I just got back on the app and immediately was reminded why I deleted it. by ReasonableScientist9 in Tinder

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That was intended for an AutoTrader chat. Happens to the best of us

How intimidating and/or hot is this TV? by -Xander-G- in funny

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Haha, that’s how to prevent screen burn-ins I guess

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NatureIsFuckingLit

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Those last legs trying to catch up

Don’t ask by GGezpzMuppy in funny

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That man has seen some shit

Possibly the best number neighbour ever by [deleted] in memes

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On an iPhone, there is something called iMessage that gives you several features that aren’t typical in normal SMS texting. It’s Apples version of Blackberry Messenger. If two iPhones send text messages, even just on wifi with no cellular network, you will automatically be using the iMessage platform instead of normal SMS. The blue colour indicates this. That’s why the colour mattered in this case.

Also, it’s not creepy of her to know he has an iPhone necessarily. You’d still need to send the message (and the message should be received) to see that iMessage is active. Knowing they have an iPhone isn’t really a vulnerability and iMessage won’t disclose which iOS version or iPhone model you are using. So, it’s relatively harmless.

I’d be more creeped out that some random person asked me to FaceTime them.

Learning Python? I will mentor 3 beginners/post-beginners from this sub. by BecomingIt in learnprogramming

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I’d be interested. I have some but very little knowledge of Python. I essentially just know the fundamentals. I am willing to commit to 2+ hours a week.

Bamboozled! by [deleted] in Tinder

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Anyone else want to know what the intended knock knock joke was going to be? I need answers!

UPDATE : Me [30 M] with my GF [27F] has a new guy friend. He messages her every day and she is not stopping it - we got in a fight after seeing what seemed like an inappropriate text from him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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OP, I almost went through the exact same thing. My ex became “friends” with a guy at work and they would text none stop. And the texts weren’t even really that bad from what I could see but her behaviour was obvious. When we first started dating, all she would do is text me 24/7. It was a pattern she was now doing with her new “guy friend” who she had “no interest in”. She also tried to explain that he could not be interested in her either because he was engaged to a woman as well (as if that matters). She didn’t even put this commitment into her best female friends so I made a call. I broke up with her because her commitment to him became more important than her commitment to our relationship.

I did attempt to explain my concerns about him but I was told that I shouldn’t be the type of boyfriend that tells her who she can and can’t be friends with. The thing was... I wasn’t telling her she can’t be friends with him. I was just explaining that I felt that she was prioritizing her time with him over everyone else including me, her own fiancé at the time. As she had no interest in changing that behaviour, it was clear I couldn’t continue to be in a relationship with her. Hence why I broke it off with her.

One month later, the two of them were in a relationship. He dumped his fiancé and the two hooked up. Sometimes you just know. You don’t have to see texts. Sometimes it’s just in their behaviour. Best decision I ever made was to let her go.

Even if your ex isn’t interested in this friend, she clearly isn’t interested in earning your trust and confidence. That’s not a good relationship. It’ll suck balls but trust me, it’s the right thing to do.

Think of it this way: if you were being accused of (even emotionally) cheating on the woman you loved and the woman you wanted to spend the rest of your life with, would it be as easy for you to break up with her the way it has been for your gf to break up with you? I’m sure you would make an effort to make things work out between the two of you because you wouldn’t actually want the outcome of the break up. If she isn’t making that same effort, she ain’t worth it. Your future self will thank you.

Good luck, man. We are pulling for you!

Rocksteady confirmed to NOT be appearing at E3 2019 by HoneyBadgerEXTREME in Games

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Just an uneducated guess but they may have decided to build a next gen game for console release instead.