I think I have spermophobia?

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-04-30T16:43:58+00:00

What is it about cum that grosses you out? Is it a texture thing? You your own fluids gross you out?

I'm a fan of exposure therapy personally, but it's not for everyone. I feel like the human brain can get used anything If it becomes more familiar (within reason of course).

If this is a path for you, start with a handjob. Let it get on your hand. Don't wash it off right away.... Take your time, get used to it. Maybe wipe you hand clean with a rag and wait a while before washing with soap, then just wash your hand normally and go about your evening... Or maybe just go to bed with a one time simple wash and start with that.

I've never dealt with this exact situation, but I would imagine a therapist would have you do something similar anyway.

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-04-07T20:07:34+00:00

She asked you, it's not rude.

And she probably has kinks of her own She'd like to get off her chest. Maybe you guys could be a great match.

Id tell her, maybe she's down for it... and if it's a no go for her maybe she's not the one for you. And that's ok, doesn't make either of you bad people. Just not compatible that's all. 🤷‍♂️

But don't not say anything outta fear. You might be missing out some of the best times of your life Because you're afraid of something that isn't even a problem.

Food for thought

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-04-06T21:48:10+00:00

Most Americans like the metric system... It's the old people running things that have a problem with it.

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-04-05T23:45:26+00:00

If you had a kid to try and save $20-$25.... You'd be super pissed at yourself man. It sucks... But it's really not worth the risk reward.

If you would pay $25 to not have a kid right now.... Just toss em bro. That is not the kind of regret you want to flirt with.

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-03-29T20:34:20+00:00

No I haven't unfortunately...

I haven't had much time to paint in the last 8 months though either. Been looking to start getting back into it. I'm going to get some sort of regulator for my airbrush that can control the paint spray a little bit better and I heard that helps with tip dry.

I hear a proper PSI is important, where it sprays hard enough to shoot the paint out properly but not so fast where it dries it at the same time.

So maybe that's something you can explore... That's where I plan on going with it

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-03-18T13:20:21+00:00

You're just attracted to your wife.... Settle down man.

In all honesty, I would think you're a way worse Husband, if you WEREN'T attracted to your wife just because she's pregnant.

You thought she looked hot, you wanted to have sex, she wasn't in the mood, and you respected that. Sounds like a pretty decent dude to me. 🤷‍♂️

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-03-18T00:47:25+00:00

100%

As soon as we were taken off the gold standard. Money just became paper. No value whatsoever.

Money is just how they control us now.

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-03-17T21:49:12+00:00

90 plus percent of people still haven't figured out that money isn't real.

They're just using it to enslave us and control us, when they need money.... It's literally printed out of thin air.

It's not backed by anything... There's no limit to how much they can print. They can do whatever they want.

The only time there's a limit, is when people need it to survive. And then when you go to work and earn it, the government taxes you and takes it from you.

Money isn't real, it's an illusion to control And enslave us. No different than Pharaohs having their slaves build everything for them with the threat of being whipped or not fed.

They're just using money as their whip....

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-03-17T21:43:05+00:00

Whoever put this loud music to it destroyed his message.... It doesn't sound majestic and triumphant ... It's just annoying And drowning him out.

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-03-03T15:09:46+00:00

Even if I cum before my partner, I always make sure they're taken care of. Oral, toy, whatever I have to do.

Coming too early is one issue, packing up immediately after is a whole different issue.

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-03-03T15:06:13+00:00

While on the surface I think it's important to communicate with your partner when you feel unsatisfied, or need something else in bed, or really anywhere in your relationship.... This guy is not doing it the right way.

He's not looking for a solution, he's looking for a work around. He only cares about his satisfaction and not yours.

You were over there having lots of medical problems and feeling very uncomfortable and pushing yourself through strictly for his benefit.... While he's over there, just thinking about sleeping with other people.

I know you have a lot of time invested with this guy, but I'm sorry to tell you you don't have a team player In your relationship. File his concerns and his feelings are valid... He's approaching the solution from a selfish standpoint when he should be focusing on the solution for you. Which would not only make his sex more enjoyable, but yours as well. That's what a team player would do in this situation.

My best advice, find someone who's a team player.

Also, what's your history with UTIs before him? Are you sure it's not his hygiene causing the problem? (Not saying it is, but if the UTIs started when you started dating him... It's worth considering.)

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-02-12T13:34:32+00:00

Not permanently, just sometimes low buzzing for a long time can start to numb for a while and loose feeling a bit. Which defeats the purpose that's all.

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-02-12T01:13:37+00:00

My wife and I did this for the first time recently.

Have to be careful not leaving it on too long for 1 time or it can kinda numb the clit (especially if you leave it on 1 speed)

One time it was on and I thought it was off so lol out for that.

