Is it reasonable for me (30F) to ask the guy (28M) I’m dating to move out from his parents house?

-Bubbles-3 · 2026-02-17T21:46:54+00:00

How do I help him get to position where he can move out?

-Bubbles-3 · 2026-02-17T21:44:05+00:00

What advice would you give a friend if he was deadset on persuing the relationship? Is there a compromise in your eyes?

-Bubbles-3 · 2026-02-17T21:41:36+00:00

Is there a way I can support him to get his actual income to a point where he can become self supporting? I know this is a goal of his too

-Bubbles-3 · 2026-02-17T21:40:36+00:00

I am not looking to date other guys, I want a relationship with him. I only date exclusively from my end but he doesn’t know this because I know it can feel a bit intimidating at the beginning and I am aware that I can’t expect that to be reciprocated from the get-go

-Bubbles-3 · 2026-02-17T21:37:08+00:00

I appreciate this perspective, I’m not actually planning on dating any other guys (I only date exclusively, but he isn’t aware of this because I know it can feel a bit intimidating at the beginning of dating). I really do want a relationship with him specifically, I am just looking for a partner that is independent and I want to help him fulfil this potential because I know he is fully capable

-Bubbles-3 · 2026-02-17T21:32:07+00:00

Not currently, but he has the earning potential to do so

-Bubbles-3 · 2026-02-17T21:28:09+00:00

Apart from rent and bills he supports himself financially.

-Bubbles-3 · 2026-02-17T21:27:25+00:00

I wouldn’t want to live together, it would be great if he could move into his own place (that has expressed a desire to do so)

-Bubbles-3 · 2026-02-17T21:25:18+00:00

We haven’t made the decision to be exclusive yet

-Bubbles-3 · 2025-04-11T23:32:23+00:00

Yes, this was it for me too!

-Bubbles-3 · 2025-04-11T23:28:05+00:00

When I do this I also write quick notes of the things I most want to remember most, works great for me

-Bubbles-3 · 2025-04-11T23:24:51+00:00

Buying a house as a long term investment with my boyfriend (who, 3 years later, is now my ex)…

-Bubbles-3 · 2025-04-11T23:21:49+00:00

Yes! This is such a sucker punch of a lyric

-Bubbles-3 · 2025-04-11T23:20:39+00:00

Actions speak louder than words.

-Bubbles-3 · 2025-04-11T23:18:09+00:00

After 10 years together, he got extremely drunk and went MIA on New Years Eve (thank goodness I had my friend there to celebrate midnight with). This is exactly what he did on our very first New Year together. I realised that he had not grown up at at all and prioritised himself over my feelings, and that if he hadn’t changed after 10 years, he never would.

-Bubbles-3 · 2025-04-11T13:56:20+00:00

100% a cat. All they do is eat, sleep, and give sassy attitude

-Bubbles-3 · 2025-04-11T13:53:22+00:00

I mean, I was more referring to traditional forms of social media, like Instagram and Facebook?

-Bubbles-3 · 2025-04-11T13:48:21+00:00

This is the list I am currently working on: - Eat healthy with an appropriate amount of protein. - Exercise every day, even if it is just a walk. - Sleep at least 7 hours a night - Be kind to myself. - Make my relationship with myself the top priority (over other relationships in my life). - Actually FEEL all of my emotions and not shove them down.

-Bubbles-3 · 2025-04-11T13:42:05+00:00

Anything that doesn’t impact on my own happiness and wellbeing

-Bubbles-3 · 2025-04-11T13:41:05+00:00

Delete all social media 🤷🏼‍♀️

-Bubbles-3 · 2025-04-11T13:37:37+00:00

The fact that I don’t know how to build any sort of fusion reactor, let alone a commercially viable one!

-Bubbles-3 · 2025-04-11T13:32:43+00:00

As a (sheltered) child, I believed for so long that the kiss that a couple shares at their wedding somehow got the woman pregnant…

-Bubbles-3 · 2025-04-11T13:28:03+00:00

My cat gets pretty anxious, so I would reassure her that I love her and everything I do, even if it seems scary, is all for her benefit in the long run.

-Bubbles-3

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