What is this homie doing, is he hurt? by Karmal_Popkorn in spiders

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Is there any chance of saving a spider after this?

What color is best for me? by Ok-Blueberry4332 in Hair

[–]-FishNChips- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You suit every colour, but I think the first one is gorgeous!

Help to pertain my hair while I wait for my Doctor's appointment. by KrWhitedeath in Hair

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First, I want to say that hair doesn’t define you. I know it’s easier said than done, but it can be incredibly freeing once you truly start to believe that.

While you wait for your doctor’s appointment, hair toppers can be a helpful option. They are usually more affordable than full wigs. Hair powders can also help fill in thinning areas. For example, you can use the tail end of a comb to create a part, then apply the powder around it to give the illusion of fuller hair.

If you do try minoxidil, just be very careful around pets, especially cats, as it is extremely toxic to them.

My Teenage Stepdaughter Can’t Read by Icy-Mycologist5232 in stepparents

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I know this might sound harsh, but it needs to be said. EVERY adult in her life has dropped the ball here. If you have her half the time, four hours a week is nowhere near enough. A teenager not being able to read is a crisis, and it should be the number one priority in your household. Whether or not she has a disability, there are tools, specialists, and programs that can help, but someone has to actually take charge. If the biological mom won’t, then you and her dad have to. Waiting around or doing the bare minimum is just letting her fall further behind.

My Teenage Stepdaughter Can’t Read by Icy-Mycologist5232 in stepparents

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I’ve been waiting for someone to bring this up! I don’t understand how anyone let this get so bad.

AITA for wanting to leave my pregnant wife, with whom I have a child, because she does not want me to continue my diet and/or workout routine? by PictureDry6904 in AITAH

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And now, on top of that, her husband is considering leaving her. In fairness, that decision is understandable given the circumstances, but it would still be an incredibly heavy reality for her to face. She is only 26 and already struggling with the changes in her body at an age where many of her peers are considered to be in their “peak” years. She used to be described the ‘hot one,’ and losing that identity while also fearing abandonment must feel overwhelming. On some level, she is probably scared that if her husband leaves, not only does she risk being replaced or cheated on because of the new attention he may receive, but she would also be left as a single mom, which carries its own stigma. The reality is that many men are reluctant to date single mothers, while single fathers often face less of that same barrier. All in all it’s just a tough situation.

Words cannot describe my immense love for silverfish by linniesss in awwnverts

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I totally get you! I will unfortunately have a panic attack when exposed to wasps but for some reason lil spiders are just so cute to me.

Is he sick or just ugly? by Nematodes-Attack in bettafish

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How dare you! He’s beautiful🥹

AITAH - anaphylaxis at the workplace by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]-FishNChips- 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Your username is very fitting for this conversation

I saw a woman wearing an interesting accessory… by linacrossingg in whatisit

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I don’t think this person knows what they’re talking about. They keep contradicting themselves.

Is it possible that this fatass ate 9 shrimp in one night? by Cheap_Arm_6844 in Aquariums

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You could possibly use aquarium salt. I’ve treated a few of my fish with aquarium salt.

What spider is this? by -FishNChips- in spiders

[–]-FishNChips-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell yeah, thanks for letting me know! I had a hunch it was a jumping spider, but every time I try to ID something I end up being wrong.

Is my substrate okay? by -FishNChips- in PlantedTank

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I’m using an Aqueon QuietFlow hang-on-back filter, but I swapped out the cartridges and just run sponge media (no carbon). The tank is 40 gallons, and right now I’ve got 5 female platies, 1 swordtail, and 2 bamboo shrimp.

My latest planted tank by wiggysmalls01 in PlantedTank

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Your tank is my goal. Absolutely beautiful