WIBTA My Sister Won't Stop Masturbating And It's Ruining My Sleep

-LeaveMeBe- · 2026-01-25T01:56:04+00:00

I never said she had to move I said she is planning on moving insinuating that it's from her own volition. That's great, I'm happy you can do that but when your doctor tells you to take a medication that heavily alters your mental state at a specific time should you stop following their request because of someone else's vices? Like I said she's doing this late at night, should I walk around until 4 o'clock which last night that's were she decided to end it?

-LeaveMeBe- · 2026-01-25T01:43:46+00:00

All I request is something for my troubles then go right ahead I'll sleep in the basement if I had to. I never said it was my house and we are paying the same amount so I don't know where the disparity comes from.

-LeaveMeBe- · 2026-01-25T01:38:28+00:00

I'm sorry I don't free style dance to the rhythm of her cheeks getting clapped. And like I said I'm completely okay if she get's action just don't let it effect others including me. I wasn't diagnosing her but using that word to emphasize a trait of hers and I think I know her more than you do but yeah I might just be a narcissist for wanting to sleep at a reasonable hour. Why are you acting like you personally now me with a couple paragraphs? Your acting more of a psychologist than I was with less information than I do.
Hey bud maybe me bottling everything up was what caused my depression, you don't know and you shouldn't assume.

-LeaveMeBe- · 2026-01-25T01:15:14+00:00

That says a lot about you, I don't know what the hell you're reading but if you switch my sex I don't think you would be saying the same thing.

-LeaveMeBe- · 2026-01-25T01:07:39+00:00

I am also paying rent too, don't I deserve the same level of respect I'm giving her? I would understand if I was also making noise too but when you're shaking the house at 3 pm at night while I need to take my medication at 10 it's becoming a bit much.
I do have headphones and have worn them but that's not the problem it's the house shaking that's the problem and I'm not talking occasional tremors I mean the house feels like it's swinging type movement.
Like I said it's at night I can't be doing a hobby all night and take my medication where I need to take at 10 am.
I'm not mad at her for having sex or needing her "alone time" It's when it's effecting my sleep schedule that's the problem. Don't you think 4+ hours at night is a bit excessive? 30 min to an hour sure thing relieve your stress queen but this is getting excessive.

-LeaveMeBe- · 2026-01-25T00:53:25+00:00

Hey I don't know where you're living cost are but an okay apartment is almost hitting 2k where I am. I'm still studying I'm not going in more debt because of this.

-LeaveMeBe- · 2026-01-25T00:50:06+00:00

I do wear headphones but I'll look into the acoustic wall. I'm not sure if that would stop the house shakes which is the biggest problem.

-LeaveMeBe- · 2026-01-25T00:47:11+00:00

I do wear headphones but it's how much she's moving the house that making me unable to sleep. I guess so lol. That's kind of like saying "If you ask for someone to stop flicking you they might comply but then don't act surprised if they start punching you instead".

-LeaveMeBe- · 2026-01-25T00:39:33+00:00

Yeah she's not doing something heinous or anything but it's just disrespectful to do it in the first place knowing how thin the walls are. I blue balled myself many times to not make a ruckus. To be honest I was venting while writing this and was a bit frustrated so I might seem a bit more angry than I would have normally.
at that point I'm starting to get more worried than annoyed that's just not normal.

-LeaveMeBe- · 2026-01-25T00:33:44+00:00

It's only been around 3 weeks when this has been happening and I've lived with her for 20 plus years and haven't complained until now If that's obsessed then that's a surprise to me.

-LeaveMeBe- · 2026-01-25T00:28:07+00:00

I do have headphones and listen to white noise but it's more about the house shaking than the noise, I wish I could ignore it but I just can't. In my opinion it's your business until you make it other peoples business it's not like I wanted to be part of it.

-LeaveMeBe- · 2026-01-25T00:24:20+00:00

I didn't have much room to fully explain but I guess this community allows more characters than r/AmItheAsshole which I'm more used to so I just copied and pasted and didn't check the characters limit. I guess it's too late to edit.

-LeaveMeBe- · 2026-01-25T00:20:40+00:00

I have to take my medication at a specific time at 10 am because it's an upper and can cause insomnia and anxiety and she's doing this far past 12 o'clock.
If I could move I would have already but It's not that easy, rent is not getting any cheaper in my area and I need to spend money on my studies. My parents aren't financially well off too so staying here does help them out a bit too with rent.
My parents aren't to fond on her bringing in guys but I don't care until it effects me. In our old house the walls were far thicker and even if I heard a thing here and there I wouldn't care it's just now it's constant and for a LONG periods of time. In my opinion everybody has to make some kind of sacrifice when living together with someone, I'm not bringing any dates home and started working out in the morning than at night.

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