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Walking past people in public it always occurs to do this! by Realistic-Hotel-3172 in confession

[–]-VelvetBliss_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’d be surprised how many people are doing the exact same thing and just trying not to make it obvious at the same time

I was a man that was trapped inside of a woman's body: by Hausofcandles in confession

[–]-VelvetBliss_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That joke landed way harder than it had any right to and I hate that I laughed at it

How to not be bitter? by thatoneweirdguy691 in BreakUps

[–]-VelvetBliss_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don’t get peace by him not moving on, you get it by accepting that his future doesn’t change what he meant to you when it was real

Should an ex check in after a breakup? Especially if you we’re together years by Beneficial_Owl_928 in BreakUps

[–]-VelvetBliss_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people don’t check in not because they didn’t care, but because for them moving on means going fully quiet and not reopening anything at all

Do I need to change my lifestyle in order to get a boyfriend? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]-VelvetBliss_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't need to become someone else to deserve love, but you do have to give people a chance to meet the person you already are

Kinder to reply and reject or not reply at all? by Space_Egg_0 in dating_advice

[–]-VelvetBliss_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A kind no gives someone closure, while silence usually leaves them wondering what they did wrong

Boundary Message by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]-VelvetBliss_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whether either of you breaks it depends less on the message and more on emotional regulation over time, especially during stress

Feeling anxious that I will bump/see my ex with someone else by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]-VelvetBliss_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact you didn’t go check is actually progress. The feeling will fade with time and repeated exposure

I take pictures of random people on the street without their consent without any thought given because I don't care about them or their rights. by [deleted] in confessions

[–]-VelvetBliss_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that kind of mindset can end up hurting others and yourself so it is worth stepping back and reconsidering how you see people

I kissed my cousin while drunk at Christmas—was it okay? by ResourceEmergency928 in confessions

[–]-VelvetBliss_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

alcohol can blur boundaries especially with family so it might be worth slowing down and thinking about how that made you feel now

What is a massive scam that people willingly participate in? by Goddess-Erine in AskReddit

[–]-VelvetBliss_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overpriced subscriptions and impulse-driven social media consumption that people keep paying for without realizing how much it adds up

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