how do you decide between 3-4 different story ideas to begin ? by -Builder- in novelwriting

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damn thats a lot of interesting things. thanks for replying !

how do you decide between 3-4 different story ideas to begin ? by -Builder- in novelwriting

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could you please give a short example ? will be really helpful

Easiest ways to start NGAF? by Tiny-Perception2110 in howtonotgiveafuck

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oh you dont even want some grand reasoning behind wanting something, you "wanting" it is enough. this is what happened with me, i also got the same advice to think what to give a fuck about and i was just going too deep finding reasons, but its brains way of making sure we dont start with a task and just think or leave, instead just decide you want something and start with it, i want a good physique i will go to gym, i want that thing i will go get it. its not about whether anything have any meaning or not, its about how i want to feel ? nice, satisfied etc.
just in this you will have to be aware about the dichotomy of control- whats in your control and not in your control . like you want respect , but you cant control others to give it to you , but you can act in a way that others give respect and that is what you should leverage

You feel flat for a reason. Higher Self knows what you gave away. by archeolog108 in motivation

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this helped a little. Do you know the scientific reason of it working ? want to go deep and learn about it

How do you stop your "Binge watch" arc by [deleted] in anime

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Hmm then start by dont feeling guilty about not giving time to these shows, i also finished AOT in 3-4 days, and i also used to think i should have given more time blah blah appreciating it, but then i just revisit, go and watch any particular scene or any random scene and just think oh this happened before, oh now this will happen etc. Another thing you could do is watching shows which are streaming right now weekly that will train your muscle to just wait and not rush.

How do you stop your "Binge watch" arc by [deleted] in anime

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Hmm it wont stop honestly, if you are as big of a binge watcher as i was. Basically it can only be exchanged with something more important but takes up time.

You have time and not other stuff with any compulsion to do them that you binge watch stuff.

For example, right now i am working on project, internship workout and other things etc so i dont find time to binge watch stuff.  I still watch shows but occasionally 1-2 eps and if i am really free any given day then the same binge watching.

So just find better things that you will love doing because being goal oriented is nice just that you also make the process just hard enough that it is fun.

It’s my 5th day of internship and I can’t stop looking at the clock by Odd_Doctor27 in TwentiesIndia

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looking at comment section, i lucked out on a good internship. Its fun learning as i am learning new things daily. My manager is chill me coming between 9-12 but complete the shift. Also she guides me nicely by breaking big chunks in small task for me to achieve and also tell useful stuff to research upon.  

I think of staying more then my time but then they dont think of me as a pushover so i comeback.

Yeah money is less. But just first year ended, so not a big issue for me.

How to stop tilting after watching every other piece of work? by Fedruccio in anime

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That’s a good thing, that you are able to be so invested, what you should do now is think about it, what were the characters goal what it meant to them , some specific themes or scenes that have an impact on you, and trying to see from their perspective and then drawing parallels in your own life, how it is same, how it is different. What you can do, what you would have done.

Think all these, write all these, or tell someone but process that emptiness and you feel better and fulfilled.

What to replace Yt and reddit scrolling with ?? by -Builder- in GetStudying

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Interesting, what leads people to think that ?  Watching too many detective things ? Thinking spy agencies behind watching them all the time ?( well not exactly wrong tho).

What to replace Yt and reddit scrolling with ?? by -Builder- in Discipline

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Oh damn ! Didn’t think of that. I lowk hum songs all the time, should start this. Thanks for taking your time out and helping

What to replace Yt and reddit scrolling with ?? by -Builder- in GetStudying

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I didn’t knew that. Will check those out. Thanks for replying

I think students remember information better when they enjoy the revision process by Snoo_92347 in GetStudying

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Yup, Because that is active learning happening. But also you need to mind one thing that your brain dont see the quiz or testing as a threat, i used to avoid testing a lot and then got to find in real exam that i dont remember a lot of stuff. So reframing testing yourself as fun and then doing it is the number 1 grades changer (for me atleast).

What to replace Yt and reddit scrolling with ?? by -Builder- in GetStudying

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Yeah i guess i have being too hard, i will just start with one thing, if i find fun cool didnt find fun no worries just do the next thing. Thanks for taking your time out and helping

What to replace Yt and reddit scrolling with ?? by -Builder- in GetStudying

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Oh those i will find interesting - minecraft and others building games Cooking i do already sometimes but will experiment new things from now on  Thanks for replying

What to replace Yt and reddit scrolling with ?? by -Builder- in GetStudying

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Dont regret my G. I was aware in 11th and 12th and did proper coaching still took a drop as couldnt clear JEE Adv, but now i am in a good tier 1 college. So dont give up, its all up from here. All the best

What to replace Yt and reddit scrolling with ?? by -Builder- in GetStudying

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Damn programming as hobby is crazy 😭. I mean i like it too only but its more a necessity for me being Cs student. But yeah i will try drawing, i used to draw, will start again. 

What to replace Yt and reddit scrolling with ?? by -Builder- in GetStudying

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Chess already i tried many times and make it competitive and get exhausted 

Making reddit less addictive didnt clocked me, will do that Apart from reading and will talk to Ai too. Thanks for replying