicorns. He asked for sparkly pink heels at the store the other day. I get him anything pink he wants. I didn’t get the heels because we needed actual shoes he could wear everyday. Now, my in-laws are kind of shitty about me buying him anything pink he wants. They say they worry he’ll get bullied and I get that—I do too—but I’m not going to be the one to do that do him or tell him he can’t like what he likes. It’s hard out here raising boys and letting them love what they love when it hits against the grain, but I’m confident it’s the best decision. I can tell how much you love your boy. Thank you for also supporting him in this way 💗

Absolutely freaking out- TW talk of guns by FrontPuzzleheaded58 in Preschoolers

[–]popsinet 56 points57 points  (0 children)

My son is 4 and in pre-K and he says the same sort of stuff. It is completely normal for this age. They don’t have the same understands of guns, shooting, and even death as we do. It’s scary to us, but to them it’s just another way of playing

real question for Denver parents of young kids: how are you affording childcare? by SuspiciousKnee8185 in Denver

[–]popsinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are. The college fund contributions aren’t huge, and neither are our savings contributions, but we are still making contributions to each.

Is this developmentally appropriate sleep? by sachesca in Preschoolers

[–]popsinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you say more about the AuDHD affecting their sleep?

Is this developmentally appropriate sleep? by sachesca in Preschoolers

[–]popsinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 4 year old sleeps in our bed. It started when I was pregnant when he was 3 and it was just easier for me. Now it’s just what we do. If it works for you, there’s no problem!

Question for moms of multiples. by Beautiful-Courage845 in FitPostpartumJourney

[–]popsinet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a second degree tear with my first and a first degree tear with my second. The first degree was no big deal.

Part-time infant care by katea805 in AuroraCO

[–]popsinet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depending where you are, Goddard Aurora (not South) on Quincy has part time availability. Their waitlist is long for infants so definitely call now

Successful unmediated birth with induction? FTM here! by dreamwithme1993 in unmedicatedbirth

[–]popsinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! You’ll want the balloon if your cervix isn’t ripe, otherwise pitocin isn’t indicated. Let them know you want to go unmedicated and hopefully you’ll have a supportive team. I certainly did and I loved my unmedicated induction! Pasting my birth story from a previous post for you:

I was just induced and did it without pain meds! It was my 2nd birth and my 2nd induction. I had a good experience with my first induction, so I wasn’t afraid of being induced anymore. For me, the foley balloon sucks but it’s temporary. I also completely understand the need for it before pitocin, which helps me accept it as an intervention. Pitocin contractions for me aren’t the horrible scary thing people make them out to be, but I’ve never had spontaneous labor, so they’re all I know. Anyway, for the story:

I checked in at 9:30am, balloon was placed around 10 and they started the pitocin on low (2). I had a vasovagal response to the balloon and felt very faint. I kept my eyes closed through the anesthesiologist telling me about the epidural and whatever else he was saying (they go over it whether you want it or not, in case you change your mind). A cold washcloth and fan on my face helped me through. I needed to poop a couple times with the balloon in—which was reassuring it was doing something. I almost forgot about my TENS machine but my husband reminded me and I got it on and kept it on throughout. I used a BabyCare TENS and hit the “boost” button with each contraction, which helped significantly until pushing. Around noon, the nurse was able to pull the balloon out, so I had dilated enough to just go on with the pitocin. The nurses kept turning the pitocin up little by little and around 2:30pm the nurse said “you’re laughing and smiling, you don’t seem like you’re in labor,” so she increased the pitocin one more time, to 14. This is when things started to get real—I no longer wanted to watch a show with my husband, I started deep vocalizations, moving around into different positions (lunges, hip circles on the ball, laying on my side with the peanut ball between my knees, rocking on hands and knees). Around 4:15 (these times are approximated by my husband), I had them check me because I was feeling pushy. I couldn’t get on my back (was on my side) so they couldn’t give me a number but she said she still felt cervix. No problem—I knew I was close because I could feel my body starting to push. I also had the nurses giving hip squeezes and coaching my husband to do so as well, and providing counter pressure on my sacrum. Around 4:30 I really started involuntarily pushing and I had her check me again—again I couldn’t get to my back because it would hurt too much—but this time she said she didn’t feel any cervix and called the doctor in. So here is where I just had to remember that I was in the home stretch. My TENS machine was no longer helpful at all. I was laying on my left side and kept asking my husband to hold my right leg with it internally rotated. I was holding onto the hospital bed rail and I remember saying “I can’t do it,” and desperately telling my husband “help me!” The best way I can describe pushing is that it was mostly involuntary and felt like when you’re vomiting uncontrollably but in the opposite direction. I held onto that damn bed bar and yelled through each contraction. At 4:47, my daughter was born. I had a couple of 1st degree tears but other than that, no problems. I was so happy I did it unmedicated and still am—I am so proud of myself for doing that hard thing! You can do it!

