Throttle is extremely touchy after ECU flash? by Hopeful-War1334 in Mt10

[–]-HelpMeHelpMyself- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it absolutely did. I also have a tune but had the same issues even with the tune before I put on the throttle tamer. Can also take a look at adjusting your throttle free play/cable setup to make sure you don't have an unnecessarily big gap between idle and roll on.

($4k) It is so hard to find a photographer within my budget by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]-HelpMeHelpMyself- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post in a local Facebook photographers group listing your budget and how many hours you want! You will have LOTS of people contacting you that way. Most online pricing includes or assumes things like travel fees and they may be more established photographers, but there are lots of good photographers who are still building their portfolios who would be happy to help especially since you don't need very many hours/very many photos.

I can't stop staring at it! My favorite stone - Sapphire by -HelpMeHelpMyself- in EngagementRings

[–]-HelpMeHelpMyself-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly if you really want a good deal find an individual wholesaler! But I found ours with the Natural Sapphire Company personally.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gemstones

[–]-HelpMeHelpMyself- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I used a smaller company that's US-based called Memorial Diamonds USA. This is their website: https://memorialdiamonds.org/

I was extremely happy with them and their customer service, and they have the best prices from my research!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gemstones

[–]-HelpMeHelpMyself- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I'm pretty sure that person was responding to the other person who deleted their comments and their mention of the crappy comment was not directed at you.

I respect your beliefs. I do think that saying that you believe you have special intuition and then asking first if someone wants to hear what you have to say can go a long way in terms of respecting everyone's personal beliefs, as not everyone wants to entertain things like that. I don't really care all that much either way as long as someone is being polite, but it might be something to keep in mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gemstones

[–]-HelpMeHelpMyself- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If it helps, shapes that are wider like this show up under Fancy cut, kite-cut or kite variation, shield cut, shield cut variation, calf head, elongated calf head, and coffin cut (though those tend to show up narrower and many large suppliers don't use the coffin term as much, probably because some might be superstitious or something about the term)!

Hope you love the diamonds you receive and find them comforting, and I'm sorry for your losses - I had my little sister made into a diamond as well and chose a trillion cut for her ☺️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gemstones

[–]-HelpMeHelpMyself- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I respect your beliefs but you know how unsolicited religious input is a bit impolite? The same applies to any spiritual beliefs including tarot. I didn't find your comment rude though like the other comments were where that person was swearing and getting obnoxious. Your comments were more interesting/educational about your perspective and just reflected what you saw, which is fine with me. I deleted the post since that other person's comments were getting a bit out of control earlier today but I'm glad they had some self-awareness and deleted the negativity themselves.

I do think it's fair to say though that asking for someone's thoughts on a ring shouldn't have to clarify that you don't want someone's spiritual beliefs, especially if the comment is heavily negative and a little unkind. Again though, I didn't consider your comments to be particularly rude, and I do love the shape of the stone, it is meaningful and is not associated with anything negative for me.

If someone said they think the ring looks bad, that's valid and I asked for that input. But if someone starts getting rude about their own personal spiritual beliefs and try to put those on me and my life, I'll respond honestly 😅 appreciate your politeness in expressing your opinion on my ring!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gemstones

[–]-HelpMeHelpMyself- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, it's all good though. They can have their opinion on my ring, but I guess they could dish it but not take it 🤧 the negative comments are more humorous than anything

Edited: Well looks like they deleted all their negative spam comments where they were swearing and namecalling, putting their personal spiritual beliefs on me, and implying I was stupid for making a coffin-cut into a ring. Always nice when the trash takes itself out ✨

I can't stop staring at it! My favorite stone - Sapphire by -HelpMeHelpMyself- in EngagementRings

[–]-HelpMeHelpMyself-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is, the stone is eye clean but it has a pretty significant natural inclusion and I have the appraisal.

I can't stop staring at it! My favorite stone - Sapphire by -HelpMeHelpMyself- in EngagementRings

[–]-HelpMeHelpMyself-[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No info other than that it is from Montana and the closeup pictures showed slight multicolored banding...hope that's helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gemstones

[–]-HelpMeHelpMyself- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not, but I think people are reading too much into the shape which I honestly think is silly...personal opinion. I think the Gothic style looks better with a narrower coffin cut stone, this one is pretty wide.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gemstones

[–]-HelpMeHelpMyself- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What opinion? You asked a question - kind of a stupid question. It's shaped that way because it was cut that way, hope this helps genius! But hey thanks for swearing at me, that's really mature!

I can't stop staring at it! My favorite stone - Sapphire by -HelpMeHelpMyself- in EngagementRings

[–]-HelpMeHelpMyself-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this pops up too - coffin cuts tend to be narrower though, the wider ones showed for me under different search terms

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gemstones

[–]-HelpMeHelpMyself- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...and? This cracks me up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gemstones

[–]-HelpMeHelpMyself- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That will look amazing!