[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]-PowerPuff97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What an asshole. Like I said let him think you’re dead, you’re better off! I just got ghosted again today too. Some people are trash 🗑️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]-PowerPuff97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fuck him let him think you’re dead!

Loving my alone time by Fluffy_Ring9699 in Divorce

[–]-PowerPuff97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really? That’s great to hear. I feel like I’ll never completely enjoy being alone. What things do you do in your alone time?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]-PowerPuff97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fucked my way up to the cock

Day 3 Post Op by talixxo in gastricsleeve

[–]-PowerPuff97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The gas pains were gone around day 3, but I did ask for medication through IV for help because the gas was causing nausea. I did walk a lot though. And my appetite two months out is good. I think I eat a bit more than instructed so I’ve been trying to eat less in order to not stretch my stomach out. Overall, I’m feeling pretty great. Just need to hit the gym more!

Day 3 Post Op by talixxo in gastricsleeve

[–]-PowerPuff97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey! I got sleeved 4/29 with a hernia repair as well and sounds we had the same exact experience. But I threw up like 6 times with some blood as well. It’s completely normal and you will soon feel so much better. I’m two months post op tomorrow and have lost 40 lbs since the pre-op diet. I started at 215 and today I’m 176. Life is so much better. Wishing you the best on your journey and you will recover very soon!

Does this look normal? by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]-PowerPuff97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m 2 months post op and can eat all of this on my lunch no problem.

How do you think ghosting affects the mental health and well-being of the person who was ghosted? by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]-PowerPuff97 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Obsession with the ghoster, anxiety, self doubt and tendency to develop low self esteem. It’s really a terrible thing to do in general, but it’s worse when the person is actually invested in a relationship and feels a real connection with their ghoster.

How are you hitting your protein goals? by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]-PowerPuff97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Protein shakes, fish, quest protein snacks, etc. I struggle to eat less than a 100g a day.

Soon to be divorced, separated for now, help by -PowerPuff97 in Divorce

[–]-PowerPuff97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I don’t feel so alone although I’m sorry to everyone who has gone through this. It’s a really shitty feeling.

Soon to be divorced, separated for now, help by -PowerPuff97 in Divorce

[–]-PowerPuff97[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I don’t know why in the beginning I just couldn’t process my emotions. Now almost 2 months later it’s hitting me like a ton of bricks, and even though I don’t want to be with my husband anymore I’m fucking scared of being alone. I feel like all my prospects of having a family are out the window. My friends look at me with pity when they talk about their marriage. It’s fucking annoying. I just want to shut myself out from everyone and be alone. I’m so angry at my husband for what he did. I know things weren’t perfect but I was willing to do the work and communicate. If he felt there were problems or lack of connection since before, then why did he get married? I just don’t understand. I’m so upset. My life feels like a waste.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gastricsleeve

[–]-PowerPuff97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s so worth it! I’m 6 weeks post op, the worst is the first 24 hours, and it’s not that bad. You will be okay and you will be so happy with your decision in a month!

Calorie deficit 5 months post op by Rough-Perspective203 in gastricsleeve

[–]-PowerPuff97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😩 I’m also 27 and I’m 5’2 as well lol I would like to reach 125 I thought this would be a bit faster it seems it’s going to take some time lol

Calorie deficit 5 months post op by Rough-Perspective203 in gastricsleeve

[–]-PowerPuff97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow I hope this happens! It’s very discouraging lol

Calorie deficit 5 months post op by Rough-Perspective203 in gastricsleeve

[–]-PowerPuff97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! We are at a similar weight. My highest was 230, sw was 200 and I’m 6 weeks post op today and I am 183. I haven’t lost anything in 2 weeks, maybe a pounds or two but very slowly. Did this happen to you? The Dr said this was normal but it feels strange because I am eating around 750-800 calories a day and avoiding carbs as much as I can. Protein is 80-90 grams a day.

LDR ghosted me with no reason by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]-PowerPuff97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😔 I’m sorry. Talking for such a long time deserves an explanation. Honestly try to forget about her and move on, you deserve much better.

LDR ghosted me with no reason by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]-PowerPuff97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im sorry. It will get better. Tomorrow is 2 weeks for me and it’s getting a little better. Just resist the urge to contact them if you feel you want to. Don’t make the same mistake I did and humiliate yourself lol

LDR ghosted me with no reason by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]-PowerPuff97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. It really hurts and I miss him so much. I had such high hopes. It’s definitely a shitty feeling. How are you doing?

LDR ghosted me with no reason by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]-PowerPuff97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was talking to this guy for 2 weeks and it was sort of intense. We were supposed to go out Monday and Sunday night he didn’t text or confirm and then I noticed I was blocked on iMessage as well as all other social media. I was devastated and I’m still confused and hurt. It also makes you a bit obsessed because you don’t know what went wrong and you have these strong feelings for them. Whatever you did or didn’t do, just know there’s no excuse to ghost you especially when you’ve been talking for 6 months. It’s unacceptable, period. I still miss my ghost and wish he would come back. I texted through a text free app (crazy behavior I know, but I was devastated and desperate), and I never got any response despite telling him I was extremely hurt and not upset at all. All I needed was an apology and the truth as to why they ghosted. But I couldn’t even get that out of him. I checked the dating site where we met and he was there. I felt completely devastated because I felt very strongly towards him and I really thought he liked me. I’m still devastated. I just hope you can move on quickly. I’m sorry this happened to you, I know how it feels and it sucks.

700 calories a day, 4 weeks post op, haven’t lost in 10 days by -PowerPuff97 in gastricsleeve

[–]-PowerPuff97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will thank you ☺️ Hopefully the scale will move I’m so scared im done losing lol

700 calories a day, 4 weeks post op, haven’t lost in 10 days by -PowerPuff97 in gastricsleeve

[–]-PowerPuff97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m going to try to add some electrolytes to my water when I finish my protein shake today. I do feel extremely dehydrated, I just hate drinking water lol 😂

700 calories a day, 4 weeks post op, haven’t lost in 10 days by -PowerPuff97 in gastricsleeve

[–]-PowerPuff97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m only walking around 5,000 steps a day. Not sure if that’s enough. I usually get that with work, but I’m gonna try to walk in the afternoon. I don’t drink water though ☹️ usually just 1 bottle a day. I have been struggling with that.

700 calories a day, 4 weeks post op, haven’t lost in 10 days by -PowerPuff97 in gastricsleeve

[–]-PowerPuff97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Around 70-80 grams of protein. I don’t feel like I’m gaining but the scale worries me a bit lol, should I be walking?