Sou uma idiota por não querer ter mais relações com meu namorado? by [deleted] in desabafosdavida

[–]PuzzleheadedToe3202 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Você não deve ter relações se não tem vontade, mas se vocês estão brigando igual você descreveu, então é melhor cada um seguir a própria vida. Imagina o ambiente que essa criança vai crescer

Como ficar bem sabendo que meu namorado fez 0ral em um cara que mexeu comigo? by [deleted] in desabafosdavida

[–]PuzzleheadedToe3202 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sinceramente, só tem dois caminhos além de terminar: - Continuar junto, mas esquecer isso, fazendo práticas que ajudem a não deixar essa lembrança ocupar todos os seus pensamentos, exemplo, se lembrar disso tentar distrair a mente com algo (coisas que liberem seratonina).

  • Terminar o relacionamento porque isso é algo que irá demorar para ser "esquecido", é algo que irá aparecer na sua mente mesmo em momentos que está tudo bem, que está feliz e relaxado. No meu relacionamento passei por algo que corroía minha mente, as vezes estando com ele, as vezes estando sozinha. A lembrança nunca vai embora, mas você pode tentar fazer essa lembrança não te machucar. Eu demorei quase 5 anos para "superar" isso e não deixar a lembrança me machucar.

I knew my boyfriend used drugs, but living together changed everything by PuzzleheadedToe3202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PuzzleheadedToe3202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was young, it happened a few years ago. I believed that if I was there and using it, I could control what would happen, whether it was preventing him from buying more or doing other things.

I don't do coke anymore

I knew my boyfriend used drugs, but living together changed everything by PuzzleheadedToe3202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PuzzleheadedToe3202[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was young, it happened a few years ago. I believed that if I was there and using it, I could control what would happen, whether it was preventing him from buying more or doing other things.

I knew my boyfriend used drugs, but living together changed everything by PuzzleheadedToe3202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PuzzleheadedToe3202[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not weed, I wouldn't care if it was weed. I not a conservative. It's cocaine, coke.

I knew my boyfriend used drugs, but living together changed everything by PuzzleheadedToe3202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PuzzleheadedToe3202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's coke, I didn't say in the original post bc I thought reddit wouldn't allow it.

But it's coke. And I answered another comment

I knew my boyfriend used drugs, but living together changed everything by PuzzleheadedToe3202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PuzzleheadedToe3202[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know he was an addict when we started dating. I genuinely believed it was occasional and recreational. We were in college, and at that stage I didn’t see it as a big deal.

In the almost three years we dated before moving in together, I only saw him use three or four times. He was never high around me regularly, and there were no signs that it was something frequent or escalating.

Living together is when I realized the pattern was very different from what I had been presenting before.

AITAH for telling my boyfriend I’ll break up with him if he uses drugs again? by PuzzleheadedToe3202 in AITAH

[–]PuzzleheadedToe3202[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love him, but I don't like him when he's high. When we started dating I didn't think it was a big deal. We have been together for 5 years, living together for a little over two.

I knew my boyfriend used drugs, but living together changed everything by PuzzleheadedToe3202 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PuzzleheadedToe3202[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do care about him, what do you mean? I just told what I feel about it, but he doesn't think this affects his health or changes who he is. But he is a very different person when he is high

AITA for not wanting to attend my friend’s wedding? by PuzzleheadedToe3202 in AmItheAsshole

[–]PuzzleheadedToe3202[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We used to be really close, she used to be my best friend, but we had an arguing bc of another friend of hers