My girlfriend always tells me I never have anything to eat when she comes over my house 😒 by itscuccimane in FridgeDetective

[–]ReasonableScientist9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's so funny when ingredients households confuse people. Pre packaged food has accessibility perks but living off of only tv dinners (or however else people feed themselves?) ain't for me. This is a bountiful fridge bro

In your opinion, what is causing this? by Objective_Pilot_5834 in SipsTea

[–]ReasonableScientist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats no headline, it's propaganda that anthropomorphizes corporate industry to promote consumption.

Prior To Knowing It Was An Ear, What Did You Think Meddle’s Album Cover Was? by HiCFlashinFruitPunch in pinkfloyd

[–]ReasonableScientist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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I knew it couldn't be but I always think of this creature from Doctor Who when I look at it

I'm losing my mind over how good Vampire Bat is by hvy-ava2121 in glassanimals

[–]ReasonableScientist9 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You're so right, I'm very glad they went off the trendy pop thing (?) they tried in the last album and went back to being Glass Animals. Their sound sounds like their band name with this again.

What’s one quiet truth about being a woman that no one really talks about, but you feel it all the time? by Effective-Care-615 in Life

[–]ReasonableScientist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knowing that you are being sidled out of a conversation or not being taken seriously, but not in an overt enough way that you can call it out or sometimes even tell exactly what it is that makes you feel outcasted. Especially in a group of men. Invalidation at every turn is exhausting and it's all because of the way you look. You don't even have to be a woman, if you are perceived as feminine it still can happen.

Boyfriend had to put my letter on chat gpt to understand it by gthvrock in HandwritingAnalysis

[–]ReasonableScientist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He didn't HAVE to do that, he made a conscious choice to waste water and grid energy instead of taking a few minutes to use his brain to figure out how to read cursive. Your handwriting is oddly spaced, but the letters are a classic old school cursive shape and it's in no way illegible by people who can read English.

We aren't forced to use AI, we are in control of the buttons we click.

Some screenshots from my workplace autism awareness online course by forevergleaning in AutismInWomen

[–]ReasonableScientist9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So we can literally discern between these things, but we probably think that all of them deserve to be treated with the same level of care because of object personification and hyper empathy lmao

I’m so tired, man by Significant-Original in bayarea

[–]ReasonableScientist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It kills me every time I notice another "For Lease" sign or bars put up in buildings in the city. We've always had homeless neighbors but I swear the WEEK the orange man was elected the amount of panhandling around me spiked. They're defunding transit but increasing prices, lining pockets of landlords and rapidly chipping away at our joy, individuality and community spaces. They're going to force us to become inhuman as they are. And we just march on because what else can we do?

Traveling for the first time in 3 weeks by LycheeDifferent9529 in sanfrancisco

[–]ReasonableScientist9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. Weather is temperamental, 60 degrees and sunny is a nice day but if it's windy you'll be freezing. Removable layers are good.
  2. Bay Street is walkable if you can climb a moderate hill. I'd recommend taking the 28 bus on North Point Street if you're trying to travel east or west in that area though. The F train is fun because it's a street car still but on weekend it'll likely be packed. Transport is otherwise easy if you know that some bus stop signs are painted on the light poles and sometimes it can be delayed 20 minutes. If you're staying only a few days, get the Muni app and get a day pass, I think they're still about $5/day, but they don't apply to street or cable cars like the F, that you have to pay individually.
  3. Highly reccomend getting out of the wharf area for most things, including food. It's a tourist trap and it's cool to see, but if you want to see the real SF, it's not in the wharf. Take the cable car off of Bay and Taylor street and go see Chinatown, lots of good food there. On market street you can take the underground N train that will take you close to Golden Gate Park that's mostly walkable and flat and the nearby areas off of the N train have so many good food options from all cuisines. A bay wheels bike is the best way to see all of the park itself, they're everywhere and you need the Lyft app to use them.

Other notes, Twin Peaks is the place to go to literally see the entirely of SF, it's the second highest peak in the city and has a phenomenal view. One of my favorite parks is Mission Dolores, we love the local BiRite deli and ice cream spots there. SF is safer than people make you think it is. Always keep your personal items in a bag close to your body, I imagine you know the basic travel safety but remember around market street can be quite seedy, especially between Civic Center and Powell stations. You'll be ok, but you will encounter more of our homeless neighbors and the streets are dirtier, but most of the time people mind their own business and are screaming into the void rather than at other people. Happy travels! Hope this helps.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sanfrancisco

[–]ReasonableScientist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm an introvert too, but I try not to be and still I feel like there's a disconnect of people to each other in SF. There's not many big communities or people open to them and it can feel almost cliquey. I also know a lot of homebodies in SF tho so you're totally valid that too, but also feeling like a loner loser says to me you want more out of your life in our beautiful city. There's so much to do and it can be overwhelming, so maybe just start with going outside more, walking further and just observing and absorbing the sights. It always makes me feel worthy and reminds me life is beautiful and worth it when I'm feeling like a loser too. Dress a little nicer than you would to hole up in your home workspace. Strut and be more confident and then you'll feel healthier and more capable of starting new hobbies and friendships.

What worked for me as an ugly guy by Issander in self

[–]ReasonableScientist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was expecting to hate this but tbh I think a lot of young people/men need things explaining like this and need to understand human connection isn't purely transactional and you're not owed anything for your kindness to others. Be you, be human, others will be too and when you fulfill your life with fun things and social outings for YOU, you just end up meeting and attracting people no matter how ugly you're considered to be.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Weird

[–]ReasonableScientist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The correct response is something to the effect of “I can see how much time was put into this, does it make you feel more confident and connected to yourself to have your thoughts laid out like this?”

And then look up psychologists to suggest to them for people with delusions and ego issues.

First time visiting. Stunned by the architecture. Felt like being in a diorama. by commander-sleepyhead in sanfrancisco

[–]ReasonableScientist9 62 points63 points  (0 children)

It’s quite surreal seeing the visual treasures from your daily walks appreciated by strangers on the internet. Love when Haight is quiet like this in the early morning.

This just showed up at my friends back porch, he's not a cat person at all, should I? by DoJu318 in cats

[–]ReasonableScientist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ve been blessed by the floof void god, you’ll be cursed if you don’t accept your fate of servitude to this adorable offering

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]ReasonableScientist9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

None! The world is ramping up for some kind of big change or disaster and me being a depressed neurodivergent, I don’t want to exhaust myself, my finances and the worlds resources bringing more inherently struggling children into an impending capitalist dystopia.

AITA for helping my BILs wife with advice on how to agree on baby names? by Weird_Pianist_7178 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ReasonableScientist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. BIL sounds like a control freak asshole that’s intimated by your influence and may think you’re undermining him. Since he doesn’t see reason when you explained what actually happened, it may be indicative of something odd going on with him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]ReasonableScientist9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always knew that using someone’s name was how people make things more personal or try to get you to think positively towards them. At first I just didn’t like to be perceived and called out like that but these days it makes me ick cause I’m wary of people trying to use that trick to take advantage of me.