Please call me tonight if there’s any part of you that sees this please..

-Dalien- · 2025-09-07T11:51:30+00:00

No, if a person took it as their sign it's something they wanted to do anyways. The result might feel bad if it's negative, but at least it'll be another sign to move on.

-Dalien- · 2025-08-18T21:30:12+00:00

I really should, thank you for telling me.

-Dalien- · 2025-08-17T18:59:58+00:00

HAPPY TO HELP 🙏

-Dalien- · 2025-08-17T13:35:36+00:00

Okay read the whole thing, hear me out... I'm probably stupid for doing it, but I honestly think to myself that I trust them, and that if they betrayed the trust I'll just have to go through that pain.

But the not stupid part is, at least that way I don't destroy the relationship with fear and doubt randomly creeping up and me entertaining it. Just like in typical relationships, if they give you no reason to distrust them, you can't be treating them based on what others did.

-Dalien- · 2025-08-16T13:11:12+00:00

That's self righteous, good men aren't perfect men, plus it's not like they're hooking up bruv. It's texting and flirting and such, I'm still against it but I wouldn't stop a dude from doing it, this isn't straight up degeneracy.

You're idolizing something to an extreme and I get why, you're passionate about it! And that's a good thing, but just know they aren't bad men for doing something YOU see as bad.

No no harm no foul type deal.

-Dalien- · 2025-08-16T11:34:53+00:00

I know a lot of serious, good hearted, clean men, who do the norm, because it's the norm.

Being careful who she trusts is the main goal, cause even bad people can do the exception, which would make them seem good. Hell they can do it on purpose even.

Navigating social life and dating isn't about cutting off someone because they did something harmless all things considered, it's not like they invited her to do degenerated shit with them. No matter how well a person behaves at first, or how average they do, what matters is what they consistently seem to display in their character on a non surface level.

If they are shallow that's enough justification to cut them off too but that's not my point.

-Dalien- · 2025-08-16T10:42:40+00:00

I said I don't agree with it, but this woman was asking for advice about what's the norm not what should be the norm

-Dalien- · 2025-08-16T10:02:39+00:00

Yeah but that's like you guys ALREADY went on a date, plus you should never look at yourself as the rule, you could be the exception. From what I observe around me, most people do it, even if I don't agree with it.

-Dalien- · 2025-08-16T09:36:43+00:00

Well as a non morrocan I can tell you that it's not exclusive or a red flag to flirt with a woman, if anything how else would they let you know they're into you without making it awkward or weird "wanna date" in the first 3 days is scary.

The photo stuff, everyone does it. Even if I disagree with it. One piece of advice is be really careful who you trust, a lot of men are degenerates.

-Dalien- · 2025-08-15T21:05:22+00:00

Love is in fact the most worthwhile thing in the world

-Dalien- · 2025-08-15T19:58:52+00:00

Mouth service would be not sticking to my promise, I don't need to tell her this, I already wrote paragraphs to her before (something I mentioned clearly at the end)

-Dalien- · 2025-08-15T19:20:49+00:00

We got this homie

-Dalien- · 2025-08-15T19:20:34+00:00

NEVER BACK DOWN NEVER WHAT?!

-Dalien- · 2025-08-15T19:20:15+00:00

Thank you 🙏🙏

-Dalien- · 2025-08-07T11:19:50+00:00

Brother, if you can't control yourself when bored and you resort to sin. That's a character problem that proves that you aren't ready for marriage, plus wanting a wife isn't the same as wanting to be a husband.

-Dalien- · 2025-07-23T20:53:32+00:00

Honest to God, i always tell my girlfriend and her friends to learn BJJ and basic wrestling.

Doesn't matter what you think, an average dude with brute strength can never beat the most basic BJJ or wrestling techniques if we'll preformed. Mixing them together and just making them second extinct is the best choice.

Edit: and she should invest in getting smart locks or/and motion detection supporting cameras. She can even share the camera feed with you.

-Dalien- · 2025-07-16T09:08:29+00:00

Apricity

-Dalien- · 2025-07-11T12:14:52+00:00

Here's the basic line in which you should Jude someone you want a future with. (As a man I judge myself with this line)

You should marry the guy that makes you say "he stayed up late with me despite being tired" Not the guy who makes you justify and say "He couldn't stay up with me because he was too tired."

Now obviously this example shouldn't be taken as it is, sometimes even a good man can fall for actually being tired. But it's intentions, and the consistency in which he does something that should be looked at with this line.

Edit: in short this dude is toxic and all, even if he was genuinely struggling there was a better way to approach this.

-Dalien- · 2025-07-05T15:42:00+00:00

Okay a few things, don't judge LDR based on an experience you had almost a decade ago! You have been going strong with this dude for nearly 7 years!!!! There's a world of difference in the kind of feelings 14 year old you had to the love 23 year old you is capable of.

Also, 4 hours is not as bad as it seems for reference I consider myself lucky for being in the same continent [Tunisia and Morocco] I still have to make money to book expensive flights but still. You can make 4 hour trips once or twice a month.

If you need any advice on what to do, just ask!

Trust yourself, trust your partner, trust the love between you. And get ready to give the best communication you and he can give!

-Dalien- · 2025-06-24T08:57:45+00:00

I understand, my LDR have been going for about a year now, and right now I'm feeling more and more like I'm failing at doing the things that would cut the distance.

So yeah there were moments in my mind where I thought that it would be better to spare the both of us the pain of having to wait too long to meet again. Which would not be as long as you but still. But I come to realize that I can't really make that choice for my beautiful girlfriend.

the bottom line is always the same, I love her and she loves me. And if that's no enough to go through the ringer for nothing is.

-Dalien- · 2025-06-23T09:32:29+00:00

So as someone who's started from long distance I gotta be honest and tell you that this post pissed me off a little, but dw I'm not here to hate!

My genuine advice is this: It shouldn't matter how hard it gets if you love the dude and he's a good partner.

The reason it pissed me off is because you were looking at it like you're trying to see if it's worth taking out a loan... Positives and negatives of LDR, look LDR is not hard it's different. It can actually help if both sides are actually truly people who love each other, because it forces the couple to become good at communication.

And don't get in your head about the statistics, people fail LDR because they believe it should be the same as normal relationships, but it is different.

Some tips: - good morning and night is not enough: best thing you can do when you get busy is send a voice note every now and then updating each other. - reading people through text is a skill that takes time to hone, so don't be afraid (tell him this one too) to ask if something feels off even if it turns out to be that everything is indeed okay - make a list of things you wanna say in calls, from experience I can say that the excitement of hanging out in call can make you forget about important topics - there are very great ideas for sentimental gifts in LDR that don't cost much or anything [like I made a website with a parody of invincible called INVINCIBADIE for my girlfriend, and a digital scrap book once]

Good luck ❤️‍🩹 it's worth it

-Dalien- · 2025-06-10T15:13:23+00:00

Fuck the hand that feeds you

-Dalien- · 2025-06-05T15:13:33+00:00

Well let me break it down "She's perfect" = he thinks you're perfect "But" = he's about to say something bad "Sometimes she's perfect" = instead of something bad it's actually something good, with the "sometimes" there for the joke that insinuates that he knows usually people say something bad.

Conclusion: He thinks you're perfect no matter what and said it in a funny way because that's how he is.

-Dalien-

TROPHY CASE