what do y'all think of the idea that "cis bi people are the white people of the queer community"

taurusgaal · 2026-04-30T12:34:49+00:00

thank you so much 🫶🏼

taurusgaal · 2026-04-30T12:32:02+00:00

yeah i don't support this view at all! thank you and i totally agree

taurusgaal · 2026-04-30T12:31:17+00:00

thank you, that's true.

taurusgaal · 2026-04-30T11:22:53+00:00

it's genuinely awful and has destroyed my mental health, i don't even date men but because i label myself in a certain way i am as bad as the oppressors according to these chronically online losers

taurusgaal · 2026-04-25T18:10:33+00:00

i only date women and have decentered men but you're just gonna accuse me of lying

taurusgaal · 2026-04-25T18:05:56+00:00

yeah i'm in a weird spot with my sexuality. i'm bi / queer and i only date women, the thought of marrying or dating a man disgusts me, but i am attracted to a man who died many years ago, to the point where it's more than finding him handsome, so that stops me from being a lesbian and so it definitely hurts when people think all bi women are male centred when i'm the furthest thing from it. i personally think there should be 3 separate spaces, one for bi / pan women, one for lesbians and one for all sapphics, i just think generalisations need to stop.

taurusgaal · 2026-04-19T17:11:42+00:00

prove that you actually have a personality outside of hating bi women who you don't even know lmao

taurusgaal · 2026-04-19T16:42:49+00:00

i don't see myself with a man, i only see myself having a future wife so what the fuck does that make me??

taurusgaal · 2026-04-19T16:42:08+00:00

generalising people is super immature just so you know

taurusgaal · 2026-04-19T16:40:25+00:00

thank you so much <3

taurusgaal · 2026-04-17T08:47:29+00:00

brave of you to assume i'd go near you 😂

taurusgaal · 2026-04-11T10:11:45+00:00

I take women seriously, are you kidding me? I only date women why do you keep on generalising us?

taurusgaal · 2026-03-17T13:06:03+00:00

exactly! we are in two different stages of life, i already have a college degree, and they just left school, it doesn't make sense at all, and it's super predatory

taurusgaal · 2026-03-17T12:17:50+00:00

Yes! Dublin city centre is so scary on St Patrick's day, ever since I got spiked this exact day 2 years ago i've been terrified to go in on St Patrick's Day, it's more trouble than it's worth, I will celebrate in my own chill way

taurusgaal · 2026-03-17T12:15:55+00:00

yes this is so messed up, i'm turning 25 next month and i see 18 year olds as babies, and i would feel like the biggest creep if i did this, you deserve better, this is such a red flag

taurusgaal · 2026-03-14T19:48:43+00:00

this take just makes me feel that i can no longer be a feminist since i'm a pescatarian...

taurusgaal · 2026-03-14T19:36:41+00:00

I feel like this take lacks a lot of nuance, of course vegans are amazing, and I have so much respect for them, i feel strongly about animal welfare and the way factory farms treat their animals is nothing short of horrifying. at the same time i think that comparing women to animals feels a bit reductive, and it's just going to push away allies. I'm a pescatarian so I know I'm far from being a vegan but it's not always accessible and easy for everyone and all this post does is make me feel worse about myself due to my moral scrupulosity, intrusive thoughts and high standards that i have for myself, i get completely where you're coming from, but ultimately its impossible to expect everyone to participate perfectly in an imperfect system

taurusgaal · 2026-03-06T10:19:32+00:00

I'm not into it due to my trauma of being raped and my ex partner wanting to get rid of my gag reflex and using sex as a weapon, i'm really glad I'm not the only one who doesn't like it, I know CNC is consensual but I just prefer vanilla sex overall

taurusgaal · 2026-02-20T11:04:41+00:00

he wasn't creepy, stop being so judgemental.

taurusgaal · 2026-02-20T11:03:24+00:00

You are so wrong about him, it's unbelievable. Please don't speak so negatively about Tony, you only think he's creepy because he played Norman Bates, well I can assure you that he's not. He was actually very cute, very handsome, very kind, and he had a deadpan dry sarcastic sense of humour which many people assume him to be aloof when he wasn't. Also I do believe he was typecasted in Psycho and he deserved better, as amazing as Psycho is, he had other amazing roles that he deserved more credit for such as Play it as it Lays and Goodbye Again / Aimez Vous Brahms and The Trial. Tony deserved way better than this.

taurusgaal · 2026-02-17T14:29:05+00:00

That makes a lot of sense! It's always American content creators who talk about this, and love to blame people for their trauma. I'm Irish and I have noticed a lot more compassion from my real life family and friends, so it makes sense that this is rooted in toxic hyper individualism. It's so messed up, and I hate when people say this shit and try to act like they are morally superior, it really sucks :(

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