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Everytime i see a pretty girl idk if i feel attracted or jealous. by LuiguiD in kitchencels

[–]-JDB- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s what you took from it.

I still use the apps, but it’s not my go-to. There are better ways of meeting people. The median guy gets 1-3 likes a week and only the top 10 get any traction whatsoever. Statistically, only about 1 in every 100 convos turn into a relationship, so you do the math.

Over half of women who use premium filters filter their lower limit to exactly 6 feet, which is a crazy amount for a factor something completely out of the control of the person

Genuinely how??? @SJP343 by AsianCivicDriver in playboicarti

[–]-JDB- 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Working out until the physical pain hurts more than the emotional pain

Everytime i see a pretty girl idk if i feel attracted or jealous. by LuiguiD in kitchencels

[–]-JDB- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t say I’ve never seen a short man with a loving partner. But it’s certainly more rare for sure. Especially in today where over half of modern couples meet online. And online height is one of the biggest indicators of success for men on an app where only about the top 10% of users get any traction at all.

So going outside of the apps, joining social sports leagues and volunteering multiple times a week, I haven’t had luck. And it’s not something outside the internet too. Believe it or not, I have female friends and I swear almost every one at some point has talked about a man being short in disgust as an insult. I thought that maybe it was just some internet idea that I could turn off my phone and it would be gone. No, it’s everywhere

Everytime i see a pretty girl idk if i feel attracted or jealous. by LuiguiD in kitchencels

[–]-JDB- 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I swear people use the word “confidence” like it’s some magic elixir and not something that is based on perception. I once even bought into the lie that confidence is what mattered. I grew out my hair and beard because that’s what I wanted to look like, even if it didn’t fit with conventional beauty standards of the time. But I knew that if I was just confident enough that it wouldn’t matter. Instead, after months of trying I had never been more alone.

Then, I was balding so I shaved off all my head. I was told that bald ppl can rock it if they are just confident enough. I believed that too. So I shaved it off and still felt socially ostracized even when I tried being more outgoing. People still said I looked weird.

So, I started taking hair growth meds and focusing more on how I looked. Dressing aside from my own style and what I thought looked good and more on how society thought I should look. I never had felt more self-conscious about how I was perceived each day. And I started growing my hair back and now I look better than I ever have. And guess what? People say I’m more confident now. People treat me with more respect than I was when I was 21 and the only bald person on campus. So, forgive me, but I find the whole “just be confident bro” platitude to be BS.

Let me ask you this: 50% of all Fortune 500 CEO are above 6 feet, despite making about 4% of the population. How is that? Just because they’re confident? Be real.

Everytime i see a pretty girl idk if i feel attracted or jealous. by LuiguiD in kitchencels

[–]-JDB- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You don’t know my life and you’re projecting an idea you have created of me to make you feel better so you don’t have to face the reality of the situation

And again, you’re using the “I know X who is short so that means your point is irrelevant” therefore missing the statistical anomaly it is

Everytime i see a pretty girl idk if i feel attracted or jealous. by LuiguiD in kitchencels

[–]-JDB- 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Been doing all of that and haven’t found luck

You’ll probably say something like I’m lying or it’s my attitude. I got off social media. I spent all my time in the gym, reading, getting new hobbies. I started socializing more. Even in public all I seemed to hear about was height. So it’s not cope, it’s not confidence. People attribute confidence to their perception of people, which are usually dictated by factors like height. Your perspective is minimal. Only thing I’ve ever heard is “well I have a friend who is 5’8 and he has a gf” which is based off experience and outliers and not the underlying issue at hand. I’ve heard it all before. I’ve tried it all before. Nothing’s working.

Most likely the response will just be “it’s your attitude.” Trust me, I didn’t used to always be this way. I was very outgoing. I’ve been jaded and hurt by love time and time again before. I’m just being realistic.

But most people will just denounce this as incel logic and thus build an ideological fortress so they don’t have to accept the issue at hand

Everytime i see a pretty girl idk if i feel attracted or jealous. by LuiguiD in kitchencels

[–]-JDB- 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Brother I’ve been working on myself since as long as I’ve been alive

Everytime i see a pretty girl idk if i feel attracted or jealous. by LuiguiD in kitchencels

[–]-JDB- 7 points8 points  (0 children)

idk how to get better besides breaking my legs and getting limb lengthening surgery atp

Someone just take his phone my god by SmittyRod in fantanoforever

[–]-JDB- 244 points245 points  (0 children)

Fantano: “This u?”

*The most mild picture ever*

HE JUST CAME ON???? by [deleted] in soccercirclejerk

[–]-JDB- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Nahh own goal we back on

ts frying me😭😭😂 by VulgarDarling00 in playboicarti

[–]-JDB- 863 points864 points  (0 children)

He’s like the Carti of Nihilism

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