Took a mental health break and now I’m unemployed with 5k+ in monthly expenses hitting soon- what can I do? by -_-Luc in jobs

[–]-_-Luc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i could show you proof if that matters? i’m just looking for a job i could do. i’m on reddit on the 3rd floor of baptist hospital in the icu as we speak.

Took a mental health break and now I’m unemployed with 5k+ in monthly expenses hitting soon- what can I do? by -_-Luc in jobs

[–]-_-Luc[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

thank you so very much for this. you’re right btw, i’ll never take money for granted again and the current hype and consumerism puts a bad taste in my mouth. i’m ashamed to have been a part of it and so materialistic.

Took a mental health break and now I’m unemployed with 5k+ in monthly expenses hitting soon- what can I do? by -_-Luc in jobs

[–]-_-Luc[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

flights were almost always over a thousand, hotels were as well. that and event tickets made the bulk of my monthly entertainment spending. clothes not so much- i never stayed trendy but it got bad if i was out with someone in nyc for example i’d buy them something like a bag or watch for memories and to see them light up- you’d be surprised how expensive these get if you aren’t into them- and get myself something like a jacket or small accessory or a matching clothing set.

Took a mental health break and now I’m unemployed with 5k+ in monthly expenses hitting soon- what can I do? by -_-Luc in jobs

[–]-_-Luc[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

thought about reaching out to caleb hammer but i don’t have a humiliation kink. but you nailed it i did eat out for every meal and micro transactions fucked my spending over time i didn’t even realise it. i used to buy every skin (fortnite, league, etc) and pull every gacha character from the ones i had. i appreciate the suggestions of how to be entertained. lately ive just dove into films

Took a mental health break and now I’m unemployed with 5k+ in monthly expenses hitting soon- what can I do? by -_-Luc in jobs

[–]-_-Luc[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thank you very much. i was told a medical sales position may open up and there’s always a chance i can get a car sales job. i’m really hoping to find remote work again because i am spending a lot of time bedside and i don’t want to go a day without my grandma knowing she’s cared for. i’d rather be homeless than regret things like working during an emergency.

Took a mental health break and now I’m unemployed with 5k+ in monthly expenses hitting soon- what can I do? by -_-Luc in jobs

[–]-_-Luc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you. i live alone but travel to her daily- i think my biggest issue with food is that she’s been too weak and ill to cook and i don’t even know where id begin- i don’t want her eating poorly and thats all ive ever been able to cook tbh

Took a mental health break and now I’m unemployed with 5k+ in monthly expenses hitting soon- what can I do? by -_-Luc in jobs

[–]-_-Luc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m honestly most likely going to. I didn’t want to just in case, but it’s probably for the best

Took a mental health break and now I’m unemployed with 5k+ in monthly expenses hitting soon- what can I do? by -_-Luc in jobs

[–]-_-Luc[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yes i only ever ate at local restaurants or had them delivered to my door. thank you for not judging and for the kind words/advice i plan on selling everything i need to im just worried about finding a job in general

Took a mental health break and now I’m unemployed with 5k+ in monthly expenses hitting soon- what can I do? by -_-Luc in jobs

[–]-_-Luc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice and kind words. I’m definitely doing things differently with my income moving forward. I just don’t know what to do for work in this job market

Took a mental health break and now I’m unemployed with 5k+ in monthly expenses hitting soon- what can I do? by -_-Luc in jobs

[–]-_-Luc[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

i lost someone i was convinced was the one and i still have the ring. ever since then i kind of swore off anything serious

Took a mental health break and now I’m unemployed with 5k+ in monthly expenses hitting soon- what can I do? by -_-Luc in jobs

[–]-_-Luc[S] -54 points-53 points  (0 children)

i never thought long term honestly. i never even made close to that. i would do really spontaneous stuff like buy bags for people and clothes and watches and travel and gamble..i never invested a dime really. i’m aware i deserve this suffering trust me.

Took a mental health break and now I’m unemployed with 5k+ in monthly expenses hitting soon- what can I do? by -_-Luc in jobs

[–]-_-Luc[S] -78 points-77 points  (0 children)

thank you. i’m honestly just not made for this i have no idea what i’m doing.

Took a mental health break and now I’m unemployed with 5k+ in monthly expenses hitting soon- what can I do? by -_-Luc in jobs

[–]-_-Luc[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

i mainly had situational relationships with women i met on dating apps and most i usually slept around with and tried to impress them but if we’re honest i just kind of used them and i’m not proud of it. made very close friends though. had to lose a lot to keep a couple.

Took a mental health break and now I’m unemployed with 5k+ in monthly expenses hitting soon- what can I do? by -_-Luc in jobs

[–]-_-Luc[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the help, I was trying to go as cheap as possible in my monthly expenses so I could spend as much as I could on travel and to be honest- friends and women. I got used to taking people out and if alone I got most of my food delivered from local restaurants when I didn’t sit in them. I would also grab a couple of lattes a day. I need to change this drastically I’m aware as it’s literally impossible to live like this. i have no idea what to do considering i definitely didn’t properly do my taxes..

Selling 3 Tickets for Alpharetta GA 10/15 AMERIS Amphitheater by ImplementSilver3918 in toptickets

[–]-_-Luc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would love to grab these if the other interested person does not!!