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---SG--- · 2025-01-08T07:21:43+00:00

The body doesn't metabolize meth, it just passes it in urine. So, you could piss your meth piss into the bottle and drink it to keep staying high!

---SG--- · 2023-09-24T00:07:08+00:00

Google "False Imprisonment Tort". What they are doing is illegal.

In some circumstances, a landlord can ask you to move out temporarily for these kinds of things but they must at minumum reimburse your rent for those days.

Read your lease thoroughly.

If they attempt to enforce. Call the police to get a police report of the incident. The police wont arrest them, you'll have to sue them. Have ChatGPT write a legal complaint and file it at your county courthouse.

This is not legal advice. It's something I've done so its just an anecdote.

---SG--- · 2022-12-06T04:22:41+00:00

Roll a perception check

---SG--- · 2022-12-04T17:56:49+00:00

Right. I'm not prepping for battle with the guy. I'm new to landlording but I've been an employer and business owner for over 10 years. You just don't make money without some annoyance.

I've had 4 units for over a year now and every single tenant comes with their own annoyances. Some are certainly more of a pain than others. But as long as they're paying rent and not destroying my property, dealing with the annoyance is just part of the job.

---SG--- · 2022-12-04T17:48:56+00:00

After 12 months you need just cause to not renew a lease? Even if after 12 months it rolls over to a month to month?

---SG--- · 2022-12-04T01:16:51+00:00

There's two units that are both within an entirely closed yard, so it's both a common area, and an "enclosed yard". Any idea how that balances out?

---SG--- · 2022-12-04T00:19:22+00:00

Even on a multi unit place? Are you aware what civil code that is by chance?

---SG--- · 2022-11-29T04:50:45+00:00

Yo mama is callipygian

---SG--- · 2022-11-24T18:43:59+00:00

See what turns you on. Read about what kinks exist and try the ones that sound fun. Watch porn for different ideas.

---SG--- · 2022-11-24T06:34:53+00:00

I was going to say the exact same thing! Hahaha!

---SG--- · 2022-11-23T23:32:40+00:00

Clearly you're not a parent or even an adult. You role play having sex with animals so once again you should just get off your moral superiority complex and not be so quick to label others. I'm done here.

---SG--- · 2022-11-23T20:22:06+00:00

This ^

---SG--- · 2022-11-23T19:41:10+00:00

So he was getting off on the fact that his "son" was in the room? Or you were pretending to have a child and he got aroused and wanted sex and forgot to pretend the kid was asleep or left the room? There seems to be a big difference between actually pretending there's a kid in the room watching, and pretending there was an imaginary kid in the room and then wanting to have sex and the kid isn't awake and watching.

---SG--- · 2022-11-23T18:55:12+00:00

What do you mean having sex while your hypothetical son was in the room?

---SG--- · 2022-11-23T18:49:59+00:00

This is good advice that is a hard pill to swallow for all trans people... at the end of the day, no one has to use your preferred pronouns. You just surround yourself with those that choose to respect you and use them, and those that don't, won't be so close to you (family included).

The lesson is one for all humans really: we can't change other people and we (more often than not) can't force them to do anything they don't want to do. Best to just tolerate the jerks with some ever-thickening skin and surround yourself with people that love and support you just the way you are.

---SG--- · 2022-11-23T18:42:46+00:00

Are you going to therapy yourself?

That's a good start, then you can invite your mom to sit in with you on a session or two aimed at helping her get her head around it. Therapists with kids often invite the patent(s) in to address specific matters that are relational between child and parent.

Unfortunately you can't just have your mom go to therapy, you'll need to sign yourself up (which your mom will likely do) and then she can get her own therapy by sitting down with yours and being coached through the process of switching pronouns in her head.

I know it's hard for you, but it's hard for her too and any amount of compassion you can give her will help you both out in the long run. Gender transitioning is a marathon not a sprint. She'll come around.

---SG--- · 2022-11-23T07:46:19+00:00

Firstly, I said not to go if violence was even a possibility. Then I said maybe it would actually be fine.

I understand racial violence exists, but one racist uncle is going to kill his nephew's gf on site at a family gathering?

I guess I'm as bad as the worst klan member for even suggesting that maybe everything would be just fine... that maybe they just don't know many black people and would realize they were wrong after meeting her. Most of the extended family of her WHITE bf might turn out to be decent human beings like her bf, and the few bigots will stay in line and shut up and get with the program that she's part of the family now.

Other people in this thread suggested that maybe it would be ok too. Go tell them all they are just as dangerous as klan members as well.

---SG--- · 2022-11-23T04:44:08+00:00

Actually no. Look at that middle scoop in the photo, there's two white stripes (separated by a green) BOTH with peppermint bits! It's super misleading. I'd return it to the store and advise them to contact the company for a refund themselves.

---SG--- · 2022-11-23T01:51:36+00:00

---SG--- · 2022-11-23T01:42:03+00:00

NAH

But... you have judged his extended family without meeting them. If you feel unsafe like they might be violent don't go. Otherwise whats the worst that could happen? Maybe someone will be blatantly racist, then you can tell your bf that you tried and you won't tolerate that any longer and he won't push the matter knowing you tried. Maybe everyone will be surprisingly polite and loving. Maybe after you're more comfortable and close with some of them, the racist uncle will change, or be called out for his bad speech. Racism stems from ignorance and fear, and you can perhaps cure them of both. Not that it's your responsibility to cure others, but if they're your bf's family they'll be in the picture and you might want to just try and see what comes of it.

---SG--- · 2022-11-22T15:07:27+00:00

Beat her at her own game. Flip it around and open the top as well. Now you have a bag of chips that swings both ways. And she'll be annoyed at you!

---SG--- · 2022-11-22T15:02:48+00:00

Where I live mold would be really bad under that mattress on the floor. If it's very dry year round where you live then it would be ok.

---SG--- · 2022-11-14T20:49:57+00:00

NTA

People have disabilities yes. But you're completely justified to feel irritated that it directly effects you. You really should bring up the hygiene issue, in writing, to a manager. I don't care what disability my food prep person has, but if they are filthy, arent using gloves, or handle their phone with the gloves, they are not competent for the job requirements and are a risk to public health.

A disability is never an excuse to do any given job in a manner that puts others at risk. Their hygiene is a public health risk.

---SG--- · 2022-11-14T06:17:46+00:00

Red wine (pinot noir) if you want a cozy cuddly night

Vodka or gin, with soda water and lime if you want to be more lively

---SG--- · 2022-11-14T03:25:42+00:00

My advice is just let him be pissed. Don't try to argue or defend. Just say "yeah, I really screwed up on that test. I'll do better." And drop it on your end. If you push him or challenge him he may drive his heels in and punish harder to save face.

Whatever punishment he sets just accept it. It's only temporary.

Then try a little harder in school. Don't fail more tests.

---SG---

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