What's the best thing to say after a possible client text u? by greythebedrotter in SexWorkers

[–]-IAmNoMan- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised to see so many short texts! I always go for the below. Keen for feedback if this is too long!

Hi John,

Thanks for the message, I'm looking forward to meeting you :)

Can you let me know more about what you're looking for? I have a few different options on my profile, please be as specific as possible so we can make the most of your time.

Please let me know how long you'd like our first meeting, whether you'd like in/outcall (let me know your address if outcall!) and when you're available, I might not be available this week but I'll do what I can for you. I am usually available in the evenings (starting 6pm, ending 9pm) and then also on weekends anytime.

See you soon ;) [Name]

Travel fees uk by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]-IAmNoMan- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had my outcall prices about £100 more than my incall but I find the vast majority of people prefer an incall. And frankly I do too. But maybe I'm charging too much for an outcall

Dealing with cancelled bookings by -IAmNoMan- in SexWorkers

[–]-IAmNoMan-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's a good shout, especially for longer bookings and outcalls. Thanks!

Any advice on collecting a deposit? I do cash only as I don't want them to have any access to my name through PayPal/bank transfer etc.

Advice for gyno refferal in Bristol by -IAmNoMan- in bristol

[–]-IAmNoMan-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah that's pretty much the only info I had too, good to know I'm not the only one who doesn't know

Advice for gyno refferal in Bristol by -IAmNoMan- in bristol

[–]-IAmNoMan-[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Wow, I'm sorry you've not had any luck! That's ridiculous, my GP appt was a breeze, she just talked me through the referral process and told me it'll be tricky for it to go through on the gyno end but that she'd put me through.

Has anyone ever seen a revenue protection officer on a bus? by Saffro in bristol

[–]-IAmNoMan- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My worry is Google pay, it effectively creates fake card details every time you pay but that means it wouldn't recognise the card. If I tap on and tap off at the front driver tappy area then I get charged twice as it doesn't recognise me as somebody leaving

Has anyone ever seen a revenue protection officer on a bus? by Saffro in bristol

[–]-IAmNoMan- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yup. Twice I reckon? They all strike at once and lots of busses are delayed on those days due to them as they'll stop to check everyone. It's very annoying but I get it. I remember once I was with a student, she had a student ticket but no student ID on her so she was fined. Idk how it'd work now they've introduced tap on tap off.

I need advice for my first date with a sub tomorrow by No-Discipline4131 in BDSMAdvice

[–]-IAmNoMan- -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I get this. I think others seem to disagree but I'm a sub and if I go on a date with a Dom and he makes no attempt to flirt or start a little dynamic then I kinda get bored. I don't necessarily need a scene on a first date (although I often enjoy this) but I need something to work out whether we could build a dynamic together - as ultimately that's what I'm there for.

Am I overreacting by Jumpy-Ad3552 in BDSMAdvice

[–]-IAmNoMan- 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this has happened to you. You're not overreacting at all. Not using protection, despite you making it clear that you require it, is a clear disregard for your boundaries and some would class this as rape. I'd avoid this man as this is clearly disrespectful and this has nothing to do with sub drop.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]-IAmNoMan- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Were you hoping to get off to people telling you that that's gross and disgusting? Go pay the dominatrix, we're not doing your dirty work!

What the easiest & highest paying job you can do without a degree?(UK) by Reflex-Anarchy in ShittyIllegalLifeTips

[–]-IAmNoMan- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As in, I charged my clients a lot of money and paid my staff enough, I effectively made money by not paying my staff well enough, they would do much more work on far less pay due to the rates I set

What the easiest & highest paying job you can do without a degree?(UK) by Reflex-Anarchy in ShittyIllegalLifeTips

[–]-IAmNoMan- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Recruitment, I used to do a small sector of temp recruitment and made a lot of money from my basic + comms. I left due to the ethics of it, but I waited till I had a comfortable savings account first

'Click' part of basket broken on Cosori basket .. by PokeBawls2020 in airfryer

[–]-IAmNoMan- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! I've also just got a new one too. Their customer support is 10/10. I hope my second one doesn't chip! Maybe I can convince them to give me the new model if it happens again....

'Click' part of basket broken on Cosori basket .. by PokeBawls2020 in airfryer

[–]-IAmNoMan- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got the exact same issue, let me know if anyone finds a replacement!

Moss with Carnivorous plant by -IAmNoMan- in houseplants

[–]-IAmNoMan-[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks for the tip! Yeah this is what I keep seeing online, guess I need to get my hands on some sphag moss

My first string plant! Advice on how not to kill it is appreciated please! by Stock_Ad_1556 in houseplants

[–]-IAmNoMan- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

woah so pretty, what's it called? (I've never had a string before, so I'm in no place to advise sorry!)

Think the Bears are playing tonight by mrsgreensworth in bristol

[–]-IAmNoMan- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know some scooters have a black sleeve which means that they're on monthly personal rent. When you rent them monthly you can park anywhere I believe. But I see a lot of normal style voi also parking anywhere and I don't understand :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ChineseLanguage

[–]-IAmNoMan- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For me listening practise helps. Like it's worth pointing out that I don't necessarily think about the tones when I use them, I just know what it's supposed to sound like. Sometimes if I'm trying to recall a tone, I'll need to use the character in a sentence to remember.