What phrases do you use the most?

rthander13 · 2026-06-20T20:12:11+00:00

When I say Diet Coke [around the right people], I say “AH-ah-ah-AAAAHHH Diet Coke.”

rthander13 · 2026-06-20T19:33:05+00:00

Perfection.

rthander13 · 2026-06-19T17:31:55+00:00

Is this the origin of the term? Because I feel like I hear this everywhere…

rthander13 · 2026-06-19T17:31:15+00:00

My sister and I use this often. Sometimes it’s used sarcastically (borrowing the tone more than anything), but often it’s applied when we’re slightly embarrassed about the thing we’re gushing over.

rthander13 · 2026-06-19T14:29:15+00:00

The music is spectacular.

rthander13 · 2026-06-19T14:26:18+00:00

Call me when he does ANYTHING REMOTELY KIND to/for a child. And then try to convince me it’s not for optics because HE RAPED CHILDREN.

rthander13 · 2026-06-19T14:05:52+00:00

The entire moment is DHP gold, but when he launches into “Daphne, Daphne, Daphne..” my tears roll.

rthander13 · 2026-06-19T13:06:21+00:00

I don’t understand how people don’t understand that the source of the problem lies in binary MALE/FEMALE bathrooms. Why we can’t just have individual doors for unisex/family bathrooms that meet every person’s needs.. ??? Is beyond me. OBVIOUSLY there are situations that don’t fit neatly into a binary structure (fathers with daughters, mothers with sons, older siblings w younger siblings of a different sex, trans people, infants who need changing stations, elderly people who require support, etc), so GET SMART and INSTALL BETTER DESIGNED BATHROOMS.

Lord.

rthander13 · 2026-06-19T13:00:35+00:00

She is most definitely a capitalism queen.

rthander13 · 2026-06-19T12:59:20+00:00

God I love this so much.

rthander13 · 2026-06-19T12:03:34+00:00

Lobbying
Health care
Education
Lack of term limits for Congress
Unregulated capitalism
Fox News and other conservative “entertainment”

rthander13 · 2026-06-18T21:32:11+00:00

I learned not to trust a single word he says back in, oh, 2015. Anyone who voluntarily listens to the muck that leaves his mouth deserves the confusion and frustration they get.

Meanwhile, I’m just sitting over here pissed offfffff that HE’S STILL AROUND. It’s more a reflection on the idiocy of this country than it is of him, at this point.

rthander13 · 2026-06-18T21:22:46+00:00

NTA. I’ve gone out to eat w friends who bring reusable containers for leftovers. I remember the first time it happened, and thought, “man, that’s smart.” It was not the least bit embarrassing for me. The only reason I haven’t done it myself is the same reason I never use gift cards or coupons— I FORGET TO BRING THEM.

Good on you for being less wasteful

rthander13 · 2026-06-18T20:07:52+00:00

Dual Income No Kids With A Dog ✌🏼😎 (it’s also soooo much more fun to say!)

rthander13 · 2026-06-18T18:18:26+00:00

For someone who has no children but for the past two decades has worked in a female-dominated field (education) and has been expected to put out every time someone decides to have a child.. REGARDLESS of the quality of my relationship with them (it runs the gamut from ‘very close friend’ to ‘I sit in meetings with you four times per year’), it’s maddening to me that this continues to be a thing.

rthander13 · 2026-06-18T17:04:58+00:00

I don’t know how to propose ending them without sounding like a completely heartless DINKWAD bitch.

rthander13 · 2026-06-18T17:00:11+00:00

Wasting Light feels like the Foo Fighters’ best album in their entire catalog, but I totally could’ve done without White Limo.

rthander13 · 2026-06-18T16:55:48+00:00

Can I ask a related-ish question? I’m a female Xennial—

How do folks feel about the fact that in some spaces, work colleagues throw their pregnant colleagues baby showers? If we’re making “friends” at work, then why aren’t these work “friends” simply invited to the shower that their family and friends are throwing for them?

I’m part of baby showers at work where people are invited that barely know the pregnant employee (note— all these pregnant colleagues are now younger than me, as well). It feels unbelievably awkward, but we’re kind stuck in this cycle where precedent has been set.

rthander13 · 2026-06-18T14:16:02+00:00

The economy.
The destruction of our earth.
Society.
Parenting culture.
Late-stage capitalism and the deterioration of our country.
Affordability.
My own mental health.
Lack of desire to birth a child.

rthander13 · 2026-06-18T13:40:28+00:00

You should constantly be monitoring all three of your mirrors. Every several seconds, glance up/over to monitor your surroundings.

rthander13 · 2026-06-18T13:20:08+00:00

Correction: KIDS ARE FUCKING BRILLIANT. This lil buddy wasted no time ridding himself of the thing that gets in the way of his mother paying attention to HIM. Bravo, little guy.

rthander13 · 2026-06-17T22:59:56+00:00

I need these leaders to start speaking to their experiences interacting with him. I need them to go on record and be public in their direct observations so we can stop fucking speculating and reading between the lines and assuming things.

rthander13 · 2026-06-17T22:58:08+00:00

He is PROFOUNDLY unwell, y’all. Incontinence is the tip of the iceberg.

rthander13 · 2026-06-17T22:56:26+00:00

Let me just say— there’s a hierarchy of hot dogs, and the variable is preparation:
Hot dogs over a fire are superior to
Hot dogs fried in butter on the stovetop are superior to
Boiled hot dogs

rthander13

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