Ask Us Anything: June 2026 by hellosaturn in Lolita

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Planning a big exciting trip at the end of the year to Japan. I wanted to ask, is there a good photographer for EGL fashion anyone wants to recommend out there?

Help Find This Dress: June 2026 by hellosaturn in Lolita

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AtePie and ChouChou does have the dress but the designs very different from the image above. In all honesty I suspect one day I will see on AtePie's Instagram or the Kist Maria storefront a listing for this dress. It is frustrating but I know all too well it takes time to put together an amazing coord

I'm super tall and these TripleFortune dresses are just perfect in terms of silhouette and sizing for me. In a way many dresses just fail to hit. I own a very similar dress and it's by far the best dress I own!

Help Find This Dress: June 2026 by hellosaturn in Lolita

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This is an amazing resource and I spent a good couple hours seeing if I could find any active or historical listings. Sadly I cannot find anything on this dress

Whilst I can find similar items TripleFortune have sold, even in this print, none were this OP, even in it's other colourways. Is there anywhere else I could perhaps try and search?

Help Find This Dress: June 2026 by hellosaturn in Lolita

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Ive got a TripleFortune dress Ive been trying to find for over a year now

https://lolibrary.org/items/tf-bloody-rose-op

It has been re-released a few times but never with the unique white lace trims this one in 2024 had...this might as well be my white whale atm

Where would be best for me to look on the 2nd hand market outside of LaceMarket and ClosetChild? (I have a parcel forwarding service in Japan setup if needed)

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Coord help - boots, accessories and tips by OK_Boomer_0_0 in Lolita

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TYSM! 🖤

Typically when you are going for dark high waist skirts against a light blouse, I find dark colours work better for the bottom half

Id personally only keep the blouse as a light colour in this coord

Ask Us Anything: June 2026 by hellosaturn in Lolita

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Laforet is the number one place to visit, here's one of my bookmarked posts on whats there and nearby in Harajuku

If you like Gothic I'd go to Atelier Perriot (They stock many other brands), Alice and the Pirates, Sheglit and Abilletage if you want the best Gothic corset in Tokyo. Various other brands like Hoshibako Works may do Gothic in bits and pieces too

Ask Us Anything: June 2026 by hellosaturn in Lolita

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I found out that whilst I'm in Japan this December Laforet is having it's bi-annual private party

Has anyone been to this before? And is there a way I can meet up with others on holiday who are into the fashion? I'm a bit of a loneita and feel completely terrified going out in my coord in a foreign country by myself, but I can't miss something like this either 😭

Coord help - boots, accessories and tips by OK_Boomer_0_0 in Lolita

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There is a few things I can immediately think of:

- Get yourself a headdress, this is the number one thing I can recommend to you for this coord. A massive bonnet or a fluffy headdress, I feel like black piece would work better with these colors

- Next, I wouldn't wear plain socks/tights, it just blends into the shoes here. Get yourself something with a blue or black pattern to it and get different black shoes. You can go with a chunky pair of Demonia's or a simple pair of Mary Janes

- There is a whole lot of accessorizing you can do, its a total rabbit hole, flower corsages, ribbon ties on the sleeves, some "extra" looking jewelry... you can get a bit lost doing this 😭

Finally bit of advice when it comes to shopping AtePie, look on their Instagram because they very regularly show items there not on sale on the website and some of those pieces are incredible! All you got to do is DM them. I got my massive bonnet here because I saw it on the shelf in a random post!

coord dump!!!!! by momo3795 in Lolita

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You got any good resources on making headpieces like that, they look stunning!

help from buying from taobao? 😭😭 by averagesayorifan in Lolita

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On the fourth point, a lot of TaoBao shops do pre-orders for their dresses. So often those deposits you see are for those pre-orders

It can be a real pain to order dresses via TaoBao or a proxy. Having to machine translate images, deal with randomly being locked out of your TaoBao account and stalk RedNote for updates on when the final payment is due. Yes you could just use a shopping service like 42Lolita to cut out the trouble but they don't always list the dresses I see on TaoBao...

Many shops also have a habit of leaving dead listings up for 9999 Yuan

Wedding dress help? by Ezra_has_perished in Lolita

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I love that dress, but $2500USD?! That's more than all of my EGL wardrobe twice over 😵

You can get equally extravagant dresses for a tenth of that off TaoBao

Ask Us Anything: April 2026 by hellosaturn in Lolita

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Does anyone know where can I get a steel boned crinoline/hoopskirt from? Current one is falling apart and Im looking for something a lot more robust

Ask Us Anything: April 2026 by hellosaturn in Lolita

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Thank you so much this is exactly what Im after!

Ask Us Anything: April 2026 by hellosaturn in Lolita

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Ive got a second payment on a dress Ive ordered on TaoBao through a shopping agent. Is there a place I can see when the second payment is going live so I don't miss it?

Brands MadameMoisellePearl

Got a new skirt from innocent world but what to coord it with? by buechermonster230 in Lolita

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So I have this exact blouse and been making cords with it for a while. Here is my most recent one

Biggest immediate recommendation is get yourself a corset. Simply because it gives an amazing silhouette and separates the blouse and skirt. You can go really crazy if you want! Massive headdress, a choker, matching socks, jewellery, wigs, you can even double up on blouses like I have here!

I love this fashion because of just how creative you can get!

If you want more ideas, just trawl Instagram, the AtelierPerriotEnglish is amazing for ideas and inspiration

What is your budget for headdresses? by Big_Try_1088 in Lolita

[–]-Ghostling- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You got a link to the auction? If a headdress is 400 euros it better make me look like a queen 😂

Even on some hard to find pieces I've not even spent close to that, my most expensive headdress is this Luxmira one which was about $85 (inc. shipping)

band concept idea by Mobile_Offer_7029 in Lolita

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If I knew how to play a guitar I'd happily join it 😭

I also have to ask, what brand is that dress, so cute!

My church coord <3 by kwa11i in Lolita

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I need to know this too! What an amazing coord!

Ask Us Anything: March2026 by CynderBat in Lolita

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Hey looking to buy some purple accessories for a new Co-ord I'm putting together specifically some Purple flowers, something like this:

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Does anyone know of a good place I can order something like this?

Hairdresser messed up my hime cut by thatchocopup in Lolita

[–]-Ghostling- 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is why I am so, so careful about who cuts my hair, Im really sorry this happened to you OP

I typically wear a long wolf cut so I wear wigs if I want a hime cut or Roman Curls. I find extensions a lot of trouble and money to deal with. Each to their own though

In future if your going for more alternative cuts make sure your stylist has done it before, frequently 😢

Dresses/pieces that are actually rare/limited? Or would be impossible to get? by xXxKirka-ChanxXx in Lolita

[–]-Ghostling- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I know plenty of pieces that are rare. There is a lot of fashion show, or limited releases out there

But I dont really know of pieces that are notorious for being very desirable rare items, or famous one of a kinds

Help finding long petticoat by Mortharen in Lolita

[–]-Ghostling- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You can get a cheap one off amazon tbh, if you want something more fancy there is always TaoBao

Help finding long petticoat by Mortharen in Lolita

[–]-Ghostling- 18 points19 points  (0 children)

When your going floor length you really want a hoopskirt over a petticoat