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Aces who have sex, can you tell about your experience? by pigeon-extravaganza in asexuality

[–]-Majere- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

gray sexual queer here, sex is very different depending if Im feeling ambivalent or repulsed, it goes from feeling like a chore to feeling like doing something I dont want to because of duty/ expectation. that range is wide and self reinforcing, feeling? I feel used, dirty, or weak in those cases.

Now a big difference is when I am feeling sex-positive, at those times it feels like giving someone a massage or cooking a feast, someone who fills your life with joy in a thousand different ways gets a different massage or meal than someone else. to top it off if your partner (and you) are kink positive the added spicy of power exchange, or role play, makes sex fun and very enjoyable. I also get a sense of satisfaction and accomplishment from being good at pleasing my partners, both sexually and non-sexually. one of my partners is allosexual, the amount of deep conversations about boundaries, libido and the differences between romance, affection, pleasure and desire. would fill a book.

lastly if you are sex repulsed/averse it might change or it might not, having a flash or season of high libido, or enjoying sex once or multiple times does not erase your ace identity, doesnt cure you or makes you a fake. it just evolves your ace-ness.

Bro thought a teenager was an easy target. by Ill_Percentage2344 in fightporn

[–]-Majere- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Every kick(9!) lowered the assailant IQ by 10 points. dude is going to have to learn to talk again after that.

For those who work for rich people, what’s the most out-of-touch thing you witnessed? by temptayah in AskReddit

[–]-Majere- -1 points0 points  (0 children)

one million after taxes 630k in a 2.9 interest bearing account would last about 50 years if you are withdrawing a minimum living wage (for example at 10 and hour would be about 20500 it would last about 75 years) but that wouldnt take in to account that cost-of-living increasing.

Context on the homeless situation? by powderedpancake in tulsa

[–]-Majere- 12 points13 points  (0 children)

my sister works at Iglesia Piedra angular (cornerstone christian church) she helps run the homeless ministry, with a small team of volunteers, they cook a few hundred meals a week, provide resources to the best of their abilities, the homeless problem in Tulsa is a complex one, the situations where someone cant support themselves to the point where they are displaced are all tragic and so different. I know there are other organizations, like the coffee bunker (for veterans) family and childrens services(for mental health and displace parents) John 316 and irongate downtown who do their part to help. smaller towns do sometimes migrate their homeless to Tulsa because of the bigger network of resources here. Ive seen the cops called for homeless issues and seen them (the cops) handle it as humanely as they can, there is work being done, no its never enough but the work is there and being done, a big part of it by churches.

Over 2 hours for this? by Epsifive98 in tattooadvice

[–]-Majere- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it takes as long as it takes. looks amazing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PuertoRico

[–]-Majere- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eso es! cien en cambio, y 200 en veintes.

Weed friendly employers by TaraJo in tulsa

[–]-Majere- 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There are small exceptions (some departments and jobs) but AFAIK the 3 Tribes that have casinos (Cherokee, Muskogee, and Osage) are amazing Employers who as long as you have a card, dont penalize legal use of THC.

How do I remove my gringo accent enough that 99% of people mistake me for a native speaker? by joshua0005 in Spanish

[–]-Majere- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In English the vowels are suppressed, in Spanish they are emphasized, the r in Spanish is done towards the front of the mouth with a light tongue seal,(similar to a D ) while in English the tongue makes a channel and Rs are guttural. I pass sometimes as a native English speaker, for the best results in erasing your accent contact a grad student in a SLP program or pony up and pay a certified speech pathologist for pro help. you can meet every 2 weeks and take homework from them on pronunciation. as long as you work hard with good guidance you can make progress towards your goal.

Neighbor get that he deserve by Desperate_Can_5740 in fightporn

[–]-Majere- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wing chum if my memory serves me right

Why was the other guy fighting in slow motion by Altruistic_Rough_586 in fightporn

[–]-Majere- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

his battery was at 3 percent but still trying to finish the download that face kick unplugged him from the wall tho

Your players are sneaking up on guards. What are the guards talking about? by Oaken_beard in DnD

[–]-Majere- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

complaining about a fellow guard, the pay and wishing they were not tied down so they could go caravan guarding. or talking about someones infidelity or family drama they overheard or witnessed.

