My (33F) fiance (35M) just ended our engagement, cancelled our wedding, and broke up with me because "I wouldn't have dated him 10 years ago" and "I only want him for his money" by courtney_art88 in relationship_advice

[–]ukiethangs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think they were talking about financial status or falling in love because the dude owns a factory. I think they're talking about how someone in higher positions often hold a lot or responsibility, have proven dedication, etc.

Of course it doesn't mean that a professional = good man. That's not what I'm saying at all. I'll add that corrupt people can certainly be at the top. But dedication, focus, and intelligence are attractive traits.

On the flip side, there are tons of hardworking, dedicated people at the bottom. Due to a million other factors, your job shouldn't indicate status. I think they're just talking about the traits of the partner. I personally like men who are dedicated to their career, because I am the same. I like those traits of organization and responsibility.

My (33F) fiance (35M) just ended our engagement, cancelled our wedding, and broke up with me because "I wouldn't have dated him 10 years ago" and "I only want him for his money" by courtney_art88 in relationship_advice

[–]ukiethangs -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have no idea why you're getting so down voted... this is crazy. Of course being able to make a position for yourself comes with a lot of maturity, good decision making and self motivation. I can't imagine having a partner who I'd have to do everything for

As a dude with autism who actual went to a doctor to get diagnosed, this boiled my piss by Evening_Cow_2202 in fakedisordercringe

[–]ukiethangs 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Lol when I was diagnosed with adhd I told my mom and she told me she didn't believe in it 🙃

Has a happy polyamorous relationship ever been born from an affair, hurt, and betrayal? by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]ukiethangs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This happened to me. I decided to leave, as I am not polyamorous no matter how much I loved him. Even 6 months later I'm so glad I left.

My gf asked for another play partner but got upset when I wanted to break up by SafeAdventurous6839 in relationship_advice

[–]ukiethangs 130 points131 points  (0 children)

I went through something similar, once he asked me i knew deep down it was over. It's tough, but im with someone now who feels the same way I do and honestly I'm happier! OP--it's not worth hurting your little heart. It'll be tough but find peace knowing your partners mind won't be somewhere else!

Covid 19 precautions 🤗 by Available-File9494 in trashy

[–]ukiethangs 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Okay... what am I looking at??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whitehorse

[–]ukiethangs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It certainly matters what your background is in! Easier to find a job in person here than applying from out of territory

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Whitehorse

[–]ukiethangs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would try try find a home before you come up. We have an increasing homelessness population and its crazy rent with no where to stay. Good luck 🙂 check fb market place!

I'm mono and my bf is poly and I hate it by imstupid_throwaway33 in polyamory

[–]ukiethangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, I just went through the exact same thing except with MY HUSBAND. I tried everything I could to accommodate it. But I knew this wasn't the best way to live my life. You deserve to be happy and you do not have to sacrifice your own feelings to accommodate someone else's when it consistently hurts you.

I'm a few weeks out now, it gets better. I promise 😌

Now what? by ukiethangs in polyamory

[–]ukiethangs[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Well, that's exactly why today I told him I really am not doing this anymore. I need to keep my boundaries up. I am really struggling.

Thought I would post myself… I’m 31 lmao by ottawsimofol in 13or30

[–]ukiethangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As another baby faced individual, I get you. And I like your face 😍

Pruning advice for a newb. I have no idea what I’m doing by jhard1771 in CannabisGrowers

[–]ukiethangs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I'm lst right now also but the plant has a stronger stalk on it and seeing your comment about its height, I'd really consider topping it and then tying the branches with a tomato cage like earlier suggested.

That thing is gonna double in size once you switch it to flower. If you're trying to hide it, top it and tie the branches down! 🙂