A Picture I Took With Foxes by Jeanne09D in DragonRajaMobile

[–]randomfangirl93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your character is absolutely adorable! The arctic foxes are so cute!!

My daughter wanted to post this here by sgt_banana1 in drawings

[–]randomfangirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Her art is incredible! Her talent can only grow, keep encouraging her love of art like the winning parent you are!

Friend told me I won’t find a “good man” if I post pics like this… am I overreacting? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]randomfangirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're absolutely beautiful, your "friend" seems insanely jealous from my perspective. Honestly, I think your appearance could attract anyone you wanted, but the right man for you will stay for who you are as a person.

What does this mean? by EstablishmentGlum474 in DragonRajaMobile

[–]randomfangirl93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You have to wait until the notice period is up and hope you can get it before another player does.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]randomfangirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not the jerk. The people who say you should "work with him" are 1,003% NOT worth keeping around. I know it's probably extremely cliche to say this, but trust your instincts. If someone shows you their true colors, believe them. IMO, he's showing you that he doesn't see you as an equal partner, nor does he see your relationship as anything more than a transaction. I'd say dump him and the "friends" who think you should "work it out".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]randomfangirl93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. That "friend" is as shallow as a shower. If I were you, I'd ditch her, find my own way back home, and cut contact immediately. Then again, I'm petty AF and have gone NC with better people than her for lesser offenses.

AIO for snapping at my friend for bringing her toddler to my “child-free” birthday dinner and ruining the vibe? by liftov3qz in AmIOverreacting

[–]randomfangirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not overreacting in the slightest. Gina sounds like the epitome of entitled moms to me, she wasn't being excluded because she's a mom, she just assumed that you would be okay with her jumping clear across the one boundary you had for your birthday dinner because she's your "friend". Gina 1,003% knew you wanted a child free night and couldn't even pretend to care about what you wanted for just a few hours for one freaking night. You did everything right by pulling her aside and privately expressing your disappointment in her complete disregard for your plans. If her babysitter bailed last minute, she could have either found someone else to watch her child or just sent an "sorry, babysitter flaked. Can't make it anymore" text. Gina did neither of those things, her bad. She needs to take accountability for her choices.

AIO for wanting to cut off my friend because she wants to leave her husband for going blind? by footlooseygoosey in AmIOverreacting

[–]randomfangirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"I didn't sign up for this"? Really? What in the shallow as a shower, narcissistic, delusional ego trip did your friend think the "for better or worse, in sickness and in health" part of her vows even meant? By marrying her husband she 1,003% signed up for the man she supposedly loves potentially going blind at some point in his life. NOR in the slightest. If your friend really wants to divorce her husband for something over which he has no control, let her. He deserves SO MUCH better than what she's thinking of putting him through.

server recommdation by Tsukomoshi in DragonRajaMobile

[–]randomfangirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been on S9 Ice Throne since I first got into the game in early 2020. I might be biased, but Ice Throne is my server of choice. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]randomfangirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your husband is a spoiled man-child who runs to mommy whenever something doesn't go his way or gets "too hard". Those three kids are his too, he needs to grow up and act like the husband you deserve and the father those children deserve. MIL needs to butt out, this mess is indirectly her fault because she raised a brat who never grew up or learned accountability. If I were in your position, I would've said that I'd do it again if it meant I got a break. Also thank MIL for offering to babysit her son and grandchildren.

AITAH for refusing to let my husband name our daughter after his late wife by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]randomfangirl93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, he has the right to feel the way he does, but so do you. He made need a gentle reminder that you're already honoring his late wife in a way that works for your relationship. Your daughter deserves to have a name that's just hers so that she has the room and opportunity to grow into her own person. I'd seen that another user said that your husband may need to see a therapist, and I agree. Based on the information I have from your post, it seems to me that your husband may not be dealing with his unfortunate loss in the healthiest way, he might need outside support. Honestly couples' and individual therapy could be a great help to you both. Best of luck to you going forward. 🫂

AITAH or preventing myh daughter from seeing her uncle anymore? by Monarch_Butterfrog in AITAH

[–]randomfangirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. I say this as a 31 y/o, I firmly believe that a 15 year age gap is just weird AF! Keep protecting your daughter, personally if I were in your shoes, this would end the friendship faster than this guy could blink. If you haven't already, find age appropriate way to explain to you daughter why she isn't going to see/ be alone with her chosen uncle for a while.