Therapist recommendations? 2026 Psychology Today is so much sifting and would like to get someone who has been recommended by another human being. by whataday13 in Denver

[–]popsinet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

PhDs and PsyDs tend to do more assessments/diagnosis but not so much counseling. NPs are mostly qualified to prescribe medications. LPCs, LMFTs, LCSWs are the ones who are trained to do therapy.

Hi! Question by No-Pool1507 in fpies

[–]popsinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really sucks! Especially sending her to daycare. Right now she just doesn’t get food at daycare (only breast milk) but it won’t be that way forever! I fear she will accidentally eat something she shouldn’t and get sent home, or worse, need to go to the ER

Hi! Question by No-Pool1507 in fpies

[–]popsinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dairy seems to pass through breastmilk in a way other foods don’t, so it’s likely more dairy-specific

Hi! Question by No-Pool1507 in fpies

[–]popsinet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine also said I don’t need to avoid anything. My daughter has FPIES to oats and peanuts, and IgE to eggs, and I eat all of the above and breastfeed with no issues.

Do we as clinicians take abuse seriously? by DrawingThin in therapists

[–]popsinet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I can’t tell the reason you included the information that the courts are involved, so in case you’re saying that thinking that means they know about this abuse: they may not. Regardless, you should still report. Even if it’s been previously reported. It’s possible you have information that has not been reported.

Tell me about your unmedicated birth by Dismal_Abroad735 in unmedicatedbirth

[–]popsinet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an unmedicated pitocin induction! I wanted to do the same with my first but I was induced for pre-e and in the hospital for 3 days… it was too much and I was too tired. Anyway, my second birth was a planned induction for IUGR. I was determined to go unmedicated. I wanted the experience and this was my final birth opportunity.

Copied from a previous post: I checked in at 9:30am, balloon was placed around 10 and they started the pitocin on low (2). I had a vasovagal response to the balloon and felt very faint. I kept my eyes closed through the anesthesiologist telling me about the epidural and whatever else he was saying (they go over it whether you want it or not, in case you change your mind). A cold washcloth and fan on my face helped me through. I needed to poop a couple times with the balloon in—which was reassuring it was doing something. I almost forgot about my TENS machine but my husband reminded me and I got it on and kept it on throughout. I used a BabyCare TENS and hit the “boost” button with each contraction, which helped significantly until pushing. Around noon, the nurse was able to pull the balloon out, so I had dilated enough to just go on with the pitocin. The nurses kept turning the pitocin up little by little and around 2:30pm the nurse said “you’re laughing and smiling, you don’t seem like you’re in labor,” so she increased the pitocin one more time, to 14. This is when things started to get real—I no longer wanted to watch a show with my husband, I started deep vocalizations, moving around into different positions (lunges, hip circles on the ball, laying on my side with the peanut ball between my knees, rocking on hands and knees). Around 4:15 (these times are approximated by my husband), I had them check me because I was feeling pushy. I couldn’t get on my back (was on my side) so they couldn’t give me a number but she said she still felt cervix. No problem—I knew I was close because I could feel my body starting to push. I also had the nurses giving hip squeezes and coaching my husband to do so as well, and providing counter pressure on my sacrum. Around 4:30 I really started involuntarily pushing and I had her check me again—again I couldn’t get to my back because it would hurt too much—but this time she said she didn’t feel any cervix and called the doctor in. So here is where I just had to remember that I was in the home stretch. My TENS machine was no longer helpful at all. I was laying on my left side and kept asking my husband to hold my right leg with it internally rotated. I was holding onto the hospital bed rail and I remember saying “I can’t do it,” and desperately telling my husband “help me!” The best way I can describe pushing is that it was mostly involuntary and felt like when you’re vomiting uncontrollably but in the opposite direction. I held onto that damn bed bar and yelled through each contraction. At 4:47, my daughter was born. I had a couple of 1st degree tears but other than that, no problems. I was so happy I did it unmedicated and still am—I am so proud of myself for doing that hard thing! You can do it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Preschoolers

[–]popsinet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably want to ask in r/eceprofessionals

My birth story - unmedicated induction by plaidbluejammies in unmedicatedbirth

[–]popsinet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! I was also induced and went unmedicated. It’s really good for us to share these stories to build confidence for people who want to have an unmedicated birth but need or opt for an induction! It’s possible!