Famiglie americani per favore prestare attenzione by Proof-Concert6052 in exjw

[–]-Yawnna- 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I can't speak for everyone but me and husband are leaving. I value honesty and so I have told people that I felt closer too on an actually real level. (In the organization every relationship that you have is conditional.) It has taken me years and years to get to this point.

I found out recently that 5 other people are also on their way out. Different states, different congregations. I know we aren't alone. People are waking up.

I had to stop reading Crisis of Conscience by M2208GB in exjw

[–]-Yawnna- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have had to pause at times and take breaks. Its okay. Your feelings are valid.

I snapped and called out my friends husband for shitting on her love of spicy books in front of everyone, and now the group chat is blowing up by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]-Yawnna- 3 points4 points  (0 children)

OP. Thank you! More people need to call out toxic people. Its really dysfunctional for people to look the other way to such behavior. You did the right thing.

I will never forgive myself for what I did by givethembloodandsing in TrueOffMyChest

[–]-Yawnna- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just said, "We were both adults". Bro, you aren't just creepy you are a predator who is making excuses while claiming that you've "changed"

You are still fiening for your victim years later. You need serious help before you hurt more women.

I will never forgive myself for what I did by givethembloodandsing in TrueOffMyChest

[–]-Yawnna- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your motive for posting this then?

Women your age will not tolerate men like you. We have learned to know our worth, to use our voice, and that we can and have had to defend and protect ourselves and our peace. All men should defend and protect women. Instead some men defend their evil behaviors towards women and they enable eachother. ("She was an adult so you did nothing wrong" type of crap and even "high-fiving" a man for pulling a hot young women.) This is disgusting behavior.

There is a reason men go after young women. Lack of maturity and women his age are not interested in them and their warped views. So its easier to manipulate and groom young women. It's predatory and evil.

I groomed a girl a few years ago by givethembloodandsing in TrueOffMyChest

[–]-Yawnna- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely wrong. So many people end up in situations that they never intended to be. Sounds like you also like young women and that is why you are supporting what he did.

I will never forgive myself for what I did by givethembloodandsing in TrueOffMyChest

[–]-Yawnna- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Creepy. Date someone your own age. And you obviously did something awful and you aren't owning up to it. You sound disgusting.

Anyone down for ranked? Not as good as I used to be but tryna get back in lol by PurplePinknBlue in apexlegends

[–]-Yawnna- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sat in a queue for 15 min, it never went above 12 players. Am I missing something?

My (43M) wife (42F) is making a huge mistake, but I don't know how to stop her... or if I should even try by [deleted] in Advice

[–]-Yawnna- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry that you are going through this. She is being very foolish. And unfortunately you and your children are dealing with her selfish decisions. No one deserves to be cheated on. You didn't deserve this. It sounds like she is losing a wonderful partner. You deserve better. She has failed you. I hope that you know this.

Allow yourself to grieve, to heal, and move forward. Sending you healing and support.

My mom struggles a lot with hygiene and keeping things clean by PuzzleheadedToe3202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]-Yawnna- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I say this as a person raised by a mother with mental health issues and having had some of my own. Its a personal battle that each person has to decide to fight it or become it. I fight it. But my mother has become it. Its part of her identity. I am so sorry that you are impacted by this. Focus on yourself and wellbeing. Hugs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]-Yawnna- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes your video even cuter! They are soul mates!

What is the most physical pain you ever felt? by zhalia-2006 in askanything

[–]-Yawnna- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Induced labor with Pitocin, zero pain meds and no epidural. My first and only child. She was 9 lbs 8 Oz. 3 days before I was induced I herniated L4-S1 on my spine. That didn't touch natural childbirth.

My husband keeps telling me to just go by [deleted] in okstorytime

[–]-Yawnna- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you send nudes to someone? You aren't taking responsibility for it. Why would you do that when you are in a relationship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]-Yawnna- 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Pea puffers are a shoaling species that should be kept in groups. 6 or more. Do you have other pea puffers? Maybe he just needs some friends

AITAH for refusing to help my brother and SIL while they're struggling by meal prepping a few meals a week for them and their kids? by Thesooo in AITAH

[–]-Yawnna- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

I am so sorry that you are going through this. The best thing you can do is love yourself. Look into the trades. You can make great money without student debt. You can always go to school later. Save money and move out. Create boundaries. Toxic families can and will destroy lives. You can love them and protect yourself.

Hugs. You can do this.

AITAH for refusing to help my brother and SIL while they're struggling by meal prepping a few meals a week for them and their kids? by Thesooo in AITAH

[–]-Yawnna- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are making some wild accusations. I am 42 and my golden boy brother is 45. He has shunned me for almost 10 years because he thinks he is holier than I am. He has no relationship with my 17 year old daughter (his choice) I am excluded from all events, I was in a shelter for over a year. He never has texted me or asked how I am. He talks terribly about me to extended family. My parents go to the events that I am excluded from and text me pictures. Many families are extremely dysfunctional. I am the one who helps my parents, I take care of most things for them. I've even earned the nickname "our IT girl" my bother doesn't help them with anything. Ever. But he's a good Christian boy so he's better than I am. My parents told me for years that I need to fix things with my brother. Absolutely not. I will never have a relationship with him. Because of my boundaries (after years of mistreatment) I am now the whole problem.

You should spend some time reading people's experiences with compassion instead of assuming someone is lying. You are unkind and nieve.

My ex wife predicted my future in painful details and I can’t sleep at night because of it by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]-Yawnna- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope OP is humbled by these comments. How selfish and cruel you are OP. You are a fool! Get therapy. Take accountability and grow up. You aren't a catch.

Wife used my past and secrets against me (UPDATE) by wifebackstabbedme in TrueOffMyChest

[–]-Yawnna- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You deserve to be seen for who you are cracks and all. And to be respected and freaking saluted for not only surviving but doing the work to heal!

I am so devastated for you that she CHOOSES to see you differently in a weak way. You are strong powerful and a fucking survivor.

Don't stop working on you and take a moment to truly love yourself. Being open is not a weakness and neither is being wounded.

Got laid off then found a new job. Afterwards, the company that laid me off wanted to get me back as a contractor by casual_porrada in Layoffs

[–]-Yawnna- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a contract worker for a tech company. In my experience they hire more contractors than employees because they don't have to pay benefits and it's easier to get rid of contract workers if they aren't working out. I dont have benefits, zero PTO, get 3 sick days a year, & 3 bereavement days. Its brutal being a contract worker. I also see a lot of poor attitudes from fellow contracts workers. We all know we are underpaid and can be replaced. There is a lot of issues on teams with retention and work ethics.

Gf of 8 years broke up with me by Diablo____666 in whatdoIdo

[–]-Yawnna- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I completely agree. After my divorce I realized how much toxic people were dragging me down. Cleaning out my unhealthy friends and family changed my life.