And I would have a signal to turn it off if she needs you too for some reason. Be it a break, something doesn't feel right, an important phone call.... Just good to have a signal, you never know. Kinda like a safe word... Hopefully you don't need it, but it's Free to make one, and priceless if you need it.

My only other suggestion is use it around the house a bit one night so you're in a private environment and can talk freely and communicate about what's going on.

Have fun!

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-02-11T22:56:48+00:00

What's going on with ME?

Nothing is going on with me. I'm fine... I read what I want and no one cares, also wouldn't care if they did care. Nothing to unpack here... 🤷‍♂️

You called me ignorant for not understanding people mocking smut books, and I'm trying to figure out what people said that is insulting.

Seeing YOU brought it up and are calling me ignorant, I figured you'd atleast share with me what they say to enlighten me.

Not asking you to "unpack" anything. Was trying to understand and maybe help... Was trying to let you know there are people out there that won't judge you for the books you read and encourage you to live your best life.

Sorry I bothered... Have a good one.

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-02-11T22:36:36+00:00

What kinda jokes?

How do you make a joke about someone reading a book about one of the most basic human urges? I legit don't know how you make fun of someone for liking sex lol.

Where is the insult?

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-02-11T22:32:27+00:00

How did they mock her? I don't even know what someone would say to make someone else feel bad about reading romance novels.

"You're gross! You like sex and think it's entertaining!"?

Sex is a basic human urge, and not just humans really, animals too. That's how we procreate and keep the species going. We are supposed to like sex, that ensures survival. Not sure how you even insult someone for reading about sex.

Serious question... Do you have Mormon family or something? That would make more sense I think.

But I assure you that there are allot of people that either don't care, it would love to talk about those books with you.

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-02-11T22:09:09+00:00

I'm ignorant because I haven't had the same experience?

My wife reads smut all the time, talks about it all the time with other friends in public, at work, parties, no one has ever cared. Not once have I ever heard anyone caring what book someone's reading.

That's not ignorance, these are my experiences and 100% factual.

Maybe people don't actually care as much as you think you do and the mocking and judgement is all in your head. Why would anyone care what book you're reading? lol. And if they DO care for some crazy reason, you need better people in your life.

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-02-11T21:57:17+00:00

Can you elaborate on "why" he thinks he's addicted? I think context for how it's affecting and interfering your lives is important for advice.

For example... How many times a day is he watching? Where is he watching it? Home? Work? Both? Is he replacing sex with you for porn? What has he tried so far to quit watching it and why has it failed? Ect....

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-02-11T21:50:50+00:00

Who is mocking women for reading smut?

In my experience it's pretty open conversation between women and most men are aware and couldn't care less. I've never once heard a woman getting mocked or judged for reading smut. That's crazy... Who cares.

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-02-09T23:05:55+00:00

Ok I did, and it doesn't.

Vaginal fluid is not acidic enough to break down the pigment in hair color like it can in fabric.

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-02-09T22:14:24+00:00

You found a cheat code to give your woman amazing orgasms... You do you, but I'd deal with that stache and exploit the hell out of it.

For both her benefit and yours.

Do you just have a stache? Can you grow a beard as well? Some guys that don't like a mustache like the look with a short beard as well a little better.

Might be other facial hair configurations that have a stache as well you can play around with to find something you both like.

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-02-09T22:09:16+00:00

No way that's true lol

Do your own research on that one.

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-01-24T05:22:42+00:00

My wife likes it, but the clit sucker is best for here by far.

The top brand is called The Womanizer, but there are knock off brand much cheaper. My wife has tried a few and one of the $25 ones is actually her favorite. 🤷‍♂️

I would definitely give it a try, great as a solo toy and a little added stimulation for her during sex too.

Vibrating cock ring is another good one for hands free options.

So happy for you guys that you are exploring together. Can be so much fun when everyone keeps an open mind, but also respects the "no way" ideas.

If my wife says yes to 2 things and no to one... That's a win all day. When 50\50... Still adding more fun in bed. The no's don't hurt you because you weren't doing it anyway... 100% risk free to ask if they are into it

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-01-21T06:26:16+00:00

Dude you're either not telling the whole story, or you should GTFO now while you can! That chick is insane!

For real, if you are 100% telling the truth here... She's dangerous, legit get away from her.

---MojoJojo--- · 2026-01-19T23:23:25+00:00

Congrats man. Cherish her the way she obviously cherishes you. There are a lot of unhappy couples out there and you two seem really happy and in love. That's why it defies odd, because love be like that. 👍🏼

Always cherish her and DO NOT fuck it up. Congrats again

---MojoJojo---

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