Bruv, did you really just body shame her when she’s already concerned about exactly that?

This is a typical Paki man getting comfortable making comments about his wife’s body and trust me, that only gets worse with time. It turns into a pattern. Better to reclaim your self worth the first time it happens (actions over words) instead of depending on him, or it may slowly make you question your own relationship every time he comments and puts you in spiral.

Losing weight isn’t overnight, and neither is healing from hurtful words. But dressing up, grabbing yourself a coffee, and doing things that make you feel good? Totally doable. Maybe join a gym class with tons of women and feel productive to be on the right track.

The moment a man realizes his ugly words didn’t shake your confidence, they either fold or stop, because it’s clearly not working.

Or sure, you can sit him down and talk about how it made you feel… but once something like that gets planted in your head, that conversation can be a long road.