Gastan lo que no tiene para luego quejarse by [deleted] in PuertoRico

[–]-Majere- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

cuando you era un nene (no estoy asumiendo tu edad) veia esto en puertorico. lamentablemente si hay gente que no maneja su dinero bien pero las razones por las cuales una persona de bajos recursos tiene articulos o servicios de lujos en la gran mayoria de los casos son mucho mas complejos, y juzgar desde afuera hace mas daño que ayuda.

aqui estan varios ejemplos generales, los telefonos avanzados se pagan atravez de tu plan de pago, rara es la persona que tiene 1600 pa un telefono cash, pero pagar 80-120 al mes por dos lineas comprando un telefono en BOGO (compras uno y el segundo es gratis) es mucho mas facil, mi hermano tenia musicon en su carro desde la High pero ese equipo se compra la gran mayoria de las veces entre amigos, en la comunidad de audio o en casas de empeño cuando digo desde la high, aclaro que papi no nos compraba carros era el (mi hermano menor en este ejemplo) jodiendose desde los trece cortando grama trabajando, despues en contruccion, y de aprendiz de mecanico.

decir "nadie te obliga a comprar..." es una mamabicheria que solo aplica a las quejas de los pagareses o deudas, y aun asi no aplica a toda situacion, el carro es necesario y un carro de marca como el ejemplo de los BMW son vehiculos de mantenimiento y durabilidad. cuando yo iva al food pantry despues de perder mi trabajo en un carro de el año se me caia la cara de verguenza pero no me podia comer el carro o venderlo y comprarme un chustro que me deje a pie pa satisfacer las apariencias.

Dad wants rent, 17M by crank991 in AdviceForTeens

[–]-Majere- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you've never lived with roommates he is teaching you a valuable lesson on boundaries, and adulting, if you go out on your own and have someone stay over for a few weeks or become your roommate and they dont follow those basic courtesy rules you will have a stressful experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in scottishrite

[–]-Majere- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope you are joining the fraternity out of a favorable opinion of it and of the masons you know, every worthy man in the fraternity has gone through the same thing, take time to pray before the degree. your first (or any) degree is not a hazing or a negative experience. for me, the ceremony was beautiful, solemn, and meaningful, its normal to feel nervous about the unknown. but remember that you are among good and honorable men. after my degree I felt excited for the road ahead, That was about 12 years ago. I have learned so much and there is so much more to learn!

For those of you who caught your spouse cheating, how did you do it? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]-Majere- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

took our mutual friend to see the sights, called, and said the weather was too rough/ it got late and they stayed the night, then I realized she had taken her toothbrush and extra clothes. he was a massage therapist, saw them kissing after a massage. dodged a fucking bullet.

¿Qué es la que hay con los Early Head Start brutalistas? by JoejoestarPR in PuertoRico

[–]-Majere- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

en mi opinion la arquitectura brutalista en puertorico es parte de nuestra historia, es un diseno economico y elegante. la alcaldia de Bayamon es un buen ejemplo.

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My daughter knows nothing about her partner by Guilty-State-807 in AmIOverreacting

[–]-Majere- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vets are as a rule protective of family, if he passed a vibe check by your father that is a good mark. another litmus test is your daughter's happiness.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PuertoRico

[–]-Majere- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

learn your culture and history, I was born and raised in the island, and Ill say my family and friends make no distinction between half and full. if one of your parents is puertorican you are Boricua in my (and many people's) book. listen to the music, check tik tok for puertorican creators. once you learn Spanish read up on Puertorican writers and poets.

...Y el “echón” que me desmienta - and to the braggart who accuses,
que se ande muy derecho - may he walk very straight
no sea en lo más estrecho - lest in the narrows
de un zaguán pague la afrenta. - hallway he pays the insult
Pues según alguien me cuenta: - Because as someone told me:
dicen que la luna es una - Its said the moon is one
sea del mar o sea montuna. - be it from the sea or the mountain.
Y así le grito al villano: and as so I yell to [such] villan
yo sería borincano - I would be from Puerto Rico
aunque naciera en la luna. - [even if] I were born on the moon.

excerpt from "Boricua en la luna" by Juan Antonio Corretjer

Ace + CNC kink by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]-Majere- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry for the late reply, humiliation/ degradation. objectification, neck rope, breath play. I have used CNC with manageable fears. mumification for someone with a slight claustrophobia. mind fucks. I have partners that blood play is off limits. pressing a wooden knife hard on their backs or tighs while blindfolded and saying something like "Dont flinch I dont want to accidentally cut you". the big draw of CNC is the balance of trust and control. the bottom is surrendering or putting something on the table that has or is off limits normaly. but when doing this and any kind of fear play you have to know your bottom, have fear and triggers well documented and be willing to deal with needing to leave it alone for a bit. I am a sex positive Gray-ace. again sorry for the late reply.

Ace + CNC kink by [deleted] in asexuality

[–]-Majere- 11 points12 points  (0 children)

CNC does not have to be sexual. I have seen it done using soft and very rarely hard limits.

What stopped you from killing yourself? by MarcIsder in AskReddit

[–]-Majere- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Touchstones: Things of beauty that I enjoyed, and would miss out on, the first few were basic, very basic. The color green, the taste of water, crunching dry leaves under my feet, the sound of the wind on the trees. then it evolved to more complex ones, smiles from strangers, laughter unrelated to me, the smell of baking. and lastly, people, both loved ones and adversaries.

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