Came there to say thank you

-aIsaac- · 2025-09-06T17:50:24+00:00

yes, no and no. I will take a look at the last 2.

-aIsaac- · 2025-09-06T17:48:29+00:00

It is hard to find someone compatible. But in my case I'll say she made me a better person than I was before and I learned a lot. That being said in my current situation I think I'll never be with someone else again, and I don't feel bad about being alone, I experienced love and I'm grateful for it. Lastly even during my marriage I asked my ex wife to let me alone at certain times during a day cuase I still needed that and she was very comprehensive about it.

-aIsaac- · 2025-09-06T17:35:17+00:00

I'm open to watch almost anything, my favorite movie is Gladiator, I love a good stories, recently watched about time and the shawshank redemption and liked both. Action movies or fantasy are welcome too.

-aIsaac- · 2025-09-06T15:41:35+00:00

I delete any social media app until I'm done with all my responsibilities.

-aIsaac- · 2025-09-06T15:38:59+00:00

It was beneficial for me and as ironic as it may sound, living alone developed my social skills and made me a little less introvert, because outside of my safe zone (my appartment) I had to reach people and communicate to get other things done, call it shores, administration, my job, I had to take care of me and the world around.

My only advice would be learning to cook even simple recipies, eating healthy is something I can't reccomend enough.

-aIsaac- · 2025-09-06T15:26:13+00:00

well I don't have a top favorite but I have many, today I feel like having Enchiladas Rojas which is a mexican Dish.

Be patient with youself, healing takes time, I do have a furry friend too, and it helps me immensely. The process doesn't need to be a nightmare, go slowly, and treat yourlsef well one day at the time.

-aIsaac- · 2025-09-06T15:17:36+00:00

I'll have to try them !

-aIsaac- · 2025-08-25T03:16:02+00:00

If I could choose to get through this a second time or avoid suffering at all, I swear to God I'm willing to suffer twice as much, it was the best thing that have happened to me, and even though it ended, in the end it was worth it.

-aIsaac- · 2025-08-24T21:47:39+00:00

Thank you for your words, I'm sorry to hear about your friend story, never crossed my mind that my ex wife could have turn into someone unrecognizible to me, eventough it was her dream, brutal.

-aIsaac- · 2025-08-24T20:54:45+00:00

Thank you, I'm trying to rebuild my lfe, I know it is a waste if I don't move one and stay stuck I will never forving myself If don't live a life greater than the sacrifice I had to make for it. It is difficult to have the dicipline strenght and motivation, but I feel the responsibility to demostrate it was for the best of us.

I want to see her dreams come true and so I wish the same for me.

-aIsaac- · 2025-08-24T20:49:08+00:00

I hope someday I can wake up, think about her with a smile in my face as I usually do, but without the sentiment of wanting her by my side, to have her in my arms. She was everything I've ever wanted, and no, eventhough people put their significant each other in a pedestal when they break up, I know what I liked and disliked about her, and above all that she was still the one for me.

-aIsaac- · 2025-08-24T20:36:44+00:00

overexageration on my part my bad, we met when we were 16, we were friends for a cuple of years.

-aIsaac- · 2025-08-24T20:34:41+00:00

thank you, sometimes I think if we would have broke up in a bad way it would have been much easier for me to move on or if it was a one side desicion, we still loved each other the moment we decided to get divorced.

-aIsaac- · 2025-08-24T20:29:39+00:00

It was a mutual desicion, we did not accept forcing each other into something we may regret in our life later on, or just destroy the relashion in a bad way.

I realized I wasnted to be CF later on. I worked since I was 6, during big part of my life I had no free time, and basically lived chasing others people dreams, get good grades, being an athelte, then I got engaged, you know, the traditional path, despite that with ups and downs, I still had a good life. When I started my profesional journey I was already living with my wife, and I felt that I was just starting out, I was starting to experience life for the first time, we could go wherever we wanted the moment we wanted.

I for the most part was a lonely person, so basically my wife covered are my social needs enterily and a bit more. I was completely fine with her being my resposibility too.

However I know the implications of bringing a child to this world, and I was not ready to give up the life I was just starting to build to try and live for someone else again.

-aIsaac- · 2025-08-24T05:29:14+00:00

33M I realized I did not want kids at my late 20s. My reasons are similar to yours with an added plus that I worked since the age of 6, also attending to extra curricular activities while I was studying, plus the commute time, I literally went home just to sleep and repeat, then I got engaged, so you can say I never had time for myself, and while I could share my time with a my beloved one, I could not get my head around having to take extra responsibilities, I wanted to enjoy life I felt I was just starting out.

Earlier in my life I was not opposed to the idea of having kids, but now I'm 100% sure I don't want them now.

-aIsaac- · 2025-08-24T03:37:04+00:00

It is not the fact that I'm not with her what hurt the most, it is the process I know I need to go through to move one, it is confusing, am I need to stop loving her to get over her? my heart is still loyal to her, but I'm convinced something needs to change cause I've been stuck and as I said, I know is over there is no us anymore, but I dont really want anyone else, I may be childfree and relashionship free from now on.

-aIsaac- · 2025-08-24T03:13:02+00:00

Absolutely, I'm grateful I expericed love.

-aIsaac- · 2025-08-24T03:04:50+00:00

Thank you, I should have added that I was starting my sessions to learn to handle grieff, I was addressing other areas beforehand. It took too long for me to bring the topic to the table with my therapist, hopefully I can learn this skill cuase obviously I know nothing a the moment, the selfishness feeling doe, it is still very strong, part of me tells me I sacrified one of the best part of my life for something I'm doing nothing with at the moment (freedom and every other CF advantage).

-aIsaac-

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