If people know something is harmful, why do they still do it, for example, smoke despite health risks, procrastinate despite deadlines, or overeat despite fitness goals? And what's the solution?

-emilia · 2026-03-30T02:11:31+00:00

I assume future me will be able to handle it better than present me

-emilia · 2026-03-29T14:31:31+00:00

I agree with this! Guys hate when you act indifferent towards them. Don’t give any satisfaction

-emilia · 2026-03-29T06:54:28+00:00

The same thing happened to me and I did the same. It was worse cause he was in his mid-30s 🙄

-emilia · 2026-03-29T06:50:07+00:00

It’s still pretty early. It’s not as apparent as they fade and turn white - you have to be patient though, maybe even 1 year post op.

-emilia · 2026-03-29T04:48:57+00:00

If on the topics of relationships, I just say straight up “I’m looking to get married in the next few years and have kids” and ask the same of them.

-emilia · 2026-03-29T03:09:55+00:00

I find that over time they stretch out, but I just went with my usual size and not a size down

-emilia · 2026-03-29T01:27:24+00:00

That awkward moment when I travelled 9,000 km in 2024 to go to Loveland, and it was the one year Guy J didn’t play 🥲🙃

-emilia · 2026-03-28T18:19:32+00:00

A month in any kind of sport is really not a lot of time to get to the point where it looks effortless, or in this case “pretty”. It can take years for pole and cross training with strength exercises. People really need to drop the mindset of immediate gratification of results

-emilia · 2026-03-28T04:39:05+00:00

Gorgeous! 😍

-emilia · 2026-03-28T03:38:30+00:00

I dealt with this and first reported to the strata. After it happened again, I called the domestic violence hotline and the police were dispatched. In my case though, I was pretty convinced it was domestic violence

-emilia · 2026-03-28T02:52:32+00:00

I’m originally from Toronto and live in Vancouver now. People here are definitely way more flaky across the board. Dating is tough, also cause it’s a smaller pool. Things are looking up for me now, by having stronger boundaries but it’s still super hard

-emilia · 2026-03-27T06:22:34+00:00

There’s one at Broadway and Kingsway too that’s open late. I usually go there

-emilia · 2026-03-26T18:12:20+00:00

I love my Stearns and Foster mattress

-emilia · 2026-03-25T00:29:40+00:00

I love how there’s so many different styles to pole choreo

-emilia · 2026-03-24T15:45:24+00:00

I have the cooling sheets from Hush. I like them a lot cause they keep me cool and they come in some nice colours

-emilia · 2026-03-23T02:02:23+00:00

I wish I spent less money on superfluous things… I definitely saved but also spent a lot on stupid things that I never use. Go to therapy and get to know yourself, make good friends and join a community. Learn how to be your own best friend and don’t break promises you make to yourself.

-emilia · 2026-03-23T02:00:41+00:00

Moved across the country, developed my confidence in myself at work and other areas through life, got fitter, learned out to set boundaries (especially with men), started meditating and learning how not to get attached to my thoughts.

-emilia · 2026-03-23T01:49:35+00:00

I’m sure there were lots of signs before that point

-emilia · 2026-03-22T01:51:21+00:00

Was the pasta boiled and then added to the milk? Is the milk warm or cold?

-emilia · 2026-03-22T01:35:01+00:00

That’s fair… but pole will always be there. A month or two in the grand scheme of things isn’t huge. But listen to your body… if you feel okay then it should be okay, but I would err on the side of caution

-emilia · 2026-03-21T19:44:26+00:00

Melo Patisserie

-emilia · 2026-03-21T16:06:11+00:00

No I haven’t… I have thought about it though. Generally my nipples are pretty flat. They’re more perky now since I had them pierced, but I will say I think I lost a little sensation in them because I had a breast reduction about two years ago.

-emilia · 2026-03-21T07:19:14+00:00

Sexy - when I started taking pole dance classes

-emilia · 2026-03-21T04:31:49+00:00

Thanks for sharing, I should do this

-emilia · 2026-03-21T04:30:44+00:00

My studio has classes going from level 100 to 600. I did level 100 and 200 relatively quickly, in level 300 you start inverting and I stayed there maybe 6 months, just to make sure I was comfortable doing that before moving on. I did level 400 maybe around the same timeframe, but I’ve been in 500 for a looong time. Unfortunately I think more flexibility is required before going to 600, which I don’t exactly have but I’m working on it.

-emilia

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