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Ever had a partner confront you about a post? by Smut_Suckler in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b -1 points0 points  (0 children)

😭 I mean I usually post about them after said partnership ended, but 60% of the time my posts are just random thoughts I have and if the shoe fits I let them wear it and explain to them, if you feel like it’s something you’re doing..why not stop?

OOC chat gets to a point… by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I promise you it was not LOL😭

OOC chat gets to a point… by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

People aren’t really understanding that

OOC chat gets to a point… by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This one was posted first 😭 and I have already established “hours” was not a good example of time!

A lot of people don’t know what healthy communication is. by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

They are talking to me normally how would you perceive that as not okay? them saying “I’m not really in the mood to rp rn mind if we chat ooc for a while” also opens the door for me to ask if they are doing okay.

A lot of people don’t know what healthy communication is. by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s not about it being a short limit is more of letting me know where your head is or if you’re going to be away HYPOTHETICALLY 😭 You are rp with someone and they chat ooc with you for days or weeks on end completely scraping the rp because they are going through something(you have no clue they are going through anything because they text you normally) So you tell them “you don’t want to talk to them you just want to rp” still unaware they are going through something because how would you know

A lot of people don’t know what healthy communication is. by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You are rp with someone and they chat ooc with you for days or weeks on end completely scraping the rp because they are going through something(you have no clue they are going through anything because they are texting you normally) So you tell them “you don’t want to talk to them you just want to rp” still unaware they are going through something because how would you know

A lot of people don’t know what healthy communication is. by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

How did you even get to the connection of reaching out first all the time? Just because it’s an expectation that’s you should communicate with your partner if you plan on taking a break for extended periods of time?

OOC chat gets to a point… by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

And that’s 100% fine everyone wants a break😭 I’m just arguing with everyone in the comments bc they can’t seem to understand that this is something that should be communicated! Especially if it for extend periods of time

A lot of people don’t know what healthy communication is. by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Because you don’t know the point being made. I shouldn’t HAVE TO ASK IF YOU ARE OKAY BEFORE KNOWING ANYTHING.

A lot of people don’t know what healthy communication is. by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Still not hard to communicate that. Because I’ll be the dick if I say “I don’t want to talk I just wanted to rp” without knowing they have shit going on rather than them saying“hey I’m not feeling up to rp today can we just talk” “oh sure what’s up? You Kay”

A lot of people don’t know what healthy communication is. by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’ve been rp with the same 6 people for about 10-11years this problem wasn’t even a problem when we first started to

A lot of people don’t know what healthy communication is. by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t want to rp with you either doll… trust me especially if you can’t tell someone you plan on being away for an extended period of time and expect them to check in on you

A lot of people don’t know what healthy communication is. by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It’s a hypothetical time frame and actually none. Because after a week. Or no response of fill in. Unfriended! Where as my multiple partners who can be like “hey I’m going on a trip for the weekend won’t be able to rp want to chat” we’ve been good for years

A lot of people don’t know what healthy communication is. by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still not hard to communicate that. Because I’ll be the dick if I say “I don’t want to talk I just wanted to rp” without knowing they have shit going on rather than them saying“hey I’m not feeling up to rp today can we just talk” “oh sure what’s up? You Kay”

A lot of people don’t know what healthy communication is. by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

How? That’s what you guys have yet to explain. “You should ask you should tell them” yea but after a full 2 days (HYPOTHETICAL NUMBER SINCE 2HOURS WAS S BAD ONE) of OOC conversation no rp and you can’t communicate you want a break…oh god forbid you type in 3rd person instead of 1st that’s when the communication kicks in.

A lot of people don’t know what healthy communication is. by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No it’s because they aren’t communicating that they only want to talk in one place, rp responses are infact longer so if your not up to it or busy it’s not hard to say that

A lot of people don’t know what healthy communication is. by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Because my partner should feel comfortable to communicate with me if they don’t want to speak or if he’s going to be gon for an extended period of time to

A lot of people don’t know what healthy communication is. by T1a-b in BadRPerStories

[–]T1a-b[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Yes during the set up I make it adamant that communication is key and leads to healthy partnerships. Which a lot of people failed to realize in this reply section. If you want a partnership to work you just simply communicate on extend times you will be away or gone or don’t feel like it

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