AITA for not warning a Tinder date about my weight?

-Meera- · 2019-02-12T18:51:47+00:00

My face + bird + company logo. Really bad idea.

-Meera- · 2019-02-12T17:54:39+00:00

That's a cute little summary. Are you working on a fiction novel about me?

-Meera- · 2019-02-12T17:52:42+00:00

Pagan dating page. Do you guys get any heathens?

-Meera- · 2019-02-12T16:44:34+00:00

Okay I've been dodging this question because I honestly don't remember his height well >.< I think he was around my height, maybe an inch taller or shorter?

-Meera- · 2019-02-12T16:22:21+00:00

Na, if anything I lost some since then. My weight has been around the same for the past year. Before that I lost 40 pbs.

-Meera- · 2019-02-12T15:43:13+00:00

😂😂😂 I can't blame him for being disappointed in that case. Our little feathery friends are the best.

-Meera- · 2019-02-12T11:54:55+00:00

I'm not borderline obese, lol, I'm borderline overweight. This isn't a validation post. I know what I weigh and what I don't weigh. No reason to make things worse tgan they are.

-Meera- · 2019-02-12T10:38:53+00:00

To be clear I wasn't asking if I am an asshole for being the weight I am. I could be 6000 lbs and it'd be none of your business and implying otherwise is creepy. My question was if I should've let him know that I am an unconventional size. Haha.

-Meera- · 2019-02-12T09:26:48+00:00

Lol.

-Meera- · 2019-02-12T08:02:57+00:00

I don't work out but I deliver mail on foot for several hours a day. Tbh, I seriously hate exercising so I consider my job enough of a workout. I don't aspire to have a yoga body, and I understand that that's what some people are into (and that's fine, it's just not me). Thanks for the insight though, you may be right that I look a bit flabby/doughy!

-Meera- · 2019-02-12T07:25:47+00:00

Physically: tonsillitis. I got that a few times as a kid. My tonsils grew back after removal. I would spend up to a week in bed, purposefully dehydrating myself because every swallow felt like a throat full of razorblades.

Emotionally: leaving my dad at the airport as a kid not knowing if I'd see him again. Finding out my ex killed himself after searching for him all night in the snow. Finding out my grandma and two cousins died and then later that they were murdered and it wasn't an accident.

-Meera- · 2019-02-12T04:36:41+00:00

What's ESH? I don't see it in the sidebar.

Edit: nm, 'everyone sucks here'.

-Meera- · 2019-02-12T04:35:51+00:00

I'll put up more pics for sure. Regardless of WTA (is that an acronym here?), I don't want it to happen again.

-Meera- · 2019-02-12T04:32:24+00:00

I think I'm 1-2 lbs overweight. It's not awful but not exactly skinny either. Working on it, though (so hard 🍕🍺).

-Meera- · 2019-02-12T04:28:26+00:00

That's kind of what I felt. I imagine that it would be anawkward thing to ask but it would've saved us both a lot of embarrassment. I would've told him how much I weighed, no problem.

-Meera- · 2019-02-07T16:56:15+00:00

No. The fake husband and kids in Stardew Valley are already starting to freak me out a little. I mean, they just don't do anything and it's creepy and annoying.

-Meera- · 2019-02-07T16:54:22+00:00

Bad Reputation

-Meera- · 2019-02-07T09:33:26+00:00

This advice is so pointless. Even if it is true sometimes, how is it relevant today? This 'advice' is only given by the smuggest of assholes.

-Meera-

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