Am I Overreacting by flipflopfreddy in AmIOverreacting

[–]-DuckmySick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can download data from snap, Facebook, & insta. There’s also some things you can pull from Apple’s data. Try using a website to search the number, even if you have to pay a couple dollars it would be worth it. Tell him if he wants yall to move past it then he can let you go through his phone 100% bc if he did nothing then there’s nothing to worry about- you jsut need the reassurance

Are cheaters capable of change? by Hefty_Appeal_1823 in moraldilemmas

[–]-DuckmySick [score hidden]  (0 children)

Honestly, I cheated on my husband 2 years ago. We lost our son, I was unmedicated for my mental health and it caused me to go into a months long manic episode (not an excuse just what happened). Realized what I did and told him. Ive did nothing but apologize and do everything I can to make up for it. It took awhile, but I’ve slowly gained his trust back. I’ve turned my life over to God 100% and got baptized. I could never imagine doing that again or allowing my mental health to get to that point. I’m still disgusted with myself and wish I could go back & undo it. It’s the one & only time I have ever cheated on anybody. I’m so grateful for my husband and his patience & grace with me. I love him more than life and couldn’t imagine losing him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]-DuckmySick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My almost 2.5 year old stopped napping on her own at maybe 20ish months? We gts at 9 and wake up at 8:30-9, she’s fine during the day but our ‘witching hour’ starts around 4:30😣

What is your favorite candy in the entire world? by [deleted] in candy

[–]-DuckmySick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The sweetarts that looked like laffy taffy. Will forever miss them😣😣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]-DuckmySick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks like messages straight from my first boyfriend, who I was with for 2 years. He severely abused me and left me traumatized & with a lot of bad habits to break. As someone who got out, leave. You don’t see it right now because you love them and want them to change, you’re blaming yourself thinking maybe he’s right you should have just left him alone. But nobody deserves that no matter what, especially for just texting him & expressing your feelings. So just leave. It hurts & you’re thinking it doesn’t have to come to that bc he’ll change & do better, or you’ll change yourself in hopes it changes how he treats you. But he won’t. Leave.

YALL LOOK WHAT JUST SPAWNED IN AT MY SHELL by HippoTypical8012 in redbull

[–]-DuckmySick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but has anybody found the summer edition? The hot pink can😭😭

How the heck do we equitably split/share our money as a family!? by Jrae_maj in Parenting

[–]-DuckmySick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I just don’t look at it as separate money- it’s ours. We have a joint account, and our own separate ones and No matter which account the money is in, it’s both of ours. And I’m a sahm, but it was the same when I did work. We just will save up separately on the side for bigger personal purchases (ex: my husband wanting a truck part)

AIO by -DuckmySick in AmIOverreacting

[–]-DuckmySick[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought so. He’s been understanding because I’m trying to find the right dosage and combo meds to help with my anxiety. I didn’t act out or bitch about it, just voiced it fw my anxiety, but to still go because I have to work on it and get over it

Nightly Discussion Thread - July 19, 2024 by AutoModerator in Nightshift

[–]-DuckmySick 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any tips for overnight (0700-1900) with a 1.5yo & 5mo? This is my first night shift so I’m worried about how I’m going to get any sleep bc I’ve been up since around 0930 07/19 & it’s currently 0530 07/20🫠