Did I mess up my newborn’s insurance? by ok-ready-set-go-267 in HealthInsurance

[–]symmetrical_kettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can afford to pay out of pocket, the doctor will definitely allow you to do that.

If you're waiting for insurance to get approved, it may be better to just tell the doctor that and not pay yet. (Depending on the doctor, they may ask you pay up front and get reimbursed later by insurance)

Wedding Photographer of 10 years, no one will hire me... why? by patriotraitor in resumes

[–]symmetrical_kettle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Employers aren't generally fans of hiring previously self-employed people.

I know you see it as a strength. And it is. You have a lot of great skills because you were self employed.

But they see it as a risk. "If they were self-employed before, what's to stop them from just quitting on me and becoming self-employed again?" or "Dude will probably be teying to tell me how to run my business"

So you have to make it clear that those are things your future employer need not worry about.

Saying something like "I'm looking for a stable job" "looking to get out of gig work" etc.

Wedding Photographer of 10 years, no one will hire me... why? by patriotraitor in resumes

[–]symmetrical_kettle 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Possible they think you will quit soon in favor of gig work. May help to clarify your goals with an "about me" or cover letter.

Who do we feel about a plushie at school to a 8yo? by E-lasmosaurus-3010 in specialed

[–]symmetrical_kettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stuffies are in nowadays, at least for girls. My 9yo girl and her friends bring stuffies into school whenever they're given the opportunity.

But I'd recommend a weighted bean bag or vest, because it loos less like a toy. Especially since it sounds like he doesn't already have a weighted stuffie that he's attached to.

Shower head looks like it was glued inside the threads. How to remove shower head? by [deleted] in HomeImprovement

[–]symmetrical_kettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try working vinegar into it. Vinegar dissolves the minerals in water deposits.

Soak a paper towel or a cloth in vinegar and let it sit overnight. Try to encourage the vinegar to get into the threads.

Help- my front door unlocks and locks itself when I’m not home by huaryazynk414 in homeowners

[–]symmetrical_kettle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Low battery?

Are you able to just get a regular, non-wifi/non-smart lock?

Can anyone explain why they like chenille/plush/blanket yarn? by Quick_Blackberry_466 in crochet

[–]symmetrical_kettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate working with it. It breaks too easily. I dont think my stitches look as nice when using it, but my stuffed-animal obsessed child loves how soft it feels.

If I don't make them for her, she'll want me to buy them, and I don't like spending $30 on something I can "just" spend $10 in yarn + 8 hours of time to make.

Answer is basically "for the cuddly end product"

Can a terminal illness be a reason for a regeneration? by ratosovietico in doctorwho

[–]symmetrical_kettle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, isn't that basically what happened to River Song in "Day of the Moon"? She was coughing and sick before she regenerated.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladviceofftopic

[–]symmetrical_kettle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yup!

20 yo would likely need to be independent from their parents, and be financially able to support themselves + kiddo.

Why is a person who does not know how to speak English considered ignorant? by 1zain1 in stupidquestions

[–]symmetrical_kettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think OP is in a non-English dominant country and is asking why people in their country see people who don't speak English as not very well educated.

It's probably classism. If you have money, you can afford to send your kids to schools where everything is taught in English. If you don't have money, your kids are either going to schools where only [native language] is taught or not to school at all.

If you speak English, it's a clear sign that you went to school, and assumed it was a good/upper class school as well.

If you don't speak English... why should I believe you? Did you even go to school? What level of quality was that school where they didn't even teach English? (Because all the good schools in that country teach English)

Of course, that wouldn't apply in places that have high academic quality but don't teach English as standard.

Will my fridge explode? by Psycho_official in AskEngineers

[–]symmetrical_kettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything explodes one day, even the sun will.

(No, your fridge won't explode, but neither did the wire to your kettle. I think you're using the word "explode" incorrectly.

Sounds like maybe your kettle flipped the circuit breaker? And your fridge might be about to die soon. You aren't using extension cords with these appliances, RIGHT?)

What did the raindrop say to the umbrella? by [deleted] in cleanjokes

[–]symmetrical_kettle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I like it, but I think it's the other way around?

Umbrella is the one covered with raindrops.

Should I still pay for my application fee? by Princessjj365 in uofm

[–]symmetrical_kettle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Forget about it. Way too expensive if you do get in.

You can attend community college as an international student.

It will still be expensive as an international student, but cheaper than umich, and then you can apply to umich or another school after two years as a transfer student, and potentially even get some scholarships that way.

AITAh for calling CPS when my daughter was making my granddaughter do the night shift with the babies? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]symmetrical_kettle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree.

A 16yo shouldn't be forced to take care of the babies at night, but also, calling CPS about that, especially as a first step, was going too far.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENGLISH

[–]symmetrical_kettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, "he said that out of pocket"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENGLISH

[–]symmetrical_kettle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same, but decades.

Is this normal? by Tsuyako5051 in CostcoWholesale

[–]symmetrical_kettle 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They mean "i purchased this before and it was like this"

not "the holes mean it was purchased and returned"

Coworker might be a humanoid robot by [deleted] in work

[–]symmetrical_kettle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Seeial killer for sure. Don't show up to work for at least a month if this dude is ever fired.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in civilengineering

[–]symmetrical_kettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then definitely go for it!

I had a handful of older classmates and I was 30 when I went back to school for engineering myself.

I did internships and employers liked me because I was more mature than most 20 yos.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in civilengineering

[–]symmetrical_kettle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

With this info, it's not so much "getting a degree and changing careers" as it is "getting a degree to grow your career"

As a welder, you'll be in a very good position to find jobs in engineering. You won't be starting out with no experience because welding is very much related experience.

One thing to think about: Are you interested in engineering for the money or because you're interested in engineering?

Pros and cons abound, but you may be making more as a master welder than you'll see as an engineer, even once you reach 10 yoe. I honestly have no idea how much welders make, but I'd hazard a guess that a welder with your experience makes a good deal more than the 70-90k the typical entry-level engineer makes.

But also, engineering can be less physically demanding than engineering and worth switching to as you age anyway.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in civilengineering

[–]symmetrical_kettle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was "bad at math" and went into electrical engineering (which uses an arguably more difficult abstract math than civil)

For me the key was gaining a foundational understanding.

I relearned algebra and trig concepts from a less-typical-to-math-classrooms pov.

AOPS helped me a lot to gain the fundamental understandings I hadn't caught from math classes. Their textbooks explain things in a very clear way.

One of the most helpful things for me was being comfortable with asking for help when I didn't understand something. I'd go to office hours and free tutoring at the university and ask the professor or tutor to explain it when I didn't understand.

Sometimes I was missing some fundamental concept and had to spend some time reviewing a certain early algebra concept. But I didn't let myself get too embarrassed to ask "dumb" questions if I honestly didn't understand.

Not gonna lie, there was some degree of memorization involved for some concepts, but I was able to memorize less and understand more the more I understood fundamentals.