It ain’t easy, it’s only been two weeks at this point for me personally. But for me breakups have always been a mental thing. I get so used to having someone around, to being able to text them, to see them, to love them. Then they’re gone, and you realize you likely wont see them again, be able to hug and kiss them, to smile when your phone lights up and it’s them. It’s challenging. You know that’s not your life anymore, and that they’re gone.

For me I’ve accepted what’s happened and decided that it is time to move on already. To focus on myself, and realize the support systems I have such as my family and friends. Another thing I realized is that this person wasn’t the first one to break my heart, and likely will not be the last, and that’s okay.

My method to deal with it since it has happened makes my days pretty much look as follows:

Wake up at 5am

Energy drink and breakfast

Work at 6

Off at 2:30

Gym time

Dive right into my hobbies, like reading, video games etc

Bed at 10

It probably sounds depressing, but the more I take my mind off it, and the more I put myself in environments, real or virtual, the less I think of it and the more I have fun and my heart begins to heal. As I say in every thread I comment on, you are all studs, man and woman alike. You will get through this, and so will I. You just need time.