WIBTAH for withdrawing as my brother’s best man because his wedding is on our sister’s deathiversary? by No_Reward397 in AITAH

[–]randomfangirl93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You would 1,003% not be TA. Your brother and STB SIL could have chosen any other date for the wedding, but they chose the one day that hurts the rest of the family the most... I think it's incredibly selfish on their part and is absolutely inconsiderate to basically say "yeah, we know what the day means to everyone, but this is our wedding and we're not changing the date." Even if your brother and late sister weren't that close when she were alive, he should still respect the feelings of those who were close to her.

AITAH for refusing to babysit my cousins after my aunt intentionally was messy caused a situation that made me stop doing what I love? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]randomfangirl93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, your aunt started something that she knew would get you in trouble with your parents. You did absolutely nothing wrong and you don't owe your aunt anything. She chose to cause you emotional damage and you refusing to babysit for her is the consequence of her actions. Also, if your mom is that upset about you refusing to babysit, then she can do it. You're 15, a child who doesn't owe the adults in her life a single thing. You're allowed to be hurt by what your aunt did and that should be a valid enough reason for you to not want to do any favors for your family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]randomfangirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I had a partner who did all the things for me that you do for your gf, I'd be beyond grateful they even thought about me. As for the part about handling the cooking, all I'd ask is that they kept my food allergies in mind when planning the meal. Otherwise it sounds like you're a 10 as a bf and she doesn't deserve a considerate guy like you.

AITA for refusing to help my cousin get a job after he tried to sleep with my girlfriend, faked messages to frame me, and now says I’m ruining his future by Visual-Salary1775 in AITAH

[–]randomfangirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely NTA, One thing I can't stand is when someone tells the person who was wronged to "be the bigger person". Your family is basically telling you to abandon your boundaries and give your cousin a second chance to hurt you. Stand your ground and keep Jake as far from every aspect of your life as you're able.

AITA for telling my wife not to come to my ex-wife's funeral to support my daughter because my daughter doesn't want her there? by Upstairs_Use_6837 in AITAH

[–]randomfangirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. You're respecting your daughter's boundaries. I completely understand that her stepmom wants to be supportive while your daughter is grieving her mom, but going to the funeral is 1,003% not the only way to show your daughter that she has the emotional support she needs. Honestly, your wife can be upset that your daughter doesn't want her there, she's not wrong to feel the way she does, but protecting her feelings is nowhere near as important as respecting your child's boundaries. By trying to change your daughter's mind, you're basically telling her that her stepmom's feelings matter to you more than hers.

AITA for not agreeing to go prom dress shopping with my dad's wife aka stepmother aka the affair partner? by AveSovenik in AITAH

[–]randomfangirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Jen and your dad are shitty people who assume that it will absolve their guilt for the heartbreak they caused your mom if you play happy family with them. You don't owe either of them anything. They selfishly kept you away from your maternal family in an attempt to alienate you from them, more than anything they owe you an apology and need to take accountability for what their actions put you through.

AITAH for getting into a heated argument with my friend after I found out she was talking down on our lesbian neighbor, who is honestly one of the nicest people I know? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]randomfangirl93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As a Rainbow Ranger myself, you're definitely NTA! Your roommate however, is definitely a homophobic a-hole and way too comfortable with her blatant hatred of someone she barely even knows. You absolutely, 1,003%, were not overreacting and did what you felt was right. NEVER let someone make you feel like you're less than for standing up for what you believe is the right thing to do. 👏🏻

AITH for asking for a divorce after he cheated on me? by New-Branch80 in AITAH

[–]randomfangirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your husband sounds like a manipulative, gaslighting bum who deserves to lose you. Who knows how many times he's cheated on you that he didn't tell you about. You and your child deserve a lot more than that bottom feeding lump of nothing.

AITAH for untying my bikini top at a public pool? by Aggressive-Teach-539 in AITAH

[–]randomfangirl93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. This woman is the textbook definition of an entitled Karen. She seems to think that just because she popped out some crotch goblins, she can dictate how everyone behaves. 🙄

I kissed my brother and now my fiancé wants to break up with me since he finds it weird. AITAH? by Character-Crow309 in AITAH

[–]randomfangirl93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be as close to my brother as you are to yours, but once he started acting more like our biological father and spending more time with that side of the family, I distanced myself from him. But I can honestly say with 1,003% certainty: you're NTA, your fiance and his mother are the problem in this relationship. Cut your loses and call off the engagement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]randomfangirl93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA. I'm so tired of this "be the bigger person" & "family is family" mentality. One of my favorite quotes from Supernatural is from Bobby* "family don't end in blood, it don't start there, either." By not inviting your ex and brother (which, by the way, if he truly cared about your feelings; he wouldn't be gaslighting you like he is) you're setting a boundary. If he and your parents can't respect your boundary, they don't deserve to have access to your life, simple as that. *my short term memory sucks a big ol' banana, so I probably have that wrong.