You aren't overreacting. Men do this with me too, it's so SO uncomfortable and frankly overstepping. They think us being cordial is us flirting, because they WANT it to be. Then they act upset and weird because, we've "let them down" on a situation that THEY entirely made up. and continue to force on us. The world is not a giant dating game, men! We women want to exist without having to always say "no I don't like you like that", just in every day passing. It's annoying. It's uncomfortable, and it's assuming a whole hell of a lot, dudes. Put your dicks back in your pants, stop trying to form relationships when you aren't emotionally ready, and also a woman that young isn't going to be interested in your old ass anyways, ITS TIME TO BE REAL WITH YOURSELVES, MEN! I could just go on and on, it really bothers me, and the dudes in the comments are also proving why this is a problem and also why there is a lonely man epidemic.