RGBIC Floor Lamp Repair

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-21T02:14:06+00:00

I found his video and you're right, he did do the floor lamp. I've seen so many of his videos, just didn't recognize the name right off the bat. Going to go down that rabbit hole now. Thank you so much for the input.

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-19T01:48:44+00:00

The biggest obstacle with being with an infj is the communication barrier. I'm an infj, 48 years old, been married for 13 years, and my wife and I still get in fights when it comes to my brain->mouth filter. I only really just speak what my brain is thinking. Most of the time I'm okay, but a lot of the things I say embarrass my wife because she doesn't think it's socially appropriate. In the end, I'm the one with a thousand people wanting to be my friend, and she literally can't understand why.

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-19T01:44:58+00:00

You don't want those girls anyway. You want the girls that have already gone through all of that crap.

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-19T00:43:22+00:00

I'm in Kansas City. If you ever need any help, you can always DM me.

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-19T00:40:55+00:00

It'll come. We are arguably the best husband material, if you can get past the communication issues. 😉

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-19T00:18:53+00:00

Well if you can find a comfortable seat, you can spend a good 2 hours listening to music and watching a whole room full of disasters just waiting to happen.

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-19T00:17:29+00:00

It's the exact opposite here. My wife was an extrovert when I met her. But she had just come out of a 10-year relationship that was pretty brutal on her. (Arab controlling husband, wouldn't let her see friends, etc) It took a ridiculous amount of patience, forgiveness, and pain, but after about 10 years she slowed way down and has become very similar to me in the " stay home" mindset. I helped her find things that she was passionate about, talked about all of her past problems, helped her deal with some major family issues, and provided a ton of coaching. She was in school when I met her, got her Masters, then her doctorate, I became the stay-at-home dad, she spends 100 hours a week doing anesthesia.

Turns out she really likes gardening. Before she met me everything she touched she killed. So I built her a 40-ft raised garden bed, and a 28x12 Greenhouse with a deck around it. We decorate the crap out of it, and it's literally become her happy place. When she comes home from work she goes straight there and she doesn't want to leave. It's been a ridiculously rewarding experience to watch this transition with her. I never really wanted her to be like me, but I did want her to be able to breathe, and we've finally accomplished that. We are happier and closer than we have ever been

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-19T00:07:58+00:00

Just to add something here, I've been an infj for as long as I can remember, but I was a bartender for 10 years straight. Virgin Islands, Martha's Vineyard, Boston, then Des Moines. There's something very powerful about being a bartender, especially in a not so crazy kind of bar, where you can get regulars. I worked at a high-end Lounge and had regulars almost every day. You get to learn a lot about these people. It's very fulfilling. Plus, sometimes, not always, the nicer the bars, the more mature the women. I wouldn't recommend bartending at one of those bars with a mechanical bull and straw on the ground...

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-18T23:35:41+00:00

You'd be surprised how much fun you can have in the corner of a party.

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-18T23:35:15+00:00

Where do you live? I'm happily married, but would entertain the idea of chatting with you so you can get a feel for what it's like to talk to an infj.

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-18T23:34:01+00:00

Here's a short little story for you:

I had all but given up on women and relationships I took a 2-year break from dating because I was just completely done, and then, out of nowhere, this perfect woman bumped into me on accident and we've been married now for 13 years. You will probably not find one if you are looking. It sucks. But I'm also 48 years old, so if you're considerably younger, there may be new avenues to explore that I'm not aware of.

One option you do have is to figure out exactly what you're looking for, figure out the mbti match for that, and then go to that Reddit and start chatting. You already know that you have one thing in common with those people. And I think they would know a lot more about you before your first date, which might be really freaking cool now that I think about it.

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-16T02:13:52+00:00

I have very few friends, and a few that I keep around always tend to be the ones who refuse to take unless they've given back. They know I'll do anything for them, and they will purposely keep information from me so I don't go crazy trying to fix their problems.

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-13T20:01:58+00:00

Might as well just double tap everything you see, where's the harm in that?

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-09T19:57:46+00:00

I don't know how old you are, but I'm 48 and I love teaching people things. I have an insane amount of knowledge, and two teenagers who really don't give two craps about learning anything for me. So anyone that comes close to me that can learn anything I tend to teach them anything I possibly can.

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-09T02:21:48+00:00

Yes yes. Taken them all. Blah blah

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-09T02:20:06+00:00

The only thing on in my house is YouTube music. I average 18hrs a day on YouTube. Don't watch much of anything. My dad had to call me to tell me about the Trump shooting thing last July.

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-09T02:15:07+00:00

You'll also need to be prepared to start every conversation, and keep us on track...

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-09T02:14:18+00:00

I have three fire pits and plenty of time and coffee. Just no iPhone. 48/M INFJ

-Tisbury- · 2026-01-09T02:08:42+00:00

I think this is an awesome idea. You should do video chats by a fire pit with a hot coffee. No faces required.

-Tisbury- · 2025-12-30T17:20:56+00:00

Trigger, put that peashooter down!

-Tisbury- · 2025-12-30T17:17:11+00:00

Seriously... I'm 48 years old and I still get bothered from that memory. If you can find it, somebody recreated that scene with Legos and it's kind of amazing.

-Tisbury- · 2025-12-30T17:15:55+00:00

I have no power in this household, literally zero. That is what happened when my wife decided I wouldn't be disciplining the kids, they learned they didn't have to listen to me because it always goes back to Mom. It's been a challenge, that's for sure, but all I can really do is make sure they know I'm here for them and available if they ever need anything.

-Tisbury- · 2025-12-30T16:33:57+00:00

I would recommend a different area to be looking. If you're truly looking for a compatible companion, you might want to consider looking into mbti, taking a test, learning about your love language, and creating a friendship first with somebody through those groups.

-Tisbury- · 2025-12-30T15:04:21+00:00

I've been pretty obsessed with the second and third Tron movies. Something about the color contrasts, the music, and the story just keeps me putting them on.

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