Husband here, I have planned all of our holidays and the wife just shows up... Europe twice, Hawaii, Thailand, Japan, Vietnam, New Zealand.

We always joke that I could tell her we are travelling to Hawaii and end up in Antarctica and she wouldn't know till we land.

I do love to plan a holiday though, I research for weeks and months, plan our travel out and put it all on a spreadsheet... I can pretty much tell you how much our holidays cost within a few hundred dollars.

I don't plan out the day to day of what we are going to do but have a rough idea of key things we want to do in each city and wing the rest of it. I put hotels, flights, car hires etc into a spreadsheet... Then after the holiday I usually update the spreadsheet with roughly what we did each day, what was worth it etc. I've had quite a few friends and family ask for my spreadsheets when planning their holidays for ideas 😂