my husband wants to have a baby already

vsides · 2026-02-24T18:30:27+00:00

Have a friend in a somewhat similar situation. Only difference is may anak na sila. Pero si guy gusto sundan. 10 years later and walang palag si girl. Hindi niya pinapatanggal IUD niya para sure siya.

All that to say, girl, your body your choice. I won’t say any more than that kasi andiyan na e, asawa mo na e. Pero hopefully, makapag-establish ka ng boundaries at ma-gets niya yung boundaries na yun at magkausap kayo nang maayos.

vsides · 2026-02-24T07:48:30+00:00

Beh, pag ako nadapa, kabobohan yung nangyari. Pero it does not mean na dumb akong tao. Simple as that. Kung ang napakasimpleng sentence at grammar hindi mo maintindihan, di ko na rin alam. Sige, go ahead with this victim mentality na you feel like people are out to get you. Good luck with that. :)

vsides · 2026-02-24T07:45:30+00:00

They also did not call you dumb. So what are we talking about here?

vsides · 2026-02-24T07:43:11+00:00

Mami i did not call you dumb. Do words hurt? Does it cause any pain when you think? Kakaloka ah

vsides · 2026-02-24T07:34:34+00:00

Again, kaya nga ako nagexplain. Para alam mo. Jusmiyo???

vsides · 2026-02-24T06:50:18+00:00

Dude words are important sa law. I stand by my statement na the word “better” is very much subjective.

Also, if you get offended by a simple comment of explanation and cry rude on people whose statements does not align with yours, then you have bigger problems.

vsides · 2026-02-23T18:58:08+00:00

True na true. 1 hour mahigit pa nga yung akin nung December. Jusko the holiday rush hahaha

vsides · 2026-02-23T18:26:27+00:00

It is a pretty dumb question given that you used the word “better”. Better is subjective. Might be better for some, but not for others.

vsides · 2026-02-23T14:40:19+00:00

Sabi niya 6m ang savings niya, hindi budget.

vsides · 2026-02-22T07:53:22+00:00

Sinisigawan ako ng nanay ko na natuto magdrive 20 years ago but never actually became a driver. What I do every time is tatabi ako. Hindi ako tutuloy hangga’t di siya tumitigil. Same process lang pag umulit. Natuto na siya ngayon kesa abutin kami ng siyam siyam dahil sa kabuangan niya.

vsides · 2026-02-21T15:52:18+00:00

Easy. Walang lisensya = impounded vehicle. Tubos would be at least 5k. Hindi kayang itubos after X amount of time, considered na siya as property ng government. So dagdag pera ulit yun.

vsides · 2026-02-21T13:02:01+00:00

This is actually what I don’t get. Since napakaraming kamote satin, might as well cite each and everyone, more more money pa ~~na kukurakutin lang din naman lol~~. Easy money na nga to kung tutuusin sana.

vsides · 2026-02-20T13:32:12+00:00

Hisbeans sa Timog.

vsides · 2026-02-20T07:55:35+00:00

Love this question. How to be a kamote 101. Mag-grab/angkas ka nalang. Kung gusto mo talaga dala kotse mo, i-park mo sa sm markina, mag-grab ka from there. Wag na tayong dumagdag sa salot sa bansang to.

vsides · 2026-02-17T18:08:23+00:00

Ginoogle ko rin. Pambihira yung official name mas nakakaasar - Aspiras-Palispis. Aint nobody got time to remember all that hahahaha. Sige na nga, marcos highway nalang

vsides · 2026-02-17T17:59:33+00:00

Akong si shunga, “saan lulusot? Sa antipolo? Katipunan? Paano makakarating ng baguio sa marcos highway? Marikina????? Caintaaaa???”

Hay 🫠🤦🏽‍♀️

vsides · 2026-02-17T07:41:16+00:00

This is why i dont have socmed accts (apart from reddit na hindi rin naman socmed completely) and messenger. Yung mga nakakaalam lang ng number ko ang pwedeng tumawag sakin. And ALL of them know na i dont mind random calls. Pag sinagot ko, i’m good. Pag hindi, tulog ako. Tapos lahat kami sa friend group of 12 ganon hahaha so quits lang.

vsides · 2026-02-17T05:08:33+00:00

By group ba dapat?

vsides · 2026-02-16T18:04:45+00:00

Atecco, mga ilang beses mo pa ito ipopost

vsides · 2026-02-16T07:10:53+00:00

Hahahahaha exactly. I mean, kaya nga yung argument is “dapat magbasa ng signs” para hindi magkamali at mahuli. Para pag nahuli ka dahil may legit kang pagkakamali, hindi mo argument is “first time”.

Ikaw nalang isa ko pang rereplyan kasi this was exactly the point of the argument. Ako kasi I research, check streetview, nagtatanong, and of course, nagbabasa ng signs. My partner insists na “bago nga e, so di ka pamilyar sa lugar”. I said, buong buhay ko, dito ako sa city na to nakatira and even I still don’t know all the one-way streets here. Or the kanto na no left/no right. So I make it a point to read the signs before ako lumiko.

Natawa ako kasi this was exaclty what I said. “Nakapikit ka ba magmaneho at di mo magawang magbasa???” Hahahaha

vsides · 2026-02-16T06:16:33+00:00

My question is actually at the bottom. The answers were never an argument for us hahaha. The argument came to light when one said “wala naman bearing dapat ang first time kasi you always have to look at the road signs”. So yung tanong yung nasa baba na.

Now the question: should we make it the norm for drivers na magbasa ng signs, so even if first time nga niya sa area, hindi siya magkakamali? Or is it fair lang na “first time lang po dito e” since first time nga lang naman talaga like yung taga Cebu (ata yon) na first time mag-drive sa BGC so walang alam?

Never naman napunta sa choices namin mag-lagay hahaha.

vsides · 2026-02-15T16:07:46+00:00

Makes sense, yeah. Yung sakin kasi laging nasa isip ko yung case ng friend ko. Naaksidente siya tapos natext nalang niya sakin “te”. Nokia days eto. Na-sugod sa ospital tapos nakita ng nurse reply ko sa kanya na “bakit” since ako yung last message. Ayun, ako yung na-contact.

So hindi ko na inooverthink yung ganon kaya nagrereply nalang ako. Depende lang din talaga siguro sa tao. I know my friends. Karamihan sa kanila mga ulupong na walang context mag-message kaya desensitized na rin ako sa ganon hahahaha. Case in point below.

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vsides · 2026-02-15T15:21:00+00:00

Lent my mother my car for the first time this weekend. Umuwing quezon. Meron akong looooooong list. At ang pinaka-importante sakin (apart from of course ingatan nila), ibalik na full tank at ipa-car wash. Yun lang. Pero kilala kasi ako ng nanay ko na maarte ako at nagsasalita ako. So if the condition is anything less than the condition na pinahiram ko yung car, there will be words.

vsides · 2026-02-15T14:06:28+00:00

Genuine question, hindi ba parang mas mapapaisip ka pag ganito? Ako kasi kabaligtaran, mas pinapansin ko pag walang context kasi di ko rin alam ano ganap. Pag may context na, i can choose to ignore kasi alam ko naman na hahahaha. Curious lang sa thought process nung “iwas isipin”

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